I have a girlfriend for about 7-8 months now, which I think is a decently long time for High School. But theres a new girl, she has a boyfriend, but we really like eachother. And, as my luck, her boyfriend is one of my friends so yeah. We've been hanging out alot and are hanging out here on saturday.
Neither one of our boy/girl friends now whats going on, whats a way we can end it w/ them to get 2gether w/o making it a huge deal? (We havnt really CHEATED on them, because were not like messing around now or anything but yeah)
2007-01-11 10:49:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
theres no way to end it without making it a big deal....
2007-01-11 10:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by Just Wondering 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your high school years are called the Age of Socialization, from about 14 to 20. It's normal to try out new things and people as you figure out who YOU are. You are on the right track taking their feelings into account, but chances are that whatever you do, if you move forward you will lose a friend. That's because friends don't do that to each other. Sorry, but either way you lose something. Which is more important to you? And there are no right or wrong answers, here--just rewards and consequences. So consider well. Best of luck.
2007-01-11 18:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by Dorothy and Toto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way for you guys to end it, get together, and not have it come out that u broke it off to date each other. I think even if she breaks up with your buddy, you moving in on her right away will ruin the friendship (unless of course he is relieved that she dumped him). U would have to break up and wait for a while before getting together. Even then, it is gonna hurt your friend, so unless you wanna be a d*i*c*k to your friend, you should just stay away from that one.
2007-01-11 18:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think there is a right way to go about this. either of you could lose a friend. You're right, high school relationships don't last long so maybe you could wait it out? Then you 2 could go out when the time is right.
2007-01-11 18:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by ©•®°ß♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come out and say it. The truth hurts sometimes, but it's the only thing to build happiness on. That pearl of wisdom has guided my decisions for a lifetime.
2007-01-11 18:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by Das_Klavier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW...that sucks...Valentines' Day is coming up...
Just talk to ur girlfriend...Be Honest with her.
Tell her you want to move on. And Why-? Atleast....
BEST OF LUCK
2007-01-11 18:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by latinapr1229 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa...ok...lol...you both need to get together and talk with your g/f and her b/f together. Tell them what the situation is. If they dont understand...all well...at least you will have the girl you like in your arms that night.
2007-01-11 18:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by pinkypink4ever1990 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude...it's high school. In 20 years, no one will care. Just get it done. You never know, she could be THE ONE!
2007-01-11 18:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by CPT Jack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and ur question is?
2007-01-11 18:53:16 · answer #9 · answered by *Jenny from the block* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋