Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

Is lack of confidence a deal killer? If a guy comes on real heavy and then all of a sudden stops liking a female, what is usually the most common reason?

2007-01-11 17:02:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 17:00:26 · 27 answers · asked by juanclark24 2 in Singles & Dating

She goes and tells my bf and his friends or other people things that are not true and then denys it what should i do

2007-01-11 16:59:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am 18, and pretty attractive, and i work at a store where i see a whole bunch of different people daily. Lately i have noticed that guys with girlfriends clinging off of their arms have been staring and smiling at me. When the guys girlfriend sees me, she will instantly latch arms, or kiss him, or show me this is my guy back off. completely understandable. But when the girl looks the other, way the guy stares at me and smiles. Guys why do you do this. You obviously have a girl friend that cares about you, why blow it by staring and smiling at another girl? why do you stare if you have a Girfriend anyways?

2007-01-11 16:58:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just found out that my boyfriend, or should I say Ex-BF cheated on me a lot of times. He's in jail right now for a DUI, but I still want to be his friend. Because he means a lot to me, and it's hard moving on. I've been crying these last couple of days because of it. I wrote him a letter today telling him that I trusted him, and that I guess he never really loved me back the way I loved him because of what he did. So I broke up with him in this letter, I told him that I needed to move on, but if he ever needed to talk to someone to give me a call, and that I would still be there for him, but only as a friend. I went to visit him Sunday and I asked him if he cheated on me, he said that he didn't. But his friends and Ex-GF told me different. I don't know what I should do. My family keeps telling me that even though he was nice, that he was a loser for letting me go, and for doing that to me. Do you guys think that me trying to be his friend still is a bad idea?

2007-01-11 16:58:00 · 17 answers · asked by Annonymus 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-11 16:57:29 · 3 answers · asked by Muchan_6 2 in Friends

a year ago my bf left a comment on his exs journal site. if i remember correctly she wrote about how she wasn't good at dirty talking or something stupid like that. and my bf left a comment saying something like "oh come on you know you are ;) " he said he was just joking. who jokes like that? ok so then this summer him and i went on a break..during which time he got back with her. so do you think that he's loved her this whole time? (shes the one that broke up with him) during our whole relationship i felt like he was still in love with her.. oh but they broke up after a week this time. (and he broke up with her this time supposedly) i really love him but now it feels like i was right the whole time.

2007-01-11 16:56:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay for some reason everytime I see a girl I get really Horny and then when I wake I am really horny It does not matter how many time I make my self that is steel not good enough for Me I hate to said but like some sex and never girlfriend so anybody what would you do in this situation can you go to a strip clube and make out with some one and kind of want a one night stand for some reason I really just realive all this Pressure what should I DO
THANKS

2007-01-11 16:55:36 · 10 answers · asked by Wild Bill 1 in Singles & Dating

I started dating this guy he seemed a little more feminine than normal, he laughs like a girl, he talks like a teenage girl, he crosses his legs like a girl, and I recently went over his house and He has pastel pink and baby blue sheets with the matching comforter. My dilemma is not only is he to feminine for me (I grew up with 2 brothers) I also got him a nice leather jacket for Christmas and he didn't get me anything so I don't even know why I'm still dating him. I just answered my question so now how do I dump him? He's very very very gentle, HELP! oh he also says "gosh"

2007-01-11 16:54:40 · 14 answers · asked by i'm 1 in Singles & Dating

WE DATED 14YRS. AGO WE BOTH HAVE CHILDREN UNDER 18 AND THIS TIME HE ASKED ME TO MARRY HIM IS THIS LOVE OR NOT? I DON'T WANT TO BE HURT ANYMORE BUT I WANT TO TAKE A CHANCE! HELP

2007-01-11 16:54:28 · 19 answers · asked by deezbrats 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-11 16:54:17 · 6 answers · asked by Muchan_6 2 in Friends

so this girl calls me early this morning... actually txts me n tells me 2 call her whn i get up... i call her and we talk and flirt and w/e ... and she keeps hinting that shes not doing anything 2nite.. n so i ask her if she wants to hangout... she agrees and tells me to call her whenevr i find out what we're doing... so i have a great nite planned out and i give her the call ... no answer so i give it another hr. and call her again ... still no answer.. so i txt her n let her no wutsup and she txts me half n hr later ... telling me that shes staying in 2nite... i dont kno if i should call her again... cuz this has happnd for the 2nd time already and im jus gettin sick of all this flaking out mess.. wut do u think i shuold do or should i take it as a hint that shes proly not interested??

2007-01-11 16:53:39 · 6 answers · asked by zakattak 2 in Singles & Dating

my hempster died :(

I smoked it...

2007-01-11 16:51:30 · 6 answers · asked by Wuuut? 1 in Singles & Dating

For example if you came up to them and they're talking to someone you don't know.

2007-01-11 16:51:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bestfriend(girl) knows that I like this guy in ours sch. since this new yr. she is not like my bestfriend and worst she hangs out w/ my crush!So I'm snobbing her...What will I do to bring our friendship bak?

2007-01-11 16:50:35 · 9 answers · asked by Ann Carmeline 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 16:48:27 · 14 answers · asked by mary_not_cathy 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-11 16:47:59 · 4 answers · asked by rais_as 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been talking for this guy for the past 4 months, and he has not ask me out yet. I lost my virginity to him as well. He doesn't really call me that much for someone who really wants to be with me. Well we talked last night, and i know he really wants to be with me. Yet he told me he does not want to make that commitment right now. He said im like his unofficial girlfriend and he said he treats me like a girlfriend yet in honesty he doesnt. He does not even speak to me while we are around campus. Sometimes i try to say hi..etc, but i stopped because he doesnt make effort

2007-01-11 16:47:48 · 9 answers · asked by ace30815 1 in Singles & Dating

just wondering how long it took for some people to get together after they broke up with that person. Do women ever go back after they broke up with a guy?

2007-01-11 16:47:30 · 9 answers · asked by BUBBles 1 in Singles & Dating

and i recently just had a baby with him but lately he has been very insecure everytime were together and there is a handsome guy around he swears im staring and we are always arguing.but that is only one issue.i have another daughter by another man and eveeeerytime im on the phone talking to him i have to make sure i'm around him or he'll have a fit.honestly i'm tired of his insecurities it's driving me crazy!! i love him but he seems to not trust me at all .. what can i do to ease his mind ? he was cheated on by his ex but so was i but i dont drive him crazy, i feel everyone is different and deserves a chance to be trusted what can i do??

2007-01-11 16:46:19 · 11 answers · asked by LOVELY S 3 in Friends

Hi, I am with my first girlfriend, and I don't want to rush or pressure her into anything, even if it's small. How long should i wait before trying to kiss her? When is too soon?. I am 16 years old, we both(well i hope she does, I do) take the relationships much more seriously and maturely then the average "highschool" relationships. I also have never kissed someone on the lips, or anywhere for that matter. Any tips?(well good breath of coarse, but besides that.)

2007-01-11 16:46:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has told my friends that he thinks that because one of my friends told him i said a kid that likes me was cute and now he thinks i am cheating on him.Oh yeah and he will not talk to me. He wouldnt even stand up for me when i got in a fight with a girl

2007-01-11 16:45:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 16:44:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My life consists of work, my music,sports,women but not necessarily in that order. I know that there people who try to reach me in some way or another, but I have a hard time connecting. I grew up very alone even though I have relatives. I dont have drug or alcohol problems, beleive in GOD but I also beleive in having a good time and getting all the fullfilment life offers me. Am I always going to feel alone even though I have a lot of good things in life?.

2007-01-11 16:43:36 · 7 answers · asked by neanderstrat 3 in Friends

Why is it sooooo hard to pick up white chicks if you are neither black nor white?

2007-01-11 16:43:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-11 16:43:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK so me and my boy hang out in the group and there is this chick in there that has only been my friends for 6months and my boy the same amount of time but I am better friend as we go out for coffee( u know) The other night she asked my boyfirned for his number (she has a boyfriend) and he gave it to her. She has been msging him, and Its not that I don't trust my boy or anything, I just think it is inapropriate so I told my boyfriend I didn't want him msging her, and he totaly flipped.
Who is in the right. Is it normal and should I be happy with them msging each other. Me and my boyfriend live together and are very serious.

2007-01-11 16:43:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 16:42:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Its a good idea. Saves the guy from fighting with her to get it back when the marriage is over with. Plus, the women always complain because the ring isn't expensive and its not a diamond! Besides, the divorced woman would either pawn it or sell it. If she buys her own wedding ring, then gets divorced, she could save the next money by using the same ring. Isn't this a great idea? I think I started something! I have a long, long way to go till marriage.

2007-01-11 16:42:23 · 20 answers · asked by ZORRO 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-11 16:41:47 · 11 answers · asked by smart_shy_man 1 in Singles & Dating