Family & Relationships - 6 January 2007

there is this guy at my school tht i really liked for 3 years but then he did something really mean to my best friend and idk if its ok to like him any more?! should i still like him?? is it ok??

2007-01-06 04:27:09 · 8 answers · asked by vollyballgal309 1 in Singles & Dating

One minute, i'm madly in love with my ex who i have a daughter with and i can't live without him and the next, i'm sick of the way he acts sometimes and i could care less whether we're together or not.I don't know what this means,do i still love him?And if not, then why can't i just let him go??Please help!!

2007-01-06 04:26:57 · 17 answers · asked by serenity 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-06 04:25:18 · 11 answers · asked by carolbob 1 in Marriage & Divorce

fight last night with the bf (2yr relationship), i know it sounds childish but YOUVE BEEN THERE.....im not calling him becuase he hung up the phone on me, but he is stubborn and wont call me. who calls who first??? do you think he will everntually give in?

2007-01-06 04:24:56 · 19 answers · asked by Ash 4 in Singles & Dating

when a guy tells u he misses ur company, is this a way of him sayin that he misses u, but not tryna be all mushy about it? cus when i ask this guy if he misses me, he smiles, turns away, n says "what?". then when i ask him again, he always says, "i miss ur company, yeah."

2007-01-06 04:24:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whenever i tell my best friend that my boyfriend is gonna come into town she gets all defensive and flips out... i really dont think shes jealous cuz shes just not the type and ive known her for 9 years... so why does she get so uptight i dont act like that toward her boyfriend

2007-01-06 04:24:14 · 15 answers · asked by hot stuff 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I don't doubt the love my husband has for me. But I feel he has crossed the line with posting this bulletin in his myspace for friends and family to see. I told him it was sweet and that I thought it was crossing the line. Since my brother is on his myspace. So, what do you think. Do you think he could have been more discreet?
--bulletin--
Tonight, ---- and I started to make love, and undressed each other. We started to kiss, fondle, all that foreplay crap. Then we started talking....and talking.....and talking. We lay there naked, kissing and talking and holding each other....for two hours! We never ended up sealing the deal, and If you've seen my wife naked, you would know how hard it was to keep from exploding everywhere. Instead, we just talked about our wants and needs and feelings. It was a wonderful night. ****, I love that woman. She is the most politically conscious, socially aware, and heartfelt person I've ever met. I cherish this woman.

2007-01-06 04:22:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am talking about issues where you do not see things the same way, differences in perception. Are you able to resolve them?
Or simply sweep them under the carpet (or bedcovers) until they come up again.
1) Have you tried your advice?
2) Does it actually work for the serious stuff?

2007-01-06 04:22:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, this might get long...I generally don't consider myself as the kind of person who gets depressed/stressed out. I am normally happy-go-lucky, optimistic, and I can always find the good in situations. However, since teenagerhood, I have fallen into "lows" where I just get mad at the world; I get tired of trying to make everybody else happy; I feel like I bend over backwards for EVERYONE, but no one ever returns the favor. And to top it all off, my husband, the ONE person I should always be able to count on is never there for me. He usually compounds the problem and starts these "lows". Because I don't feel like he cares about me or loves me. Anyway, I always tell him when I feel like this that I'm sick of trying; I just want to go away...But after a week or two, then I'm back to my normal, cheerful self. I can't say how often this happens; it just comes and goes...little things pile up until I can't take it anymore. So...do you think counseling would help me?

2007-01-06 04:22:08 · 11 answers · asked by Pooky 4 in Marriage & Divorce

don't see either one of us moving for each other but we are getting deeper and deeper in lust everyday! i feel like it's so hopeless and i want to stop talking because the longer we talk i know it's going to get harder to end! i know very well nobody can survive on a messenger and be together and i hate that messenger anyway! also phone calls are limited due to money. should i end this now before i get really depressed when we fall in love or should i continue??

2007-01-06 04:22:02 · 5 answers · asked by marquitta 1 in Singles & Dating

Still have sex with my ex even though I am not attracted to him any more. we are good friends and have a 2 year old child. I am also talking to another man, but I can't be with him yet because of other circumstances. My ex is still in love with me, even though he's the one that wanted out of the relationship. I just need advise. I really like the other guy, but I seem to keep giving in to my ex's sexual needs.

2007-01-06 04:21:41 · 4 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Singles & Dating

its so hard now, i know i sould like i want simpathy but i loved him, and we broke up....do you think i should call him and see if he has anything left. im so confused and troubled by the situation (2yr relationship)

2007-01-06 04:18:47 · 11 answers · asked by Ash 4 in Singles & Dating

Well my boyfriend always does somethings or says something that makes me mad. I know he doesnt do it on prepose but it makes me mad. I always want to break up with him because of it. I want it to last but its not going to get nowhere if i keep gettin mad at him and wanting to break up with him. How should i handle this situation?

2007-01-06 04:17:38 · 9 answers · asked by Or3oC0oKii3 1 in Singles & Dating

How much do you think for:
1 bridal bouquet
2 mom corsages
6 bridesmaids bouquets
8 boutonnieres

2007-01-06 04:17:17 · 7 answers · asked by amor1954 2 in Weddings

I think I'm gonna get lost.i don't know if i make friends.I don't know if someone have a crush on me.Help!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-06 04:15:53 · 13 answers · asked by Malik 1 in Singles & Dating

in case ur wondering am doing health and social care at college ave tried looking on the net but a cannot find anything thats relevant to what a need!

2007-01-06 04:15:45 · 4 answers · asked by Leo F 1 in Friends

Hi, we're throwing a potluck wedding shower for my daughter at a hall. Do I actually put the word potluck on the invitation? This way everyone can bring their best dish and bring the recipe so she can start up a recipe collection.

2007-01-06 04:15:20 · 7 answers · asked by amor1954 2 in Weddings

I keep having weird dreams about this guy I don't even know.Like once we were just sitting there in this weird house talking.And thats all we do in these dreams is talk!Then in another one I kissed him.(wtf?!)I can't see my self,but he looks about 17 yrs old..so could anyone please help me?

2007-01-06 04:15:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-06 04:14:54 · 10 answers · asked by becki f 2 in Family

I now how to french kiss but normal...? no. HELP!

2007-01-06 04:14:42 · 7 answers · asked by farmgoddess19 1 in Singles & Dating

I have paid for the dress and bargained shopped for $ 900.00 in other items used in the wedding including his wedding band! Then I put $100.00 in the wedding account. Ok it started out a Church wedding. This is my daughter I raised alone. My x -husband choose not to be in her life in any manner $ either. I was upset when the groom changed the wedding to the Beach, I told my daughter that I would adjust, Then Its a reception has turned into 1000.00s of dollars. I told them I would pay for the wedding which is about $300.00 more and I'm done. My daughter should know I spent my savings on all of this, and I live on disability. I have a lot of health problems that one may prevent me from going to the wedding, I have to have surgery 3 weeks before the wedding, unless I put it off. This is making me feel horrible but there is nothing I can do. I can't get a loan because I can't pay it back. Her father is a dead beat dad D>L> that has money and will not help. Any suggestions?

2007-01-06 04:14:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-06 04:12:16 · 7 answers · asked by carolbob 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I am a very attractive girl, I know this because I am told all the time. Why though does it seem I get no where being the caring nice girl?I'm one of those girls who would cater to someone else before I would expect them to cater to me. It seems guys walk all over me because of this. I don't understand? I have a great personality, but it seems like guys prefer a manipulative diva. No matter what people do to me, I just can't find it in my heart to be that way. I'm in a rut because it's now causing me to put up a wall to everyone and people notice. Also, I'm a fighter, but I refuse to fight over guys because I feel a guy isn't worth it. It bothers me though because I'm sick of the b**ches always winning and me always ending up being the "friend"! Am I just too nice for guys? Should I be more competitive or am I right for just giving up the fight because there are other men out there? Do guys prefer the b**ches? I just don't understand because I am equally attractive. Opinions?

2007-01-06 04:11:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but after he broke up with hes girlfriend is it my falt!

2007-01-06 04:11:27 · 9 answers · asked by hockeylova#1 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm not trying to be a smart alek. I like sex, but never without protection. I would just like an honest answer from an honest woman. Don't women know when they are at the most fertile time of the month. Don't both men and women know that they should not have sex without at least a condom and she should be on the pill as well. Ok maybe the first two points somehow get lost after a few beers. Here is I thing I think is the most important point, why do people have sex without protection with people they wouldn't want to have a child with? I don't understand. I told a single mom that she wanted to get pregnant with the baby dady and she got mad at me. I don't understand how you accidentially have unprotected sex with someone, that you are not sure is parent material? Will anyone tell me the TRUTH.

2007-01-06 04:11:06 · 13 answers · asked by ARM 6 in Singles & Dating

I am 19 yrs old and an intern really more of a personal assiastant at a company.There is one man 26 and a ladies man (player) who is married with a son about two who is my offical boss.He flirts with all the girls in the office and has according to some of the secretarys slept with three of them as a warning to me they said to be careful with him .I work hard and even took a break from school i am only taking 3 classes at the moment to do this job.I smile at my boss and play into some of the friendly banter or flirting but nothing more.Even though i let him check me out and compliment me i make sure to keep my distance.Problem is she thinks i am the other woman and got my number from his cell phone and has sent nast text messages and voicemails over the last three days.What can i do?

2007-01-06 04:08:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-06 04:08:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What are the best wedding colors? What day in november would be the best day for a wedding? When you dont have the money for a reception but have the money for a cake, chairs and tent, how would the festivities be planned out nicely with such limited resources?

2007-01-06 04:07:30 · 14 answers · asked by sinistersister69 2 in Weddings

please help me, my fiancee got angry at me cuz i was late comming home. he was drunk and he started yelling at me and started beatibg me with the rolling pin, im fine now, the dr's asked what happened and i toldthem i had fallin down the stirs. i'm really scared and he doesnt know that i'm pregnant(i found out last week and i just dont know how to tell him) he's never yelled at me and has never hit me untill now and i really really love him, but i dont know what i should do. i'm really scared cuz friday is usually his drinking night and i dont know if hes gonna be mad at me for what ever reason. before he didnt drink he was so good to me never yelled never said bad things to me never hit me but now when he sees me crying cuz i'm scared he says "oh mami i'm sorry u no i luv u girl" or "mami im sorry i dont mean it and i'll stop hurting you" i know he is a really great guy and i no he does love me but i dont know how to deal with the beating, (hes hit me more than 1 time) wat shold i do

2007-01-06 04:06:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 04:06:12 · 11 answers · asked by lovelynfuller 3 in Marriage & Divorce