Ok, I am a very attractive girl, I know this because I am told all the time. Why though does it seem I get no where being the caring nice girl?I'm one of those girls who would cater to someone else before I would expect them to cater to me. It seems guys walk all over me because of this. I don't understand? I have a great personality, but it seems like guys prefer a manipulative diva. No matter what people do to me, I just can't find it in my heart to be that way. I'm in a rut because it's now causing me to put up a wall to everyone and people notice. Also, I'm a fighter, but I refuse to fight over guys because I feel a guy isn't worth it. It bothers me though because I'm sick of the b**ches always winning and me always ending up being the "friend"! Am I just too nice for guys? Should I be more competitive or am I right for just giving up the fight because there are other men out there? Do guys prefer the b**ches? I just don't understand because I am equally attractive. Opinions?
2007-01-06 04:11:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to be who you are, no matter what guys think! If you are an attractive nice girl, i dont see why you have to change that. If a guy doesn't like for you qualities then he is not worth it. Sometimes guys like the manipulative girls because is almost like a game, they are trying to play games with them but it usually dont work out because they'll get tired of being manipulated. Just embrace who you are, you have a better personality than all of those b**ches....you just havent found the guy to value you for who you are! Just make sure men dont take advantage of your sweetness, stand up fpr yourself and let them know that you are worth it!!! Good Luck
2007-01-06 04:23:24 · answer #1 · answered by Muahh!!! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave the guy aloneeee! That's honestly the best thing you can do. If you stop paying so much attention to him, he may start to wonder why. But really, you do seem obsessed over him, so you really should just leave the guy alone and find a hobby girl. You are too young, and so boy crazy, stay focused on what's important. School, family, sports and friends. keep yourself busy and entertained. If he had an interest in you, you would know, clearly the guy wants nothing to do with you. I don't want to hurt your feelings, but you are looking for advice and i'm trying to help you. And another tip, when you chase boys, they don't like it, they would much rather be the ones chasing. Hope this helps and good luck
2016-05-22 23:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no this is the type of girl that am looking for (caring loving girl). you just have to find the right type of guys cause were out there. There is no such thing as nice girls finish last, only nice guys finish last.
Also maybe ur looking for the wrong type of guys. Maybe ur looking for bad boy instead of a nice guy.
2007-01-06 04:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by Pablo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like this has little or nothing to do with you being 'nice' or the other girls being 'betches'...it sounds like the guys you have tried to date realize you won't close the deal and they want action, not a good-looking trophy. Either get busy, or get lost, simple as that!
2007-01-06 04:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hot nice girl.
2007-01-06 04:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think they are not that cute to fight over
u are right girl Don't fight over no man they are not worth it let them go
2007-01-06 04:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by ryshekia_1994 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"manipulative diva " translation, bi tch. No I don't prefer them. Your problem is not you it's them. don't worry about it so much.Your time will come. Don't "settle" for less.
2007-01-06 04:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy prefer bitches coz they can give them SEX ! having sex with living and non living differs and living is ofcourse more fun !
2007-01-06 04:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by only me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself if the guys don't like it then tough s**t
2007-01-06 04:18:15 · answer #9 · answered by darien_bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a hot nice girl no duh
2007-01-06 12:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋