Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

A friend recently posted her 3 yr old daughters photos on her blog ( not private), calling her *My Sexy Little Girl * !!!

2007-01-11 17:20:04 · 14 answers · asked by Kate 6 in Friends

My friend is msging my boyfriend?
OK so me and my boy hang out in the group and there is this chick in there that has only been my friends for 6months and my boy the same amount of time but I am better friend as we go out for coffee( u know) The other night she asked my boyfirned for his number (she has a boyfriend) and he gave it to her. She has been msging him, and Its not that I don't trust my boy or anything, I just think it is inapropriate so I told my boyfriend I didn't want him msging her, and he Acused me of being controlling.
Who is in the right. Is it normal and should I be happy with them msging each other. Me and my boyfriend live together and are very serious. There not rude msges there just chit chat. But I just don't think its normal.
I don't mind if there friends I just don't want them msging

2007-01-11 17:19:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yo... this fat chick keeps staring at me in the hallways at school... What do I tell her she's fat and ugly and uninteresting in a nice way?

2007-01-11 17:18:35 · 17 answers · asked by Wuuut? 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy.... I talked to him almost everyday. I hung out with him while on break. He kissed me. We have both been hurt in the past and decided to take things slow. Well I let my thoughts get to me and aked him what was going on with us. He responded with the "you should know how I feel". Now things are strange. I've told him that I have feelings for him and that I'm hear when he decides what he wants. I'm decided to take a break from talking to him for a few days to see if he trys talking to me. I judt don't know how long I should wait before talking to him again or just plain giving up. So basically how long do I wait before realizing "us" is a lost cause. How long do I give him before moving on.

2007-01-11 17:17:11 · 5 answers · asked by lost and confused 1 in Singles & Dating

The ugliest, nastiest men seem to think they are entitled to hottie women. What gives?

2007-01-11 17:16:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not an unattractive girl...so why does my boyfriend look at porn? Weve only been together for three months...and we have good sex. How come i don't have any desire to look at other people in a sexual way and he does? Why can't I be enough for him, since he said he really cares about me, and only wants to be with me? It makes me feel that he's unattracted to me..and it's so early in the relationship.

2007-01-11 17:16:12 · 18 answers · asked by Lauren<3 1 in Singles & Dating

should i ask this guy out? he's my really close friend but i also really like him. i have no idea whether he'll say es or no, i dont think hes ever liked me before. but, there are a couple of things i need to point out:
1. hes always talking about hot girls
2. i just found out that he likes someone (but doesnt go to our school)
3. he says that blondes are the hottest but im not a blonde

and another thing...if i ask him out and he says no../what am i going to do? i mean, its gonna be pretty embarassing to hang out with him still and also to have everyone know that i like him...
but then again i really really like him...should i ask him out or not?

2007-01-11 17:15:53 · 6 answers · asked by C♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

Can someone tell me the cutest way possible to ask out the girl I like to snowball?

2007-01-11 17:15:40 · 10 answers · asked by runeboi678 1 in Singles & Dating

I need advise on how to move on quickly, I don't want to think about him...do i start dating asp, any suggestions..last thing i want or need is to sleep with a guy...that out of the question.
Getting back together is a waste of time, some hurts just never go away...plz help

2007-01-11 17:15:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cheated on my bf and he doesnt no. it was at the begining of the relationship like less than a month and i was a lil buzzed from drinking. i kept telling the guy no and finally i locked myself in the other room... ALONE! this was a time when we ere fighting alot and i dont think i was talking to him at the time my bf told me that if i ever cheated he would be so hurt so i dont no what i should do. i had told him after our we had a huge fight to start all over and start new regardless of our past mistakes and past regrets. its been 3 months after all this happened and i keep thinking about it. i dont want to lose him or hurt him cuz hes the first guy i have ever feel in love with. please help and dont make me feel more wprse than i already feel.

2007-01-11 17:15:03 · 7 answers · asked by D 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend used to smoke all the time. He was like such a big stoner. But he stopped becuase it was ruining his life, so he's been clean for about 5 months now. But today we were talking and he told me he was hanging out with some of his friends and they started smoking infront of him and they offered him some, but he said no not today. but when he told me this, he was hesitating...I think he has been smoking again. I told him already that if I find out he's smoking, i'd dump him. This is really hard, I love him and i dont want to let him go..but I dont want to be with someone who does all that sh**. he says he loves me and would never do that, but i dont really trust him anymore. what should I do?

2007-01-11 17:14:54 · 5 answers · asked by female optimus prime. 2 in Singles & Dating

is it true that if u love something let it go if it comes back its urs and if it doesn't, it was never urs. if its true then how

2007-01-11 17:14:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is not even a joke. I met a guy on MySpace and we talked and from his pics he looked cute and I was liking his personality and he kept saying things like "my ex girlfriend said I look better on myspace" and "I should ask you out now so when we meet you can't just leave" and "are you sure you won't be disappointed? what if i look different in real life". Obviously I declined to be his gf before even meeting him (to get to know him better) so he went to my school to visit and let's just put it this way: people do look better on myspace. All of my friends were nearby watching us to be safe and they all laughed and agreed he's definitely not attractive >_<. So now I'm stuck with the task (I know, I'm a horrible person) of not leading him on (I'm sorry, he is just not at all my type in person). Is this normal? What's the nicest and easiest way to kindly decline any further meetings and not lead him on? It'll be the last time I ever risk meeting someone from online, of course. =|

2007-01-11 17:13:58 · 11 answers · asked by Lisa 3 in Singles & Dating

there was....

you make up the rest.



this should be interesting.

2007-01-11 17:12:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was going out with this guy who I Loved And my best friend knew that I loved him. At the time she was going out with his brother.Well 5 months into our relationship I find out from a third party that he is and has been cheating on me for 2 weeks.But the person who told me made me promise not not to break up with him. so I didn't. about a half a week later he broke up with me. I cried for 2 months strait. well just a couple of weeks ago my "best friend" Started going out with him. HOW COULD SHE. Se knows how much i loved and still love him. I am furious What do I do . I tried to talk to her but she just says "I know that If him cheated on me id cry to" and thats all she says what do I Do Do I not care a let him Go or do I Break our 4 year friendship. HELP ME SOMEONE

2007-01-11 17:12:06 · 21 answers · asked by lostandconfused200 1 in Friends

he pays 100%of his attention on my mistakes, 0% on my accomplishments. almost like he hopes i fail so he has a reason to hate me, i think he would be happier if i were dead.

2007-01-11 17:11:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-11 17:11:21 · 2 answers · asked by sonali 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is an artist. He did a painting that I absolutely loved and he told me that I was his inspiration for doing it. I've come to find a picture of one of his "female" friends and the painting is exactly like the face paint/mask she had on. so he basically lied. Now how do I go about approaching this to him since hes like such an *** and would rather destroy the painting than to actually talk to me about it..........argggggg

2007-01-11 17:10:59 · 2 answers · asked by babie 2 in Singles & Dating

i've been flirting with this guy for a year. we always text and always have fun when we're together. he would always be the one to text me first or visit me or talk to me. he's like my bestfriend who i think i'm falling in love with. but recently, he's stopped texting. he would only forward jokes or whatever. we still talk or text but not as often and not as sweet. i don't know if he's just busy or has lost interest. i want to let him know that i miss him so much but i'm scared that he might not feel the same way. what do i do? :(

2007-01-11 17:10:42 · 17 answers · asked by unicorn 1 in Singles & Dating

It was brought to my attention this was going on. They even created alias email accounts to pull it off. She leveled with me and told me nothing was going on except the emails. So here I sit on the better side of 4 years of dating, just about ready for the next step and I find the emails. Already had the long talks about it, and I am pretty sure I am through the shock, mad, and denial stages. Just looking for some raw, uninvolved opinions on what I should do. And advice would be a plus.

2007-01-11 17:09:17 · 17 answers · asked by just tryin to get by 1 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if your boyfriend was annoyed by you talking and he said to you you open your mouth again and i'm gonna break it

2007-01-11 17:08:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend goes to FIU and I go to UCSD. We really love each other-- yes, it is a true love thing-- and we only see each other about 2 or 3 times a year. It really costs a lot of money to go to these two cities since they are both "famous/popular" cities of the U.S. Moving would also cost a lot of money which we don't have. We are both going to universities which we are both comfortable with; if you guys were to pick, which one would you say is a better college?

We talk hours and hours on the phone, and the relationship is very much alive even after a long time of not seeing each other physically. Please help, what should we do?!

2007-01-11 17:08:47 · 11 answers · asked by FBF 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 17:08:29 · 3 answers · asked by AL IS ON VACATION AND HAS NO PIC 5 in Singles & Dating

My Mom Is always saying mean things about guys, she tells me that whenever I find a boyfriend, she Is going to feel sorry for me because he Is going to become abusive just like my father and she told me that all guys are abusive, she Is giving me the feeling to never fall In love and she Is wrong. my mom treats me bad, tries to live my life, I have to ask her for her permission to do everything, and I am 23 years old. I want to go to church too but I can't because of my Mom, she Isn't religious and she doesn't care about It, but I DO! I want God to know that I love him. my Mom Is wrong she should be thankful that God blesses her with more days to live but she Isn't thankful. I have no friends, my mom won't let me have any. Is this the way I am going to live year after year? I wish my Mom wasn't like this. I remember when I was about 5 years old. she even wished that I was dead. she Is a mean Mom and always yelling and swearing to me for no reason. please help me. she Is never happy 4me

2007-01-11 17:07:38 · 22 answers · asked by Skatergirl1107 1 in Family

why are they always looking for ways to get out of it?

2007-01-11 17:07:14 · 6 answers · asked by Yvette B yvetteb 6 in Marriage & Divorce

after a week of marriage she showed me her real face.... she did many bad things to me... lie, rude, ... I gave her many chances and at the end I divorced her though she didn't want to..... My problem now I feel that she played with me and wasted my time and provocated the divorce .... at the court she brought a man with her and told me on the phone that he's her friend...... that hurted me too much and I cant forget that scene..... please what should I do? I think of revenge but its senseless..... Ihate her too much and that hurts me and let me think about her and about what she did to me..... I am really in trouble... who can explain to me my situation and what should I do...??????

2007-01-11 17:06:28 · 11 answers · asked by S_M_A_R_T_Y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ho buys the mans wedding ring. the Man or the lady.

2007-01-11 17:06:11 · 18 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-11 17:06:08 · 10 answers · asked by S--slick 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 17:04:52 · 22 answers · asked by icelandchicka 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex boyfriend is in the air force and we just recently broke up before he went back. He wants to be friends so we can get back to the way we were before we got together. He says that before we were together we were the best of friends. I told him Im going to only be his friend for so long. I really want to be with him but all the arguing when we are in a relationship is really getting tired. But he is right we are the best of friends when we dont argue. We can talk about anything. Its just I dont want us to grow away from each other during this friendship. I think its just the title of saying that im his girlfriend and he is my boyfriend is a level of commitment that we wont reach. As of now I dont know what to do.

2007-01-11 17:04:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating