i cheated on my bf and he doesnt no. it was at the begining of the relationship like less than a month and i was a lil buzzed from drinking. i kept telling the guy no and finally i locked myself in the other room... ALONE! this was a time when we ere fighting alot and i dont think i was talking to him at the time my bf told me that if i ever cheated he would be so hurt so i dont no what i should do. i had told him after our we had a huge fight to start all over and start new regardless of our past mistakes and past regrets. its been 3 months after all this happened and i keep thinking about it. i dont want to lose him or hurt him cuz hes the first guy i have ever feel in love with. please help and dont make me feel more wprse than i already feel.
2007-01-11 17:15:03 · 7 answers · asked by D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
there was no sex involved. i just kissed him.
2007-01-11 17:49:24 · update #1
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2007-01-11 17:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by hauntedheart25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to have a healthy relationship you need to be honest, and yes that would be telling you bf that you cheated on him. If he truly loves you back then he would forgive you, but if you don't tell him then you will just live with that guilt and it will never go away. Sure if you tell him you guys might break up but then you would know he isn't the right guy for you because when you do find your true love he will love you for all of your mistakes no matter what
2007-01-12 01:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by asian_chick_77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a complicated and fragile situation. I think that you should tell him regardless because he will find out eventually and he'll be even more hurt that you didn't tell him. Explain that it was at the beginning and that you were drunk and didn't even realise what had happened. He will be angry and I won't lie he'll be hurt but if he truly loves you he'll come around and your relationship will be stronger. You'll regret this if you don't do this; I think you already know that this is something you have to do. Good luck and God bless.
2007-01-12 01:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by surani_ud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guilt you have is on you if you can forget it and let it go do so. If not tell him and if he dosn't understand he was not for you.There will be a trust issue that you will have to overcome and don't ever think it will be easy for you, he's going to hurt that is for sure but if he loves you he will come around, but if not he was not ment to be, You have a distructive nature to yourself by doing something that woud destroy your happyness so be care you do keep doing this thinking you are not worth anything. love is a choice. Having a buzz is not an excuse would you forgive him if it were reversed?
2007-01-12 01:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by Right 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sound like you have a big decision that only you can make,
to have a healthy realtionship is about trust and honestly, and
if you dont have it, you dont have much of anything else. but
only you know your heart and what to do to heal it. but let
me say this honestly is the best policy, because you never
know what can happen down the road. if he find out by
someone else.
2007-01-12 01:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him just try to make it work and let your conscience go
2007-01-12 01:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by justcurious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ever tell your b/f about it.
2007-01-12 01:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋