I started dating this guy he seemed a little more feminine than normal, he laughs like a girl, he talks like a teenage girl, he crosses his legs like a girl, and I recently went over his house and He has pastel pink and baby blue sheets with the matching comforter. My dilemma is not only is he to feminine for me (I grew up with 2 brothers) I also got him a nice leather jacket for Christmas and he didn't get me anything so I don't even know why I'm still dating him. I just answered my question so now how do I dump him? He's very very very gentle, HELP! oh he also says "gosh"
2007-01-11 16:54:40 · 14 answers · asked by i'm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing you can do for this 'very, very, very gentle' guy is to find him a boyfriend. He sounds like he might be afraid to "come out". Not buying you a Christmas gift tells me he's not interested in you or your friendship and may just be using you to mask his real preference.
2007-01-11 17:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, none ought to artwork. i'm gay and does not date or do something with a lady of any kind. She should be the most masculine lady ever. right now adult adult males does not date a female guy both. Sexuality shouldn't have something to do with their personality. some do desire personalities, operating example, i does not date a female gay. they are huge turn offs for me(fantastically a lot as a lot as a lady)/ So it does be counted, yet so does how they offer the impact of being and wether they have a vagina or penis.
2016-11-23 13:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by merriweather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't get you anything and you got him a nice leather jacket? Uffdah! (ha ha, that's the Minnesotan in me!) Umm, well I'd tell him it isn't going to work out between you two. Just because he's gentle doesn't mean there aren't other guys who are also very gentle (maybe a little more their sex too)
Ask him if he's ever been influenced by society. I mean, c'mon! Who hasn't?
2007-01-11 17:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by Steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you would really like to still be his friend but you don't really see him putting the same effort in as you would like to be getting from a boyfriend. Trust me, a guy who gets you nothing even when you buy him things is just a freeloader who will not change. If its going to be a one-sided relationship why does it need two people?
2007-01-11 17:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, its ok if a guy is a bit feminine, but l feel this guy might be a bit confused with himself; one way or other.
to break it gentle to him, tell him its all about you that you want to break it off. tell him that its not working for you and hopefully you can remain friends. Say that you still care for him but not enough for you and him to be in a realationship together.
Good luck
2007-01-11 17:19:08 · answer #5 · answered by angie h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try talking to him first? I mean, even if you have decided you will break up with him ultimately, at least talk to him about what you dislike about him before you dump him. Maybe (and only maybe) he'll say something that will change your mind; after all, you did decide to go out with him at first.
2007-01-11 17:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by FBF 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be as nice as possible and just be very honest. I think you guys could possibly still be great friends, so don't be too hard on him. (Just never agree to exchange x-mas gifts.)
2007-01-11 17:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by Cuppycake♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well give him back the jacket he got you and tell him that thing are not working out and that you dont love him or ever well then tell him bye
2007-01-11 17:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you don't want to hurt him but you can't see him anymore. if he asks tell him the truth, he is too feminine, maybe he needs to hear it to avoid this problem in the future
2007-01-11 17:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by disco lemonade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce him to a nice guy, bet he takes the bait...
2007-01-11 17:00:00 · answer #10 · answered by SE7EN 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋