my freinds and i when we get to talking about sex they always call me a freak just because i would give a ********, try anal sex, have a three some and i have dirty thoughts and ideas more than they do.
and also when they have questions about sex, i can always answer them. i dont sleep around or anything but im not a virgin either.and i dont consider sex a special love thing like most girls do. so i tell them when i get married and my husband wants to bring in another person into the bedroom, i would be ok with it.coz i would want to do the same and i wouldnt mind if he goes to strip clubs or anything.does this make me a freak?
2007-01-11 11:49:03 · 37 answers · asked by *~$The 1 nd onlii shawty$~* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey, we are alike. I consider myself a freak, and I like it. But im pritty sure that you are using the term 'freak' negatively.
It isnt bad to have these thoughts. People become interested in sex differently. I have done alot of things that my friends wouldnt do, and I know that i friend of mine did something that I would never do.
Sex in a personal thing, whether you like it or not - and what interests you may not interest other people..
2007-01-11 11:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no ur not a freak. U just seem very expirimental. U do however dont ahve any moreal values i see. if u let ur husband go to strip clubs and have threesomes and all that jazz then that means that u dont want a serious relationship.that u wont actually love him nor will he love u back. In my opinion sex is a special love thing ,when u LOVE some . Sex can be for having fun partyin and all the fun stuff alot of people do. I personally think if u brought a kid into the world and no matter how hard u may have taught him that love is important and all that stuf..the kid will never respect anyone in that manner. and grow up with the wrong perception of what is right over what is wrong. just my thoughts
2007-01-11 12:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. I'm the same way you are about sex, it's not a special love thing or anything like that. I haven't had anal sex or a threesome and I have drity thoughts and ideas all the time. I don't understand why your friends care so much about your sex life. When you are married, you do whatever you want, and just so you know that's not a freak, that's confidence.
2007-01-11 11:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by snowbaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't think it does...I mean, just because you have more comfortable (for you) and inclusive ideas about sex than they do doesn't mean it makes you a freak. There are FAR worse things that have to do with sex that would make a person a freak. Your opinions on sex are just different from what SOME others usually perceive it--so forget the freak deal and don't let comments like these keep you from getting YOUR freak on. Safely, that is. ^_-
2007-01-11 12:01:46 · answer #4 · answered by huynh_hh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok
The answer is definitely no because you like to try a lot of new and interesting things so you can gain some experience and make some lucky guy very very happy and special someday
You don`t have to worry about anything
So go on and have fun
As we Romanians say "O viata ai si-o gaura in C_r"
Forgot the spelling check i got 2 :((
Ps Contact me for the translation :) I hope it`s ok to do that here
2007-01-11 11:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by Liviu@ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..but if they think u r a freak because of this, maybe u should keep these thoughts personal.its all good that way. U did not say how old u r. But im hoping u r an adult.Personally, i cant imagine sex without love. But u r a different entity..totally entitled to have your own views.
2007-01-11 11:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are a freak but I do think you are the perfect woman. A guy will be lucky to have you as his girlfriend! Girls like you don't come around very often so you should be proud and not ashamed of the person that you are.
2007-01-11 11:54:40 · answer #7 · answered by Sir Alex Awesome Valentine, Esq. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever when you consider that i changed into little and til on the present time i have continually called my mum "Mummy" and my dad "Daddy". basically because they not in any respect replied to "mum"/"dad". and it is continually stuck, i assume. similar with my siblings, too. I swear each and each and every time my mom calls me at paintings, and that i answer saying "hi, mummy", i'm getting the most strangest looks from my paintings colleagues. They continually discover that hilarious and often take the mic. and that i'm able to surely see why it is humorous lol yet, it isn't in any respect replaced, and that i doubt it is going to. mom and pa will continually be Mummy and Daddy. And mainly because they received't respond to at least something else from their little ones! : )
2016-12-02 03:42:52 · answer #8 · answered by boshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are a freak. I find you very interesting. I admire your honesty. The same women that call you a freak just can't be as open about their desires but they have them too.
I don't think that marriage and that type of lifestyle are a mix. If you want to live that type of lifestyle........better to stay single and just live with your partner. Marriage vows negate the multiple partners thing. I think its better to stay single and get the sex thing out of your system and when you're ready to settle down and devote yourself to one person.........get married.
2007-01-11 12:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by john c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about respect. If your future husband is going to strip clubs and wants a 3some, he does not respect you. You obviously don't respect yourself either if your ok with that. You'll never have a close bond in your relationship and that's sad. Sure, it's ok to do freaky stuff with him but when you start inviting other people to join, you'll end up in divorce sooner rather then later.
2007-01-11 11:54:10 · answer #10 · answered by ♫♪~♥ ME ♥~♪♫ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋