Ok here's the deal.My ex wife was a hardbody.You could bounce a quater off any part of her body.The draw back was that included her heart.My current girlfriend is sweet kind and is nothing but kind to me.Im 46 she 49 only problem is with me.Her legs are kinda jiggly for lack of better word.Never wears shorts or short skirts.What the hell is wrong with me?
2007-01-06 04:40:45 · 10 answers · asked by P.Bunyun 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Im the same..in other words you like to be sexually attracted to them also...u cant get over being shallow but just realize that you like this woman enough to look past her legs..if not then dont b with her...but good luck on finding a woman w a hard body and what u want around ur age!
2007-01-06 04:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh it's okay that you may want her to "tone" up in certain areas....I won't write you off as a JERK..yet...lol. But, hello honey she's 49!! And, if that's the only issue you have with her...yes..talk yourself down and realize what is important here. Do you want her to start pinpointing all of your physical flaws?? At 46 do you have all your hair....um...a little jiggly in the middle?? A few frown lines/? Heck..we all have em' it's called aging....and as for your ex wife...so WHAT ..so she was a hardbody...she obviously was a zero on the inside. Next time you want to be critical of your g/f's jiggles...STOP DROP AND ROLL...no j/k but yes stop and remember that there is a hell of alot more to her than that!!!
2007-01-06 12:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by Hear2Help 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u fail to see all the good in this woman, u love her with conditions, not unconditionally. how many of us have good bodies, how many of us look like we did when we were young? u are 49 and quite immature for your age, and unfair to her. yes there is a shallow part to u that u need to work on, cause in the real world, we all don't have wonderful hard bodies, some of us do have jiggly legs, but we are still people who deserve to be loved, and well thought of. what if u were the one who had this flaw, would u want to be loved for who u are or would u want someone to look down on u. u can't have it all, it is usually the girls with the beautiful bodies, who love only themselves, who are stuck on themselves. none of us are perfect, u could go get yourself a young girl, but than how long do u think she would stay, and what would she really want from u? and she wouldn't love u unconditionally like the sweet one u have now. grow up
2007-01-06 12:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide what you want. Do you want a hard body sexy babe with no heart and most times is selfish or do you want someone that is lets say average with some physical defects with a heart of gold. You really need to decide what is important to you. I also must ask are you mister perfect in every way? Being that your 46 I would bet you have some imperfections on ya being that old and all yourself...Hmmm think about it.
2007-01-06 12:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by Lucinda M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
nothing is wrong with you. no one wants an out of shape wife. the bad part is as soon as you bring it up, the pity party begins. good luck.
2007-01-06 12:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a treadmill,she probably doesnt like the jiggley bits!!
2007-01-06 12:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your looking in the wrong places.
2007-01-06 12:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try being more critical of yourself then others.
2007-01-06 12:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by Nancy O 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you said it ....you are shallow.
2007-01-06 13:06:45 · answer #9 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a pig!
2007-01-06 12:42:12 · answer #10 · answered by Irie 123 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋