Family & Relationships - 6 January 2007

2007-01-06 18:15:35 · 14 answers · asked by Blue eyed girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I went to the movies last saturday and i saw my best friend's boyfriend making out in the back of the theater with an other guy. I mean i don't want to tell her because she will bes crushed. Plus he is really hot, he is like the perfect guy. What should i do?

2007-01-06 18:15:22 · 21 answers · asked by jessica omalian 1 in Family

How long does it take before you know for sure a guy is not going to have feelings for you and want you to be his girlfriend? We have been sleeping together for 2 months. There are sparks like crazy and it seems like his actions say he is falling in love with me. He seems to be treating me better and trying hard to please me and wanting me to be with him a lot. I'm falling in love with him too so I'm afraid to continue much longer if he doesn't love me and I'm afraid to ask him how he feels. Do you think I should read his actions that he is falling in love? Is two months long enough for him to have given me a commitment? What should I do??

2007-01-06 18:15:13 · 9 answers · asked by bellyyo62 1 in Singles & Dating

I went to the movies last saturday and i saw my best friend's boyfriend making out in the back of the theater with an other guy. I mean i don't want to tell her because she will bes crushed. Plus he is really hot, he is like the perfect guy. What should i do?

2007-01-06 18:15:10 · 10 answers · asked by jessica omalian 1 in Friends

candy?
flowers?
clothes??

what is something that would really make her happy??
money is really not a concern since im pretty well off!

tks for answering & may God bless you!!! :)

2007-01-06 18:15:00 · 10 answers · asked by forest lover 2 in Singles & Dating

im 19 years old and i have a situation

im not really nervous around girls, but i never know how to keep a conversation going or how to start a conversation. as a result, i am nervous to hang out with a girl by myself. im usually hanging out with girls when there is a big group, which makes it much easier because the focus isn't on you...idk whats wrong with me..any advice as to what i can do to overcome my fear of hanging out with a girl, how can i keep a conversation flowing

ps- in regards to conversation, can i keep a conversation going by talking about anything related to the topic we are talking about even if its a little off subject, or is that a good idea?

thanks for the hlep guys

2007-01-06 18:14:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went to the movies last saturday and i saw my best friend's boyfriend making out in the back of the theater with an other guy. I mean i don't want to tell her because she will bes crushed. Plus he is really hot, he is like the perfect guy. What should i do?

2007-01-06 18:14:40 · 3 answers · asked by jessica omalian 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it awkward for u gurls to date sum1 2 years younger than u???

2007-01-06 18:14:29 · 18 answers · asked by cruel_dika 1 in Singles & Dating

I went to the movies last saturday and i saw my best friend's boyfriend making out in the back of the theater with an other guy. I mean i don't want to tell her because she will bes crushed. Plus he is really hot, he is like the perfect guy. What should i do?

2007-01-06 18:14:16 · 18 answers · asked by jessica omalian 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with one of my closest male friends, whom I have been very good friends with for a couple of years now. We have shared so much, and have been through the depths of hearthache and joy alonside one another. However, it wasn't until a year ago when I suddenly realized that I was very much in love with him.
The situation is complicated by the fact that we share an apartment together, so there is not a moment where I can escape the feelings that I have, and often I find myself in tears and crazy fits of anger. It also doesn't help that he is in infatuated with my best girl-friend and constantly asks me for advice on the situation.
Sometimes I feel as though he is using me to get to her, despite our substantially long friendship, which I hope is built on some integrity.
I am certain that he will never feel the same way about me, and this eats away at me everyday.
I am at a complete loss, and am wondering what to do next, if anything at all.

2007-01-06 18:13:19 · 5 answers · asked by g 1 in Singles & Dating

A girl was with me for 2 1/2 years and got really involved in my life..after that she started ignoring me because she joined a co-education college..I cried so much because i loved her and she rejected my love saying that i never understand her..I feel vey upset everyday and am living a very tough life..she has hurted my feelings to great extents..but i still miss the old times and hurt myself more..she doesnt care about how i am now..the worse thing is she keeps roaming with her friends (mostly guys) right in front of my eyes and I don know wat to do abt it..I have lost my confidence totally..I want to be strong now..I study in the same college as she does and I am very scared whenever I see her car or something cus she is always with a guy..I feel very depressed..Life just does not seem to be worth living but I want to live for my parents.. I am 20 now..Its been 6 months since Im sufferin alone..how long will i suffer more..?? God just doesn seem to care about me..Please help me..

2007-01-06 18:13:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel like I am Cinderella because my fiance's MIL and two SIL have tried to treat me like S%$t since they first saw me. What started it was when one of my SIL said she didn't like me because I read a letter. Bull@#$%. We have been waging war ever since. From them taking me to court. To me taking them to court. From me boosting a friend to beat them up. To vicious rumors and lies. To me calling CPS on them. To them calling CPS on me. All of us have engaged in dirt with each other but what is hurting me is that my fiance' is the blacksheep of the family and he has developed the NO BACK-BONE syndrome. They talk down to him in his face and his mother and sisters refuses to engage with his son which is also my son. Even through all this he still jumps when they say jump. Its only after three years of me b&%$##*@ he has finally stood up. This is hurting him. AND THEY KNOW IT. Because of him pleading with me, I've chilled out, but their still at it. I want this to end NOW!

2007-01-06 18:13:05 · 6 answers · asked by biancamoon1 1 in Weddings

I have been in a relationship for 10yrs. I have 3 children (boys) I love my family alot but my family hates my sons father. He is not supportive to me in anyway we sleep in different rooms we never go out to mingle together he does not help me finacially, mentally, sexualy, spiritually.He was good with the kids until i realized he was not helping with raising 3 strong men in this day and age! My children are 8 & twins 5. Children really learn what they see. Mommy does everything from fixing bikes to throwing the football in the house! I have asked this person to leave because I want better for myself and my children. Why should I have to uproot my family to get away when the love is not their? He constanly tries to put my character actions and beliefs down. I am to the point that I hate this person. The only thing when he is gone I miss him Sounds a little crazy but this is true! I really need advice on getting him away from me anyone with the same situation with good advice please !

2007-01-06 18:12:54 · 8 answers · asked by ljjmjd3 4 in Marriage & Divorce

yea so i just turned 19, freshman in college....as of now i have never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl...in high school i used to be really shy and nervous around girls, but now im alot better..i work with girls almost everyday so im getting used to it...

however i still can't seem to hookup with anybody...i know this one girl at work wants to hookup but im not really attracted to her at all

im not waiting for someone special, but i am becoming very picky

is there something wrong with me or does it seem like im doing this by personal choice?

2007-01-06 18:10:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have noticed that a lot of not so great looking guys have the audacity to be picky when they scarcley look human. I heard one guy commenting on how he doesn't want an overweight chick or one with a flat chest etc etc. Then I turned around to look at him and he looked like friggin' igor or somethin'. I'm not trying to be mean but I just want to know why the double standard? Why can guys look like crap but the girl has to be a supermodel?

2007-01-06 18:10:11 · 3 answers · asked by Welcome, to the real world! 5 in Singles & Dating

so what is it? ive been on a date where everything was right in terms of manners, but there was no connection and pauses in the conversation...thus, no second date....

soo....what is a great date, really? ideas and experiences pls.

2007-01-06 18:09:59 · 6 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it right for my future wife to talk about her girl best friend most of the time when we spend time together? They work in the same place which they work 8 hours a day. Im feeling like im being replaced or like if her best friend is taking my spot. Am I over reacting?

2007-01-06 18:09:17 · 7 answers · asked by latincowboy00 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I sent this guy a text message and at the end of the text, I said, "I really hope you have sweet dreams", with my picture attached. What do you think is going through his mind?

2007-01-06 18:08:52 · 17 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Singles & Dating

I wrote these a while back, but I have two publised Just wanted to know for girls mostly how would you feel if a guy wrote this for you then posted it on the net for everyone to know how much You love the person? thanks!! Here are the links "I... The Dreamer http://www.voicesnet.com/teenpoems/poempoetry68422.htm
and Polaris http://www.voicesnet.org/poetrydisplay.aspx?poemid=102088

Thank For The Comments In Advance!

2007-01-06 18:08:14 · 1 answers · asked by theurbsoweit 2 in Singles & Dating

so what is it? ive been on a date where everything was right in terms of manners, but there was no connection and pauses in the conversation...thus, no second date....

soo....what is a great date, really? ideas and experiences pls.

2007-01-06 18:06:59 · 13 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 18:06:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sometimes when I dress up and go to the mall and I pass by a group of guys, they start laughing. I don't even show cleavage or dress trashy. I'm always covered up. I also dont dress gothic like or wear my hair in a funny hairstyle or wear alot of makeup. so, I"m thinking they have no reason to laugh.

2007-01-06 18:06:10 · 11 answers · asked by Dreamyeyes 1 in Singles & Dating

Your first reaction upon hearing the news that a long-time friend is gay

2007-01-06 18:04:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The girl I had sort of been dating for like 2 months just called and left me a message asking me to call her. She was kind of ignoring me for pretty much the entire Christmas break and a little before that, so I sent her a txt message saying that if she didn't want to be with me it would be ok, but that I wished she would tell me instead of ignoring my calls. Why do you think she called? (I called back, but haven't gotten a response yet).

2007-01-06 18:03:13 · 9 answers · asked by Grizzly UM 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 18:02:20 · 4 answers · asked by Blue eyed girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 7. Does the world hate me

2007-01-06 18:01:57 · 11 answers · asked by Miguel 1 in Family

Okay, when we become married we can stop looking for sex, but if it falls right in our laps it's completely out of our control. Then, could you really blame us? Could you really blame a starved monkey that you shove into your house for eating your cake? It's an inevitability, so keep your man away from those women then.

2007-01-06 18:01:41 · 16 answers · asked by michael d 3 in Marriage & Divorce

be prepared for a breakup, it wont last and all this stuff that made me kinda sad...but i know i love hiim!!
and it isnt that "feeling of love" infratioton, i AM in love!!

2007-01-06 18:01:41 · 12 answers · asked by candy 3 in Singles & Dating

and best friends from an year or so.now I come to know that he smokes & drinks.I hate people how smoke & drink. i feel like advising him not to.if he doesnt listen to me should i stop our friendship.

This is only friendship.Nothing else thatn that.

2007-01-06 18:01:23 · 15 answers · asked by Can I help you 1 in Friends

When I met her she already had a bf so we kept our distance. Gradually, she told me that they constantly argued and that she could see no future with him. We allowed our feelings to develop and we both liked each other.
I told her she must choose one of us and she chose me initially, but when her bf found out there was another guy, he treated her better and "changed". She decided to stay with him.

We have not slept together but my feelings for her are getting too strong. She says she still likes me more, but needs a good reason to break up with him. She asked me to give her one month to decide.

I'm really falling for her and each day is pain, knowing she is with her bf, even though I knew he was first.

Should I wait or move on?

2007-01-06 18:00:51 · 7 answers · asked by Recanter 1 in Singles & Dating