Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

My sons father has seem him once a year since he was born in Oct 2002. My son is now asking questions, like Mom who's my dad? I want to find him and tell him I love him. IT KILLS ME. He's been calling my dad, da-da. But now he knows that he's Grandpa and is asking about his dad? I am away at school with my son and about to go into medschool. we live about two hours away from his Dad.

The last time I talked to his Dad was March of 2006, and we've lost touch since.(He switches jobs so child support won't catch up with him) Should I find him and introduce my son again? Or is that just opening a bag of worms. I know he wont be consistant and I just don't wont that heart ache for my son.

2007-01-11 11:00:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I love my boyfriend but we never seem to do anything fun. All we do it sit and watch tv or movies 24/7. I want to go to a party with my friend tomorrow but my boyfriend wouldnt approve. I dont ever do anything like this and i need some fun in my life. Should i go??

2007-01-11 10:59:35 · 7 answers · asked by aj 3 in Singles & Dating

But you don't see any change is frequencey, duration, or quality. I want to know how many married men still believe what their wives say vs. what your wives actions tell you.

2007-01-11 10:59:23 · 4 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

is it awkward if your boyfrind has (a litlle bit) smaller bone structure than you?

2007-01-11 10:59:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You're my World

Rose are red, violets are blue
You’re my world, my friend, my you
People they stare but its just us
Just remember it isn’t no rush
I just can’t think of a life without you
You’re my world, my friend, my you
You’re an angel in the eyes of one
And your o so brighter than the
morning sun
Life isn’t great unless I’m near you
If you know of those angels then they
know of you
And the world, the world needs more of you
I’ll always, always be there for you
No matter if you’re blue or think you is Sue
You are my world, my friend, and my you

I said sue on purpose, i wrote this for this girl i really like we aren't together but we call each other nicknames. I call her sue, she calls me bob. How is it?

P.S.
I am in the 7th grade.

2007-01-11 10:59:08 · 11 answers · asked by Light in the Dark 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently found out that the guy I had been dating for 6 months was playing me, and at least one other girl. He told me in front of her that he wanted to be with her, not me. She is much younger than he is, and I am a couple years older than him, and I know he's going to hurt her too...should I care, and try to warn her?

2007-01-11 10:58:54 · 7 answers · asked by jewel438 1 in Singles & Dating

My crush birthday was a few weeks ago. Somehow i did not manage to give him my gift, for i was kind of -ok,really- chicken, cos we were not so much on speaking terms as before. Currently its more like on and off. I still like to hand him the gift personally, but i do not know how to start off. The gift slowly seems to lose its purpose after so long since his birthday. If only i can still give him the gift in a natural way, what am i to do? What is a good beginning?

PS. The gift is a pen with my crush name on it. :)

Thanks for your help.

2007-01-11 10:58:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the guy i like asked a girl out but she said no. i just found out today. after rejection do guys not like the girl any more? should i stop liking him since he liked that other girl? he is my neighbor and i see him at the ice rink every friday. i REALLY like him. he might like me. he talks to me a lot. and says i live near that girl. does he like me?should i flirt or should i seem nervous around him so im less scary to ask out? what should i do

2007-01-11 10:57:50 · 10 answers · asked by brunette babe 2 in Singles & Dating

if you are girl,will you mind if your boyfriend or future husband is shorter or thinner than you? in contrast,if you a guy,will you mind your girlfriend or future wife is taller or fatter than you?

2007-01-11 10:57:40 · 9 answers · asked by bluesky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, my guy friend sam spent an hour telling me about this girl he was going to the movies with, and asked me to come with, i said no because i didnt want to be around when they start making out, but he just keeps begging me to come, so i eventually told him i would go, when i get to the theater, hes there. alone. when we finaly get inside it's full so he asked if he could come over, i said yes because he's my friend and i kind of have a crush on him.

so at my house we sat down on opposit sides of teh couch out of habit, we kind of 'play fighted' for a while and then he went upstairs to get some water, when he got back he sat right next to me, and after a while he put his arm around me and i leaned up against him. and he kind of touched my lip and i looked at him and he kissed me. and it was the best kiss i had ever had. and when he left he hugged me and kissed me again.

it was the best time i ever had with him the next day i went over to cory's to play paintball...

2007-01-11 10:57:31 · 8 answers · asked by myself 1 in Friends

My mom treats me like crap my sister hits me and thinks im stupid all my friends arent real friends what should i do?

2007-01-11 10:57:09 · 7 answers · asked by nat~nat 1 in Friends

OK, first of all, I'm not the super-good looking guy with a ton of girlfriends. I'm a junior in high school. Back in my freshman year I saw this one girl and I really liked her, just from looking at her. I thought she was beautiful, and I know my friend think she is good-looking, but not as gorgeous as I find her. I got to know her, and we became really good friends. I would just enjoy sitting down and talking to her. I realy like everything about her. I’m not great with girls, so I didn’t ask her out right away. Halfway through my sophomore year, I decided to, but took the pus.sy way and wrote her a note. I didn’t get a response, and her friend told me she liked someone else. For awhile it was really awkward between us, since we never talked about it. Finally, we got back to normal friends, like we were before. However, since the beginning of my freshman year, I cannot stop thinking of her but she has a boyfriend and i don't want to make things akward again. wht should i do

2007-01-11 10:55:11 · 10 answers · asked by milan 4 in Singles & Dating

oryt ok my friend whos a male told me about 3 months ago that he loves me and that hes liked me for years which i didnt no anything about anyway we talk all the time on the phone and we text each other everyday but whats worring me is that hes talking about kids and marriage and he says the next step is moving in tgether but once i said no he said he was kidding ts kinda scary to me because am only 17 nearly 18 and hes nearly 19 whch is weird because i didnt think guys were that emotional neway plz help am confused btw he says hes n love with me and i do feel the same about him

2007-01-11 10:55:01 · 8 answers · asked by tasha a 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 10:54:39 · 5 answers · asked by casey.bailey@sbcglobal.net 1 in Friends

2007-01-11 10:54:37 · 2 answers · asked by carolyn 1 in Singles & Dating

Specifically, a website that talks about what services to procure (pictures, flowers, etc.) and maybe includes a checklist?

2007-01-11 10:54:25 · 12 answers · asked by oxypbear98 4 in Weddings

ohk.. so my boyfriend has a class with this girl who's in sixth grade [we're in eighth grade] and the girl's name is sophia. She likes my boyfriend but doesn't know that he's already going out with me.. She doesn't even know who i am. My friend, Kaley, also has the same class with them. Sophia told Kaley that she liked my boyfriend and Kaley said "you should ask him out.. i think he likes you too" just as a joke. This whole thing has been going on for two weeks and Sophia keeps trying to ask my boyfriend out but he keeps avoiding her. She really thinks he likes her.. but the truth is.. she doesn't have any chance. I feel really bad for her because Kaley has brought it too far. What should I do? She really needs to find out the truth. But I dont want anyone to get really hurt and I dont know how to break the news to her. She doesn't even know who i am. HELP!

2007-01-11 10:54:15 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

suppose that both people are really into the other and the girl is very mature for her age.

2007-01-11 10:54:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 10:53:57 · 13 answers · asked by rdc057 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

when im at my best friends her cousin and his friends will hit on me, i dont put myself out there, i dont flirt back, and i act like i dont like it (and i dont), but they just keep hitting on me, what am i doing to make them like me???

2007-01-11 10:53:48 · 6 answers · asked by Des 2 in Singles & Dating

Im seeing someone I really like and he likes me, we have not discussed being bf/gf and I do want something more serious with him...the only problem is he is 22 and Im 26 and I don't know what he wants or where I stand with him. These other ppl are trying to hook me up with men who are well established in their 30's and looking for something serious....i've been seeing this guy for about 5 months....is it ok to date other ppl and not tell him? I don't want to hurt anyones feelings or just talk to him see what he wants out of this?

2007-01-11 10:53:32 · 1 answers · asked by a1980 3 in Singles & Dating

Which comes first: family, friends, or boyfriend/girlfriend?
Well, my friend was telling me that my family should always come first, then my boyfriend, but there are some friends of mine who are just like family and I consider them to be.

I can't really choose which to put first, I love my friends, I love my family, and I love my boyfriend.

I consider a boyfriend to be up to par with family and friends at least three years +. I mean you can't just get a new boyfriend for two weeks then consider him part of the circle, I think that's kind of weird, but if you're been together long enough it shouldn't be an issue.

So basically I refuse to choose because they're all important to me, and I think it's kind of bullcrap how some people make me answer the question than criticize me on it. What do you all think?

2007-01-11 10:53:26 · 5 answers · asked by Kiskalin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am just interested for my own knowledge, as a Romance Specialist. I am wondering how often you have sex with your spouse, and if you are satisfied with the frequency/quality of sex?
Give me as much info as you want. I am just curious about this. Thanks!!!

2007-01-11 10:53:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-11 10:52:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went out with him las thear and we've been like rally close since we do everything together and we grew up together and now everyone is asking him if we are dating again and now he's been acting like he does when he likes me again but he is always looking at other girls but when the other people aren't around it's like we are going out again i'm like really desperate and i don't know what to do please help me

2007-01-11 10:51:31 · 5 answers · asked by hot_blonde_2952 2 in Singles & Dating

father didn't take any responsibility from the time of pregnancy until about 1/1.5 yrs of age. few issues with child support arrearages. wants shared parenting but says if i move with my husband to any place other than where i am, i can't keep my son. (this is want he is planning on submitting in the shared parenting order for judicial review) he wants true shared parenting reduction in child support or sharing of child expenses (child care, etc) he has also implied that it isn't a choice. he will submit this and the judge will sign it and that is all there is to it. what has happened in the past will have no bearing on the outcome.

2007-01-11 10:51:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i explained in my previous Q that Bad B/Dr Bad my lover wants me to star with him in his latest porn production...i am still not sure but now he is saying that he wont allow any other men to be in the women because it would make him too jealous...is this a sign that he doesnt trust me???...or should i be flattered ?...;0)

2007-01-11 10:50:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or would you feel bad and just keep it to yourself?

2007-01-11 10:50:33 · 20 answers · asked by TNL 4 in Singles & Dating

ok, basically i like this guy a lot....but he's 12 years older than me (17 - 29) am i stupid for even liking a guy that much older than me and should i follow my heart? we get along so well, i love talking to him and ya......this is hard

2007-01-11 10:49:52 · 5 answers · asked by angelkitty0012 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a girlfriend for about 7-8 months now, which I think is a decently long time for High School. But theres a new girl, she has a boyfriend, but we really like eachother. And, as my luck, her boyfriend is one of my friends so yeah. We've been hanging out alot and are hanging out here on saturday.

Neither one of our boy/girl friends now whats going on, whats a way we can end it w/ them to get 2gether w/o making it a huge deal? (We havnt really CHEATED on them, because were not like messing around now or anything but yeah)

2007-01-11 10:49:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating