suppose that both people are really into the other and the girl is very mature for her age.
2007-01-11 10:54:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friend just started this relationship and I thingk he should end it
he says that it is not because of the sex it is really the girl that he really enjoys her company
2007-01-11 10:57:46 · update #1
If your friend enjoys this girl's company, you should let him be. The age difference is no matter - it's legal, and love is not supposed to be restricted by age. If you think he is just using her, however, you need to break the news to his girlfriend - gently. It's not wrong if it's just the age difference that is bothering you, as long as they have feelings for each other.
2007-01-11 11:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by Gina Chess 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There could be potential for him to take advantage with the younger woman. As long as HIS intentions are honorable and that he keeps it in his pants (you know what I am talking about!), and respects her family and refrains from trying to get between her and her family.
Okay, she may be mature for her age, but what about HIM? Sometimes a guy can't find women his age because HE has maturity issues! A single 34 year old woman may think he's an immature jerk and avoid him. A twenty year old woman may not have the experience, maturity and wisdom to discern the fact he is an immature jerk and get horribly burned by him!
So, any young woman getting involved with a man fourteen years her senior should go VERY SLOW, and maybe have her father buy a background check on him. Make sure he doesn't have children, ex-wife, etc.
2007-01-11 11:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by WhatAmI? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Greetings! "Is it wrong for a guy 34 to date a girl that 20?" If my math is correct you, or whomever is about 14 years older. Now, think with me for a minute. If U had a daughter, would you want someone 14 years older than YOUR daughter dating her? If the 20 year old is seeking an older male, she needs to consider these thing>What wil happen later on in this relationship. Will I still be YOUNG when "he's" turning white around the edges? Will I be ashame to go out in public with this older man when he's in a wheelchair and so forth. {{{Think! Think!}}}} What type of future will she have with someone who's that much older? Not much if U ask me!!
2007-01-11 11:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well thats a hard question some people say age is just a number that age should not matter in a relationship, to be thats a big difference, but if the two are happy and she can handle a mature guy and he can handle such a young lady than let them happy ... I have a girl that works for me she is 26 and her husband of 6 years is 64, not saying they do not have there problems but it seems to be wroking for them, Just support them and let what will happen, happen
2007-01-11 11:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by Alley 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that it is wrong. My parents are 14 years apart as well. If you are very mature and can handle dating a older individual, I say let your heart take the lead. In the words of deceased R&B singer Aaliyah, "Age ain't nothing but a number".
2007-01-11 11:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by pjames302 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't wrong, I mean, oh wow! SO WHAT!!!??? They are 14 years apart (my parents are like that too, but older) HEY! GET OVER IT! If they like each other, then you know what, who the hell gives a damn about their age????!!! Anyways, thats their opinion id they like eachother, if they do, go ahead and be in love, if they aint, then break up, but age DOESNT MATTER!!!!! Unless you are like 90 and your dating a 18 year old, cuz then, its just icky....
2007-01-11 11:03:07 · answer #6 · answered by $CiNDy$LiNDy$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as the two of you are comfortable with it and it is what you both want then go for it. i am 23 and am weighing my options between a 32 and a 33 year old. do whatever makes the two of you happy. forget everything else.
2007-01-11 10:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by PreciousLady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong at all. A lot of younger women like older men.
2007-01-11 11:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. i believe my friend's ex was 35. and she's 20.
But you just have to realize that she cannot LEGALLY drink. So going to a bar, she can't sit there and have a drink with you.
*that might have had something to do with why they broke up, among other things*
2007-01-11 11:00:45 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it does not bother the guy and the girl then everyone else should mind their own business.
2007-01-11 10:58:15 · answer #10 · answered by lara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋