Which comes first: family, friends, or boyfriend/girlfriend?
Well, my friend was telling me that my family should always come first, then my boyfriend, but there are some friends of mine who are just like family and I consider them to be.
I can't really choose which to put first, I love my friends, I love my family, and I love my boyfriend.
I consider a boyfriend to be up to par with family and friends at least three years +. I mean you can't just get a new boyfriend for two weeks then consider him part of the circle, I think that's kind of weird, but if you're been together long enough it shouldn't be an issue.
So basically I refuse to choose because they're all important to me, and I think it's kind of bullcrap how some people make me answer the question than criticize me on it. What do you all think?
2007-01-11 10:53:26 · 5 answers · asked by Kiskalin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Family - always family...
When i was a younger, I had the same thoughts as you, but I put my friends first because to me, they were more of a family than my own family were.
But... now at 23... Those friends with whom I thought our friendship was unbreakable and would last forever are no longer. I don't speak to them and have a new set of friends.. But, my family is still here and still supporting me - and Im closer to them as well. My mother was right in her saying to me, "Friends come and go, but family is with you for life." (whether you believe it now or not, you will see as you get older)
2007-01-11 11:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A boyfriend can be a very important person in your life. You never know that man can one day be your husband. I think you should love your family and friends. But let your boyfriend also be a best friend first and than you can have a strong relationship with him where you don't never have to choose. If you are asked to choose between the three look at the person that is asking you to choose they might not mean any good for you.
2007-01-12 11:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Family should always come first. They have known you the longest and will be there for you in tough times. Boyfriends come and go and so do friends. Family is there forever.
2007-01-11 10:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by Amber P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy friends and girlfriends come and go. A family is forever.
2013-11-23 01:03:36 · answer #4 · answered by Ann 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will have to decide. blood is always first but it depends on the situation as far as problems. as long as you get along with every one and try to share your time. You must be very well liked thats good. you are right refuse to choose.
2007-01-11 11:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by sirjames 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋