My boyfriend used to smoke all the time. He was like such a big stoner. But he stopped becuase it was ruining his life, so he's been clean for about 5 months now. But today we were talking and he told me he was hanging out with some of his friends and they started smoking infront of him and they offered him some, but he said no not today. but when he told me this, he was hesitating...I think he has been smoking again. I told him already that if I find out he's smoking, i'd dump him. This is really hard, I love him and i dont want to let him go..but I dont want to be with someone who does all that sh**. he says he loves me and would never do that, but i dont really trust him anymore. what should I do?
2007-01-11 17:14:54 · 5 answers · asked by female optimus prime. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think your b/f needs your support more now than he ever will becoz letting go of bad habits is not easy. Instead of you making threats of leaving him try to be more supportive and tell him he is already a step ahead of his friends because he has chosen not to smoke. Just show him that you love him anyway.
2007-01-11 17:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by bong_jyde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.
Next time open your eyes and don't have 'date' with smokers, drinkers, and whatever you hate, like me...I run away from girls smoking, even I am NOT talking with them...
You said he loves me!
This is not true.
How a person does'nt LOVE himself/herself could love anyone?
U are second somker, your LIFE is in danger, U don't like yourself... U want die of others' crimes... smoking is one of worse crime...September 11 killed 3000 people....smokings has killed and is going to kill hundred million people, who mostly are children living with parents who smoke.
Thank you for this good question. Kick him out! Tell him if he really loves you, should come back with proof that he stopped...like mediacl test....
2007-01-11 17:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you wasting your time on a loser that's so influenced on stupid crap? I'm sure you'll find someone better.
2007-01-11 17:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. find a non pot head.
2007-01-11 17:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by Vince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drug test
2007-01-11 17:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by sodajerk50 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋