its so hard now, i know i sould like i want simpathy but i loved him, and we broke up....do you think i should call him and see if he has anything left. im so confused and troubled by the situation (2yr relationship)
2007-01-06 04:18:47 · 11 answers · asked by Ash 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sympathy*(spelling error)
2007-01-06 04:20:25 · update #1
The only thing I can tell you, is that IT Will get better! It hurts like crazy, and you will lose weight, can't sleep, cry a lot, etc. With each day that passes though , you gain a little ground until one day, almost no hurt at all. It takes a long time, I'm not going to lie to you, but it DOES happen eventually. Spend time with friends, go out, go to a movie, etc. and things will improve soon. Good Luck....sorry you're hurting!
2007-01-06 04:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't call him, you will just seem desperate. It is very hard when you're suffering a broken heart but given time the hurt will heal. You need to talk to someone to get rid of all the unresolved feelings so you can at least sleep. Talk to a good friend, or relative or a counsellor if there's no-one else. You broke up for a reason, that hasn't changed. You need to look after yourself, get some support and give yourself some time. There will be other boys out there for you when you are ready to go look for them.
2007-01-06 12:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No as hard as this maybe you have to move on. I had a friend in a similar situation. She was an awesome soccer player...well for about 3 months after her boy broke it off she sucked at soccer. I mean sucked. Worst player I've ever seen all due to some boy. then one day she just snaped out of it like everything was okay again. This will happen with you too just give it time.
2007-01-06 12:23:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u should call him. Back off for a while then see if there is anything left. Meanwhile u get urself together. I am in the same situation right now and the best advice i got for how ur feeling is that the hard things (i.e calling him, talking to him) are probably things that u dont want to do.
2007-01-06 12:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by Pablo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you really like/love someone and you break up or something goes wrong you cant eat or sleep... this happened to me in the past, and when i have a lil argeument with my girlfriend i tend to lose sleep and my appetite. Best thing is to try and be strong. It's only effecting you and your body, keep yourself busy by doing anything, hang with friends etc. Within months you'll slowly let go.. if not, the feelings will always remain but you wontbe so attached.
2007-01-06 12:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by jattyjattj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, of course you feel this way dear. Relationships are hard. You don't sound like ou need sympathy at all. This type of thing is hard. What you should do is just hang in there and try to get over him. You will, just be patient.
2007-01-06 12:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by Sali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Begin keeping a journal of all your feelings. Daily...
Then, try to live just one day at a time, or at least one minute at a time.
Fill your life with work, school, or hobbies.
Eventually you will get through this. It isn't easy, and it isn't quick. There is no way you will ever forget this experience, but you can live through it.
2007-01-06 12:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should get over it and get a new man
if he really wanted u he would have called u
and 2 years of relationship should have him feeling the same way as u
2007-01-06 12:21:37 · answer #8 · answered by ryshekia_1994 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who initiated the break up? i know it's hard believe me. but with time it gets better. ( i know u don't want to hear it, i didn't want to hear it either), but it does get better. some people will tell you oh just move on, but it isn't that simple if you loved them. stay positive. good luck.
2007-01-06 12:25:59 · answer #9 · answered by t t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont waste time to restore a broken relation
2007-01-06 12:21:59 · answer #10 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋