oryt ok my friend whos a male told me about 3 months ago that he loves me and that hes liked me for years which i didnt no anything about anyway we talk all the time on the phone and we text each other everyday but whats worring me is that hes talking about kids and marriage and he says the next step is moving in tgether but once i said no he said he was kidding ts kinda scary to me because am only 17 nearly 18 and hes nearly 19 whch is weird because i didnt think guys were that emotional neway plz help am confused btw he says hes n love with me and i do feel the same about him
2007-01-11 10:55:01 · 8 answers · asked by tasha a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You, and he are entering the world of adulthood, and I know I'm going to sound patronising (I'm sorry!!) it's quite normal for young people experiencing the passions of their first love to play around with the mature concepts of marriage and kids etc.. Well done for sticking to your guns, don't ever feel pressured into doing things you don't want to, do everything at your own pace, but enjoy every minute of being in love, it's such a great feeling. It was sweet of your fella to back down right away and not push the ideas on you when you obviously weren't keen. What a darling. Wishing you all the best!
2007-01-11 11:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by doodlenatty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there goes that song again.....
hey tash! if your boyfriend really loves you he would take the time to see how you feel about the whole situ. As long as you're in love, you have something to build on, there's no rush if you are going to spend the rest of your lives together.
Be open and tell him how you feel and if he really loves and respects you he will understand.
Having said allllllllll that. I do know how he feels, maybe he's being up front about his hopes which isn't a bad thing but if you don't want it all to happen so fast, then slow things down.
It looks like you need to have a deep and meaningful conversation, just the two of you one cosy evening to reaffirm your love for each other. Above all be honest.
As for the children bit...you cant just have a child because one partner wants one....the baby must be loved by both and planned carefully for. He wont be the one carrying for nine months. Tell him when YOU feel ready then you'll talk about it, that's all any man could hope for.
2007-01-11 11:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by ~☆ Petit ♥ Chou ☆~ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well even though you 2 are young you should take things slow. I think you should be boy friend and girl friend before anymore future talk is done. Then go from there......
2007-01-11 11:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reckon he,s just after getting into your britches lass,dump him and see what he does then,if he jumps in front of a bus then you will know that he did love you afterall.
2007-01-11 11:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by skip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he didnt love you enough you would be complaining i bet. love is not a game. if he has said so much that he loves you, then you should respect him too and stop dangling him on a string. if you love him go for it.
2007-01-11 11:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by TrevnDi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go out with him and just go with the flow. Don't try to rush things.
2007-01-11 11:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes just trying to tell you how much he loves you and that he sees a future for you both.
2007-01-11 13:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by lizard 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes still young and obviously in love...dont know what else to say
2007-01-11 11:00:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋