My last two relationship they cheated on me and its hard for me to have trust in my relationship now because I was hurt twice and it hard to
have trust in my man because of the last loser.
I know its not fair to hold that on him because of them. when he do little thing like not answer his cell phone sometime when I call ,I stared thinking crazy. He tell me he not doing nothing wrong. We always do thing together and be together its just it hard to trust. I need a way to get pass what happen to me in the past and have trust in him.
2007-01-11 11:17:08 · 6 answers · asked by msredbonel1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have somewhat of the same issue...it is hard to trust i have had a few loser boyfriends and one awful ex husband...but...its just one of those things you have to train yourself...innocent until proven guilty...there will be definate signs hes cheating on you if he is...but..if he isnt..just cold feet trust him until you find any feasable reason not to...im not saying completely let your walls down..just..walk around it and see whats on the other side...talk to him tell him about your past...let him know that you want this to last and you want to trust him...and if he is trustworthy..he will let you know he is...and he will prove it to you...
2007-01-11 11:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by magickitty0621 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I compleltly understand, I did the same thing when I first started going out with my current boyfriend, It'll take some time to completly trust him, but it'll come, let him know so he knows why your so paranoid and I'm sure he'll be more understanding (paranoid not in a bad way) Good Luck!
2007-01-11 19:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by Someone... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hold someone else accountable for your last lover.
Often a person cannot answer their cell phone. MY company only allows it on breaks ot lunch. It's about as unsafe on most jobs as in a car .
Just expalin your feeling to him and give the guy a chance.
2007-01-11 19:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm take it slow so u dnt get crazy in love unless u already r then over time you'll get to trust and if u cant trust him after a long time then u probly shouldnt be goin out
2007-01-11 19:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a minute. are you telling that just because he does not answer his phone he is cheating. maybe that depends if he has either sprint,tmobile,verizon,nextel, or the new cricket.
2007-01-11 19:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by sirjames 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals old wounds but remember not all guys are the same. its just bad luck you found a couple of losers good luck....
2007-01-11 19:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋