ok, my guy friend sam spent an hour telling me about this girl he was going to the movies with, and asked me to come with, i said no because i didnt want to be around when they start making out, but he just keeps begging me to come, so i eventually told him i would go, when i get to the theater, hes there. alone. when we finaly get inside it's full so he asked if he could come over, i said yes because he's my friend and i kind of have a crush on him.
so at my house we sat down on opposit sides of teh couch out of habit, we kind of 'play fighted' for a while and then he went upstairs to get some water, when he got back he sat right next to me, and after a while he put his arm around me and i leaned up against him. and he kind of touched my lip and i looked at him and he kissed me. and it was the best kiss i had ever had. and when he left he hugged me and kissed me again.
it was the best time i ever had with him the next day i went over to cory's to play paintball...
2007-01-11 10:57:31 · 8 answers · asked by myself 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well we only had 7 masks and we didn't want to play with uneven teams so 2 people had to stay in, i said i would because i had to fix my gun, and sam said he would. so we started watching a movie and doing the same stuff (cuddling, hugging, holding hands, ect) but when i was working on my gun he took my hopper and went up into cory's hayloft with it in the barn, so i went up there to get it and as soon as i got up, he kissed me and we started making out.
but when we went back to school on Monday he acted like nothing happened, and he hasn't called me as much lately, before, he would flirt and stare at me in science, call me 3x a day, talk to me every night online, he'd even grab my hand during recess and sit next to me watching movies in Film Reading. i feel like a **** and im not sure what to do
does he like me, or was he just looking for action
2007-01-11 11:05:59 · update #1
So you're granting sexual favors to boys who are dating other girls, and using you as a last resort when they have nothing better to do? Why?
2007-01-11 11:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry too much as long as your still talking. I don't know what he is trying to tell you but here is what I think of what he did, opinion only.
Sounds like he wanted to get with you like that. There was probably never another girl he was going with either. since he has what he wants he is blowing you off for awhile until he wants that again OR he cannot communicate very well, which is why he is not calling that much now plus he's not ready for a relationship with you, especially if he knows all this will occur without any real effort (real relationship=effort).
He could also just have used you for the movie and all, because he felt this other girl was not going to show up, if she is even real, like I said before. I'm just being honest, this guy is a looser. Leave him hanging.
2007-01-11 19:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's trying to tell you he likes you and wants to start dating you not someone else. The fact that you returned the kiss and allowed another one says that you like him too.
The question you should be asking yourself is what you need to do next. Should you risk the friendship and start dating your friend or not?
2007-01-11 19:04:23 · answer #3 · answered by Amber P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell me 'WHAT IS HE TRYING TO TELL ME??" you know!!
Honey, you've been played...and he's not even a dog yet!! He's still a pup, forget him honey....the second they don't treat you like before in front of their friends...you are yesterdays newz.... It hurts, but you learned something...he's an azz in training...and like someone else said ,he used you for pleasure.
If you don't leave this behind, you are setting yourself up for this type of relation all through life! You'll see....
2007-01-11 22:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he's trying to say that he has a feeling towards you...and he wants you. Asking him to be a chaperone would mean that he want's to see whether you get jealous and see how you react to it. Ask him upfront what he's trying to say...that way you don't get confused.
2007-01-11 22:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by jad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your kidding right? you can't see that he likes you likes you???? Are you really sure that you don't know that he likes you? I think that your posting this question up just so that you'd get a confermation on this????? wich I don't get.... I mean the kiss clearly say's that he likes you.
2007-01-11 19:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are boring i don't care about your problems go do something usefull with your life, strangers can not help you with emotional baggage, seek help.
2007-01-11 19:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is your true Q?
2007-01-11 19:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋