i am 18, and pretty attractive, and i work at a store where i see a whole bunch of different people daily. Lately i have noticed that guys with girlfriends clinging off of their arms have been staring and smiling at me. When the guys girlfriend sees me, she will instantly latch arms, or kiss him, or show me this is my guy back off. completely understandable. But when the girl looks the other, way the guy stares at me and smiles. Guys why do you do this. You obviously have a girl friend that cares about you, why blow it by staring and smiling at another girl? why do you stare if you have a Girfriend anyways?
2007-01-11 16:58:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please note: i do not have a bf,
i think that it is weird that they flirt with me when they do.
2007-01-11 17:03:31 · update #1
I hate this. I know exactly what you're saying. I'm 25 and married now with 3 kids. But I remember before I had my sons and I was by myself in the mall or whereever guys would check me out with their girl right there with them. It's almost like they wanted their girl to notice. They were so obvious about it. Maybe they want to make their girl jealous...? I don't know. I can't stand it because remember back to those times...it makes me wonder if my hubby does it. I always suspect that he does because so many married or "taken" men have flirted and checked me out in the past. It's hard for me to have any trust in my hubby behind my back now because of those "guys". That's bad because a "man" can give all men a bad name. Why? for no good reason... Hey when my husband is staring too hard...believe me I cut off the love supply...so he's only losing out in the end....haha
2007-01-11 17:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am honestly a nice guy. I always smile. However, i do not flirt or stare. I wouldthink any guy that is truly in love would not stare or flirt with another woman. However, the smiling part might be thm just being nice. Woman do this too. It is not just a gender issue. It is just how some people are. sometimes i come off as flirtatious, but i am just being nice. ITs the truth i am not bs. Hope it helped
2007-01-12 01:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by tomuchthinking 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We are stupid, and often will even break up with a gf for another girl only to regret it a week later, because we will commonly do things on a spur of the moment type of thing, becuase the new girl is more exciting right now, we dont take the time to think about it. we relise our mistake a week later and come begging back.
if a guy is looking at other girls, i wouldn't become to offended for it.
If your favorite cake is chocolate, would you dare take a bite of vanilla? As long as hes only looking you should be good to go.
2007-01-12 01:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why? well you are attractive and it must be so as this guys gave you a compliment. This is not flirting, just human nature. " A thing of beauty must be admired".
Unless the guy gave you some indication like winking, or call you out infront of his girlfriend, then he is flirting openly. Just ignore him,
Otherwise take all this in good sprit and enjoy the admiration.
Good Luck
2007-01-12 01:06:25 · answer #4 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer for all guy but I don't "flirt" when I am looking and some one, it may be I like something that they have on like a cool pair of shoes or maybe they look like somebody else that I know, if they turn and see me looking I smile and give a slight nod to show that I am not a weirdo or a stalker
2007-01-12 01:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by Lord Darkfall 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are always on the look out for the next great thing.. guys want to see all girls (they find attractive) naked.. ALL OF THEM!! we have the need to have sex it's in our blood. we have to have our name carried on we are told that from a young age.. what a tragic thing for your history to just fade out because you didn't have a child.... even though the goal is not to have child for most, still the need to "sex up" as many females as you can is deep ingrained. It's not really a choice, The Choice is Not to have sex with as many females as possable, That takes a man with a STRONG will.. find that man and don't worry about the looks you get from others. Enjoy the looks while you get them, It won't happen ALL of your life..
2007-01-12 01:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by James S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well girls do that too, it is true the guys do this more often, and some reason could be you dont like the girl anymore, another could be that you want to have options if you break with that girl
2007-01-12 01:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by Moi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same reason girls flirt with guys. They like attention.
2007-01-12 01:00:36 · answer #8 · answered by Vince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a guy thing. I know that is a cheesy answer but it is. I love my fiance with all my heart and would never cheat on her, but i love to flirt. So don't get too upset if your man does it. He is with you for a reason.
2007-01-12 01:01:02 · answer #9 · answered by freshlybakedj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a nature of all human being...
Its like if you are holding to a exquisite LV bag....
you would still look at others bag no matter what brand as
long as you feel they are attractive.
2007-01-12 01:07:07 · answer #10 · answered by Badmanfor3v3r 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋