Family & Relationships - 6 January 2007

2007-01-06 04:44:52 · 8 answers · asked by amir y 1 in Singles & Dating

and we went out it was fun, then she invited me back to her place, where her 2 roomates live all 3 are bisexual, anyway we got to drinking and one thing led to the next, honestly i need to take a few breaks and just watch. she has called me and wants me to go back over tonight. my question is can anything serious come from this kind of relationship?

2007-01-06 04:44:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 04:42:55 · 11 answers · asked by kay,kay 1 in Singles & Dating

When you've reached a point in a relationship where the only way out is to have the other person call it off, how do I lose a girl in 10 days?

2007-01-06 04:42:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i go to chruch and 3 girls siting there i go shake the hands and then go back to sit. and i hear a lound wipser hes cute then her firend start looking at me. then the girl look at me i look back she looks somewhere else fast were the girls talking about me?

2007-01-06 04:42:41 · 10 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 19 yrs old and an intern really more of a personal assiastant at a company.There is one man 26 and a ladies man (player) who is married with a son about two who is my offical boss.He flirts with all the girls in the office and has according to some of the secretarys slept with three of them as a warning to me they said to be careful with him .I work hard and even took a break from school i am only taking 3 classes at the moment to do this job.I smile at my boss and play into some of the friendly banter or flirting but nothing more.Even though i let him check me out and compliment me i make sure to keep my distance.I want him to back off though?Not that i dislike him i just dont do married men.

2007-01-06 04:42:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was concieved by my biological father raping my mother 30 years ago. I just found this out a couple of months ago hence the reasoning behind my mother always treating me like the spawn of satan. I always wondered why she treated me that way and now I know. Me and my mother no longer talk and haven't for almost a year because I forced this information out of her and now she says that she will never be a part of my life again but she still wants to see her grand kids (my 3 children). They have told me that she has told them that she doesn't like me and she says harsh things about me in front of them. She has no desire to reconcile with me even for my kids and I plan on just living my life and helping my kids through this without her because I know they miss her but I don't know what else to do. I have been seeing a therapist for 4 months to help me through this and it seems to be helping. Do you think I'm on the right path to recovery or do you think I should speak up to my mom?

2007-01-06 04:42:10 · 10 answers · asked by Jennifer S 2 in Family

I am new to my neighborhood. Everyone here is either related or have known eachother since kindergarten. They all have their long-standing groups, and they don't welcome newcomers well. How do i make friends?

2007-01-06 04:41:48 · 10 answers · asked by anonymous_1206 2 in Friends

Ok here's the deal.My ex wife was a hardbody.You could bounce a quater off any part of her body.The draw back was that included her heart.My current girlfriend is sweet kind and is nothing but kind to me.Im 46 she 49 only problem is with me.Her legs are kinda jiggly for lack of better word.Never wears shorts or short skirts.What the hell is wrong with me?

2007-01-06 04:40:45 · 10 answers · asked by P.Bunyun 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-06 04:40:44 · 3 answers · asked by Racovita S 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the reason he keeps doing this? He says I just want to put him down. I have said stop but he acts as if he does not understand. I think he is in denial and passive-agressive. He has been impotent since I met him and denies that reality as well. I have tried counseling but he lies to the therapist. Is this passive-agressive? I have got to the point where I end up yelling and crying every time he gives me a "present." And I ask why why do you keep doing this?

2007-01-06 04:39:46 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

To my friend of 8 years. She called me at work when I was really busy and started to give me a hard time because I went out somewhere and did not invite her. I said "please dont call me at work and give me a hard time of it" she then hung up on me and is telling everyone she has severed all connections with me because I really have hurt her

2007-01-06 04:39:00 · 26 answers · asked by charlotte 3 in Friends

I had my first kiss last night, and it was so unbelievably unenjoyable. Honestly, I didn't know any physical sensation could be so...detestable. It was slobbery, and he opened his mouth too much, and I found myself thinking about other things while he was kissing me.
Is kissing really just overrated, so I was expecting too much out of it, or should it actually be enjoyable, and I just got stuck with someone who has no lip coordination?

2007-01-06 04:38:56 · 10 answers · asked by Aliza, Queen of the Night 3 in Singles & Dating

My Best Friend, has 2 best friends. me, and another girl whom i used to be friends with until she became a snob. My Best Friend told her she would hang out with her today, when last night, she told me she'd hang out with me today. So, what do i do? i have no plans and i dont have any other friends in the neighborhood that i want to hang out with.

2007-01-06 04:38:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anastasia B 2 in Friends

I'm overweight and i was wondering if that's the reason i've never been on a date EVER... wut do u think?

2007-01-06 04:38:18 · 23 answers · asked by pinkyfritz20 2 in Singles & Dating

ok my bf is kinda controling .....but hes the guy im in love with ...tho lately hes been telling me every fight we've had i started when all i try to do is discuss a older fight or aruge and then theres no controling him ...he calls me the most worse things in this world ***** and stupid and when i ask something sooo easy as to stop screaming or cursing im wrong because i was the one who brought it up .....just hes having doubts and so am i but i know theres some way this could work on top of that cause of all the stress i stopped eatting and started taking uppers to stay away ....ive been up for 4 days and i have to go to work in 2 hrs plz tell me what i should do cause im soo lost right now i dont know myself from the mirror

2007-01-06 04:36:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend said he's depressed these days and needs some space. I want to comfort him but he didn't even answer my calls. Is it normal? What should I do?

P.S I kind of gave him some headache cause I didn't know he's depressed.

2007-01-06 04:35:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was in a relationship with someone for 5 years, we had some sort of communication everyday for that 5 years. We recently broke up and there is another woman envolved in the break up. How long do, if ever do you think it will take this man to try to get back in touch with me? We used to talk about everything, and nothing, just spoke in some way everyday, even when we were mad at each other.

2007-01-06 04:34:57 · 11 answers · asked by Mis I 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend who i have known all my life had an engagement party at the local working mans club recently, I was well excited as we hadnt had a proper boogie together for ages. She'd booked a mobile disco so i was expecting the usual line up, YMCA, Ooops upside yer head, Agadoo and a liitle bit of Come on Eileen to bring everybody together, how bloody wrong could I be? Turns out she'd requested all this modern stuff, no birdie song, no !0cc to round the night off?? Who the hell is this James Blunt fella?? It was not beautiful at all i had a crap night and didnt get up to dance once, just sat with my Campari and soda all night.

Is it worth me going to the wedding or will that be as crap too?

2007-01-06 04:32:30 · 57 answers · asked by ♥Tallulah♥ 4 in Weddings

I'm divorcing my husband, we own 2 homes together, and other assets. We want to avoid courts and work things out independently.

2007-01-06 04:32:11 · 15 answers · asked by Honey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a break dancer..., a girl breakdancer,(and atomboy). This year my mom put me in these ballroom lessons. I would have done them by putting a stone on my heart but since I found out that my partner would my best friend at school (a boy) I got real freaked out. I mean no one has seen me with my hair open and loose and with "glamouras" dress and all. I don't like him or have a crush on him but lately he's been acting different with me, he's like always trying to get close to me and always talking to me and all, always following me, so I don't..I have two questions...Is he in love with me or something? and Should I do the ballroom lessons....with him,?

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I love him as a friend and don't really mind and all but....this is confusing, where on the other hand he used to be such a playboy and have new girlfriends each day, today he's writing poetry, and no girlfriends and then always just coming near me. NEED EXPERT HELP HERE.

2007-01-06 04:31:55 · 5 answers · asked by smartie-chick 1 in Friends

a gurl who races cars, plays guitar and ropes horses? Or is it a turnoff?

2007-01-06 04:31:05 · 4 answers · asked by AMBER D 6 in Singles & Dating

i happen to think that women who are my age, or close to it (early thirties)are more attractive to me than younger girls, but they are hard to find because most women, and i am not trying to stereotype here, that are pushing 30 or above have let themselves go. My point is that there are people who judge us 30 somethings and over for dating someone who may be significantly younger than us, but isnt this a good reason why, or is it just me? like i said i would prefer a woman more my age but it just seems like they are so hard to find.......

2007-01-06 04:30:54 · 12 answers · asked by bad b 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 04:30:49 · 18 answers · asked by osuross2005 2 in Weddings

2007-01-06 04:30:30 · 46 answers · asked by CHIKA 3 in Friends

There is this guy at school. He knows who I am and we talk alot and stuff. I have half of my classes with him and I'm usually sitting behind him or across from him. In classes that I sit behind him, he is constantly turning around [as if stretching] then turns back. I catch him staring a lot and ever since there has been this rumor about me and some guy dating, he has increased his attention giving. A friend and I sit under a certain counter during study hall and talk. It is in a room that is between his homeroom and my homeroom. He has started coming in and staying for like 5 seconds then leaving. 5 mins or so later, coming in again. and just little things he does makes me feel like he likes me. Is it just my imagination or is it true?

2007-01-06 04:29:48 · 9 answers · asked by Layla 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 04:28:21 · 17 answers · asked by Agu 2 in Singles & Dating

i go to chruch and 3 girls siting there i go shake the hands and then go back to sit. and i hear a lound wipser hes cute then her firend start looking at me. then the girl look at me i look back she looks somewhere else fast were the girls talking about me?

2007-01-06 04:28:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well i have a problem with trusting ive been let down so many times by people i thought i could trust. well my problem is this: i thought id see how trusting my boyfriend is, my boyfriend signed on the dating web page ages ago and thats how we met.....any way i put a fake profile on and a photo of a woman i found on google.well after sending a messege to him i got a fone call that evening from him saying he got a msg from the site and asked if it was me well i said no it wasnt and he believed me he said he deleted the msg.well when i loged on there was a msg from him....asking about my life ect. so i sent one back and to my horror he send a short msg saying you have a stunning face.and ive msg back saying thankyou.i asked if he was single but he spoke about his ex and so i asked the same question again, he just left hes web page a mob time asking to keep in touch as he really liked the sound of that profile.......im so confused and angry i nearly court him log on this morning!

2007-01-06 04:27:50 · 7 answers · asked by dragontears 4 in Singles & Dating

A girl gave me her phone number. I called but she wasn't at home, so I left a message and my phone number on her answering machine (was this a mistake?). She hasn't returned my call. Should I take it as a sign she isn't interested, or should I try calling again?

2007-01-06 04:27:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating