i have been talking for this guy for the past 4 months, and he has not ask me out yet. I lost my virginity to him as well. He doesn't really call me that much for someone who really wants to be with me. Well we talked last night, and i know he really wants to be with me. Yet he told me he does not want to make that commitment right now. He said im like his unofficial girlfriend and he said he treats me like a girlfriend yet in honesty he doesnt. He does not even speak to me while we are around campus. Sometimes i try to say hi..etc, but i stopped because he doesnt make effort
2007-01-11 16:47:48 · 9 answers · asked by ace30815 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is a loser, move on girl!
2007-01-11 16:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by Amers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. first off, wake up!
I'm sorry to be blunt, but from a guy's perspective - looks like he's playing you. He got what he wanted, and he's trying to bounce.
He wants you to be there on the side, but in public and "officially" he doesn't want anything to do with you. When I was in high school, sadly enough I did that once. All guys are jerks.. we go through that, some though, never get out of that jerkish slump.. I was one of the lucky guys who did.
Dont sell yourself short, there's plenty of guys out there who would love to have a commitment with you BEFORE they want to be intimate with you! <---- Look for THOSE kinda guys!!
I read a really good book that talked about the dating scene .. it was a book aimed towards girls, but since I'm a counselor in a sense, I keep myself updated in all areas, or try to at least.. but anyways, the book said that when your going after a guy ... "dont waste the pretty" on guys who arent showing interest in you... your a beautiful person, and you cant "waste the pretty" on someone who isn't even interested.. save it for someone who is.
And always remember..... dont make someone your priority, when their only willing to make you their option!
2007-01-12 00:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by Jon C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is either confused or is talkin to another girl while talkin to you.... sounds like to me he isnt all that seriously into being in a commitment right now and to be honest with you id not get my hopes up go with your gut feeling on this one
2007-01-12 00:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by fretnoise21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and ask him what is going on? or you could just move on there is billions of guys in this world
2007-01-12 00:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by Moi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT REALLY SOUND LIKE YOU HAVE A SERIOUS PROBLEM ON
YOUR HAND FIRST OF ALL WHY ARE YOU WITH THIS MAN
FOR 4 MONTHS AND HAVE NEVER GONE OUT WITH HM
BUT YOU CAN HAVE SEX WITH HIM. DONT YOU SEE WHAT
GOING ON. HE DOES NOT WANT TO BE WITH YOU BUT
WHEN HE WANT SOME. TIME TO LET THIS LOOSER GO
HE NOT WORTH ANY MORE OF YOUR TIME.
2007-01-12 00:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like bad news. Run far away.
2007-01-12 00:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by GreenManorite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he not calling you his official girlfriend because he's sleeping with other girls? be careful with this one, it sounds shady. if a guy really truly wants to be with you, he'll be with you.
2007-01-12 00:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry but it sounds like he is using you....lose that loser and move on.
2007-01-12 00:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by gcrowders 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't have been that good in bed or he just wanted to get your virginity!!! :D
2007-01-12 00:52:50 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋