Well my boyfriend always does somethings or says something that makes me mad. I know he doesnt do it on prepose but it makes me mad. I always want to break up with him because of it. I want it to last but its not going to get nowhere if i keep gettin mad at him and wanting to break up with him. How should i handle this situation?
2007-01-06 04:17:38 · 9 answers · asked by Or3oC0oKii3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to take anger management classes. People don't make you mad, you become mad at them or their actions. Nobody 'makes' you do anything unless they hold you down and force you.
If his actions are unjustified then you need to speak to him about your feelings concerning them. If you two can't reach a compromise concerning how to handle what he does and how you react to it, then you shouldn't be together as boyfriend and girlfriend.
2007-01-06 04:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are to young right now and don't really know what you want. Why would you want to stay with someone that you are mad at all the time and always want to break up? I say take that break and focus on what you really want in ANY relationship or you may just keep following this path with the next relationship. Best of Luck to you
2007-01-06 04:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by workit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to him about it and give him a chance to change. after a while if he wont stop then you should just break up, theres no point in being in a relationship you dont enjoy. having time apart will make you realise what you really want.
goodl luck!! =)
2007-01-06 04:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sometimes I know how you feel. My boyfriend says some things and I almost did break up with him. What you need to do is just tell him your thoughts and if he really likes you he will apologise and he'll stop. Then you two will kiss and make up! lol!
Hope this helps!
~Rachey
2007-01-06 04:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must think if you are in love with him anymore, and if you don't know for sure you must consider the probability to break up with him.
2007-01-06 04:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by so sad! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop nagging...you fixate on him too much and not enough on your own problems. Like another person in this forum told you, you are the one who controls YOU. If you can't stop bugging the shet out of the guy, he ought to dump your sorry azz!!!
2007-01-06 04:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No one else can actually make you mad.
You are CHOOSING to get mad.
Either change your choices or your boyfriend.
2007-01-06 04:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
talk 2 him ,tell him it hurts if he still won,t stop dump him
2007-01-06 04:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bottom line...You guys are not compatible.
2007-01-06 04:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋