I need advise on how to move on quickly, I don't want to think about him...do i start dating asp, any suggestions..last thing i want or need is to sleep with a guy...that out of the question.
Getting back together is a waste of time, some hurts just never go away...plz help
2007-01-11 17:15:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on how you feel about the situation. If you feel you that you are ready for dating, just go slow- and don't let the dates escalate to the level of sex so you can avoid that all together. Just get out there and have fun. Be happy with who you are, have fun with friends, go out on fun dates, just enjoy life. You'll make it through this. Be strong!
2007-01-11 17:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how serious the relationship was, don’t expect to ‘get over it quickly’. Any time thoughts of him come in to your mind, remind yourself that it’s over for a reason and you’ve decided that you don’t want him back which obviously means he wasn’t right for you. But you have to grieve it, if you feel like crying or screaming, just do it. If you aren’t honest about how you feel about the end of your past relationship, all those emotions are going to bottle up and eventually you won’t be able to contain it all.
Don’t run from it or try to find a fast remedy to stop the pain because some things are beyond our control, so just face it.
Deal with your baggage now so when a nice guy comes along and you want to date him, you won’t be an emotional nutcase and scare him off with a bunch of negativity.
Good luck with everything.
2007-01-12 01:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by GaLFurend 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with him. So just move on at your own pace, you don't need a man to define who you are. Get a hobby or take a class to improve yourself, then when you feel you want (not need) a man, take steps to find one.
Also if it is just sexual release that you need they make all kinds of Toys for that, which is safer than just grabbing some dude off the street.
2007-01-12 01:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when my guy of 11 months dumped me i channelled all my anger into hate. i was like I HATE THIS GUY! HOW COULD HE DOES THIS! and i thought of how he was a jerk and a poohead and that helped me to get over him. don't focus on what yo could have had with him or what you might have(which is NOTHING) the only way youre gonna heal is with time. just get out lots, do tons of stuff, hang out with the girls. i wouldn't adivse dating as you'll become easily attached and heartbroken again. just remember: don't waste your time on anyone who won't waste their time on you. i know it feels like you'll never love another guy and that you'll always be in pain, but in time you'll be happy again and find a great guy. trust me, i've been there. just don't worry. you'll be 100% you in no time. give er a few weeks.
2007-01-12 01:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is to get active in other activities. work, school, clubs, sports, crafts, anything that you enjoy. avoid any relationship with men for at least 6 months. its usually just a rebound thing anyway. you need to build your self esteem and confidence before getting mixed up with someone else.
2007-01-12 01:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by katlady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont need to move to quickly. let thing heal. then start going
out with friends, get a hobby, do things that will keep you busy.'then you will see that time will past by so fast , then you
can start to find yourself again. it just take time but it will get
better.
2007-01-12 01:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be around your friends, they should be able to help you through your situation and they should be able to take your mind off of him.
2007-01-12 01:20:29 · answer #7 · answered by female optimus prime. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a ***** but-- **** NIGGAZ, GET MONEY! Focus on your job or your hobbies or anything else productive.... DO SOMETHING! Its all about you...
2007-01-12 01:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by Likwid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fook him. guys suck. start talking to other people that have potential.
2007-01-12 01:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by babie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋