I'm a 23 year old virgin, almost 24. Would a girl be imbarassed to go out with me?

Question

Do you think it is normal for a 23 year old guy like me to be virgin?
I am just not very liked by girls, it's like they see right through me, like I'm invisible... Maybe I'm ugly...
Would a girl be imbarassed to go out with me?
Do you think that this is the reason that I'm invisible for them (I mean they are imbarassed to look at me because I'm ugly)...?
I did go to the gim until the end of the summer and when it was warm outside (until winter) I used to do jogging 1 or 2 times a week.
My height is 172 cm, my weight is 57 kilos, I have brown eyes and hair. I'm a little bit "up-tight" or shy with women.

Do you think I should wait untill I get marry (if I'll ever get married, more exactly... but even if it happenes, that will not happen in the next 2 or 3 years... so I'll probably be 27 years old by that time)...?

Please, for the ones that answered to my question and for the ones that will answer, please rewrite (or write, for the latter ones) your answer and enter your age so I could understand better the people that can give me the same answers in the real life.

Please write your AGE when you answer...
Sorry for the misspelled "imbarassed"... I saw that mistake only after I clicked the "Submit" button.

Answer 1

absolutely not.

Answer 2

i might want to be shocked up to now a 24 12 months previous virgin however it would not be an issue. better than relationship a male slut. perchance adult males do not understand it yet at the same time as females understand you've slept round, we are not that in touch cuz you look dirty. sense free that you're literally not that- you're priceless as a virgin- male or lady. Being approached is a capture 22 question: if we are attracted to the guy we adore it, if we are not, that's awkward. attempt to make eye contact with a lady and if she smiles and looks at you back and back... then she probable needs you to come back search for suggestion from from her... you do not ought to ask her out promptly... you could basically say she gave the impact of an exciting human being to search for suggestion from from... let her supply you an illustration to flow ahead. some females will comprehend that you do not favor to be pushy and could actually ask you out or provide their telephone variety- high-quality cuz they do the supply you the outcomes you want! solid success!

Answer 3

I'm a 21 year old guy, I am a virgin. I don't consider myself to be ugly, i have been a male model in the past, and i don't have much problem attracting ladies and i do have good self esteem. However, this doesn't mean that i go around sleeping with every girl that shows interest. i'm not neccasarily saving myself for marriage, but i do beleive in saving myself for someone i truly have feelings for. Sex isn't something to be taken lightly, it is a gift that we have been given, and it is the highest level of intimacy you can possibly have with someone. I think you shouldnt feel pressure to find someone to sleep with you because you are getting older...relax and things tend to work out. Just wait for the right person to come along who you get to know very well and you won't feel so much pressure because theres a level of trust and understanding.

Answer 4

Make yourself join Toastmasters.

Learn how to speak with confidence to people of both sexes.

Watch Beauty and the Geek there are a lot of lessons to be learned there (rent last season)

Keep working out until you're buff.

Then work getting a job where you work with lots of women.

Find a dude who's successful with women and bribe him to let you be his wingman. Then you get to hit on his leftovers.

Tell him to be honest and let you know if you say of do something socialy retarded.

Don't expect to go from 0 to dating 10's over night.

Start out at 5 or 6's and build up your confidence first.

It not easy some people are born with brain, body, looks, and money and the rest of us have to work for it!

Answer 5

Don't be embarrassed! While it is unusual to find a man who is a virgin, I think it's more of a turn on for me, and probably for other women as well. We don't want to be the only ones who don't have a lot of sexual experience. And hey, lighten up, flirt a little, and try and break out of that shyness. I would wait to have sex until you find someone worth giving it up, make the years you waited worth something!

**I am twenty One years old

Answer 6

well first...personaly i wouldn't care if the guy was a virgin, because it would make them feel special knowing they can take your virginity. i don't think they would be embarissed. also here are somet ips for flirting.

F- is for flatter. The fastest way to a persons heart is by complimenting them. Find something you really like about that person, there hair, the way they act ect. and compliment them on it. make sure you find multiple things you like and compliment away. don't use stupid compliments like oh your eyes are pretty when there really not. make it sincere.

L- is for listen. People love when you listen to them, it shows that you are really interested in that person and really care what they are talking about. Besides the biggest aphrodisiac is listning.

I- is for interests. Find things you have in commen with that person, don't find to many it will just freak them out and make it like your stalking them just find a couple of things in commen. like what kinds of music you like, movies, ect.

R- is for responible. Don't lie, don't send mixed messages, be straight up. Guys don't know what girls like so don't try and confuse them more than what they already lie. Don't choose inapropriate flirting partners such as your friends boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't make it where flirting will hurt anyone.

T- is for trusting yourself. Trust yourself, be confident, bold, and daring. Trust yourself that you will come out knowing that even if you didn't get the guy/girl that you wanted you can always be nice and friendly to that person.

S- is for smile. BODY LANGUAGE,BODY LANGUAGE,AND BODY LANGUAGE, can i stress it anymore? Smile, it will show the person that you are friendly and nice. If you smile, you might get one back =D.

Answer 7

There is nothing wrong with you being a virgin at the age of 23 if you wait and pray about the right person then god will send the right person you just have to be patient and be glad that you are still a virgin!

Answer 8

Of course not! You sound like a really sweet guy. You definately want to be more confident in yourself and try to loosen up and remember that girls get just as nervous too. It definetly isn't bad to be a virgin.......that's what is wrong with the world today! To get girls to notice you just stand out and just be extra nice.

Answer 9

As stated, it may be a lack of confidence on your part. Women can see through that. Any man has a chance to get a good woman if they know how. Appearance has initial issues, but they can be overlooked. Just relax around women and everything will be fine.

Answer 10

no - just don't tell them unless they ask. even if they did find out, if they have a problem with it, they have to be pretty neurotic or have a good reason. try to be more comfortable and casual and not so jittery around girls. it's not like they bite (though some may) and they really aren't so critical of men. lighten up! i'm sure you'll find the right mate some time.

Answer 11

Well I think that you should wait until after the wedding voes, but that's just me. I think that you might be looking at things a little off, here's what I mean, if they don't notice you, then they shouldn't be worth your time.

Now having said that, & not knowing everything about the situation, the choice is yours to make.

Have a good day. =)