Has he lost interest?

Question

i've been flirting with this guy for a year. we always text and always have fun when we're together. he would always be the one to text me first or visit me or talk to me. he's like my bestfriend who i think i'm falling in love with. but recently, he's stopped texting. he would only forward jokes or whatever. we still talk or text but not as often and not as sweet. i don't know if he's just busy or has lost interest. i want to let him know that i miss him so much but i'm scared that he might not feel the same way. what do i do? :(

Answer 1

maybe he's playing the game. he's asking the same questions that you're asking and he wants you to miss him that's why he's not texting you. talk to him. get it over with and finally know the truth.

Answer 2

Here is the ugly truth...
Most guys don't want girls as "friends". We will be your friend if we think there is a chance to see your goodies, if the "friend" thing goes on for too long we will lose intrest. We will reply to your texts and phone calls on a VERY relaxed basis after that because we always want to keep you on the back-burner as a potential option.

Many guys will deny this, but only because they are working a "sensative-guy" angle.

If you want a "buddy", find a chick to hang out with. If you want a relationship with this guy quit playing games.

Answer 3

Maybe he's worried you lost interest. Since you said he always had to text you first, maybe he thinks you don't care enough to send him a message every now and then. You could always let him know how you feel. If he's truly not interested, at least you'll know for sure.

Answer 4

There are 2 things that might have happend here it sounds like he might have found someone. OR like you said he just might not see it the way you do. To be really honest it sounds like there is someone else in his life. I would not ask him in a way where it sounds like you are missing him I would ask him things like so what have you been doing lately I have not heard from you the way I use to hear from you. some thing on that line. That way he will no think that you missing him he will just think that you are just wondering why you don't hear from him like you use to. You say he is like your best friend so I would not be scard to ask him some questions on why have things changed. well I hope this helps.

Answer 5

He may have found a girl friend. He may hahve wanted you as a girlfriend, but after a year of chasing you and not knowing how you felt about him; he may have just moved on to texting someone else.

Answer 6

Sweetie, life is a risk. Just tell him and prepare yourself in case things don't go the way you wish they would.

If it doesn't work, then you need toacknowledge it and move forward. It will sting for a little while, but "this too shall pass."

Answer 7

Tell him your interested! Stop being a chicken life's too short. It sounds like he may have thought he had a chance with you but was afraid to make a move, now hes found another interest.

Answer 8

What have you got to lose???
You tell him how you feel, the worst is you could lose a potential relationship, but at least you could still be friends.

if you don't tell him, you may miss out on the opportunity to be with him.

i say tell him up front how you feel and see where it goesn't from there.

what is life without risks????

Answer 9

Go for it! You have nothing to lose. Tell him how you feel, and then hope he feels the same way. If he don't return the feelings, then you need to move on and find someone else.

Answer 10

Well, he must be busy. What you do is let him and play his game. Do not be too aggressive in contacting him. Let him miss you. As much as possible, dont txt him too much and he will wonder why the sudden change.