How do I quickly become a nicer person?

Question

I feel that I'm mean and I'm losing all my friends.

Answer 1

well this is what i have 2 say
i really dont like mean people and i dont think u would want to hang around with mean people either
i think that you shouldnt call anyone names or curse at them for making you mad for something small because lifes to short to spend it alone and without any friends
and try not to be the boss of your group of friends because that really gets annoying

Answer 2

I don't think that there's anything that you can do to become nicer person. I think its a process that takes time. It has to come from your heart. Just be more caring about others and their feelings. Maybe a little card to your friends saying how much you appreciate their friendship. Eventhough sometimes you're mean to them you care very much about them. I doesn't have to be valentine's day or anything special to give someone a little care. Sometimes that smaller things are more special than something big. Well hope everything turns out good. I guess being nicer to your friends can be your new years resolution. Good luck.

Answer 3

You've already started. Nice people have nice thoughts so your thoughts are a way to get going.
Its possible you are not mean though and you've just had some bad luck; The following are mean person traits, do you fit the bill;
-Talk behind peoples backs
-Do things you know will hurt people
-Act selfishly
-Not do the things you promise to do (let peole down)
Nice people traits;
-Put others interests first
-Never ***** about people
-Never do things they know will hurt people
-Help and care for others esp family and friends.
They say you can judge a person by their friends, what are your friends like are they nice or just plain nasty?
There lots of things you can do which makes you a good person. You should research into Karma or the 10 commandments. But nice things to do is volunteering and being friendly and helpful to your family friends and strangers.
Best of luck, dont forget you may not be a nasty person though!

Answer 4

well, u gotta b nice to ur friends of course. Never leave them behind or give them cold shoulders. Always b there for then when they need you and never make fun of then. Your friends need to know that u'll b there 4 them no matter what. being mean to them tells them something else, u know? Play around with them and joke around but not to the point where u r actually making fun of them. Just try to b nice, think about how you'll feel if ppl treated you how ur treating ppl. Someone once told me 'treat people like how you wanna be treat'. Hope this helped=]]

Answer 5

that really depends how much you want to be a nicer person.. if you feel that your mean, change those quality in you. and work on it. the more you fix what is wrong the faster it will go. but you really have to do it yourself. and if you have one friend maybe she can help you to be a nicer person, so good luck and i know that you can become a nicer person, just have faith in yourself.

Answer 6

Becoming nicer there is no quick fix except to keep your mouth shut. Start by being a listener. Watch other people. See what makes them appealing. When you do speak give compliments. Don't downgrade other people. Smile.

Answer 7

People always seem to change and go in different directions.

Should expect that sometimes you can't always make everyone happy or everyone to like you.

I like to be courteous, and polite to people. I treat people how I like to be treated, but avoiding to be stepped on also, because some may say they are your friends, only to find out later they were never your friend to begin with...

Answer 8

In my eyes, you have already grow to be a nicer guy or woman by potential of purely attempting to be one. It takes lots for a propose guy or woman to grow to be nicer. i'm happy you are attempting to be a extra suited guy or woman.

Answer 9

Stop being a biachhh and treat people how you would like to be treated. THere is no other way. Or you can just be alone for the rest of your life, living with some funky cats.

Answer 10

Not something that is done quickly. That's probably why you are mean because it gets the quick result. Like the person said earlier...stop being a biatch.