and best friends from an year or so.now I come to know that he smokes & drinks.I hate people how smoke & drink. i feel like advising him not to.if he doesnt listen to me should i stop our friendship.
This is only friendship.Nothing else thatn that.
2007-01-06 18:01:23 · 15 answers · asked by Can I help you 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
YES DEAR THESE HABITS CANNOT BE CHANGED SO EASILY. SO ADVISE YOU IF YOU DO NOT LIKE THESE THINGS BETTER CHANGE THE WAY.
2007-01-10 14:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can make your friend to know that you don't like your friend to drink and smoke. you can advice him. Nothing wrong. Don't be away from him. If you feel more discomfortable while he smokes and drinks, be frank and openly tell him that you feel uneasy and make you tough a lot of times. If he still didn;t listen to you. He is not a good friend to you. Atleast he should mind not to distrub others with his habit, otherwise he is no good friend to you.
Don;t think he is the only friend you have. Your parents, husband(if married, sometimes cannot be consider in worst condition, till that sutiation, he is a good friend) and your studies are you best friend. None other than these people. So don;t ever worry you don't have friends.Friends are to understand and take friends in the good path, Otherwise they are not friends.
2007-01-06 18:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by Mayandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't listens to u, then u should break your friendship with him. Friends can have bad effects on each other. It may happen that u may also start to smoke and drink. Remember that a person is known by his company.
2007-01-06 19:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by diva s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 01:22:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't judge someone to do that and not to do that!!!! You are not his mother or his dad but just a friend. I know that as a friend, you have tried to do your best to show him the right path, but if he doesn't listen to you, leave it that way, there is no reason of breaking a solid friendship like that!!!
2007-01-06 18:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by Neha A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think you telling this person to stop smoking and drinking because you don't like it is the right thing to do. Ask what the change is for and why the sudden interest. Try to express the later bad health factors this can cause. other than this you wouldn't want someone telling you not to do something because they don't like it.....maybe if you can ask if they do it not around you........
2007-01-06 18:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r best frnd then drinking & smoking wont b a bother to u its his wish to drink /smoke or not u cant force a person to stop he should b willing enough to stop it u may advise him but he may listen or not that will b his choice but u should not stop frndshp for such simple things. a good frndshp is hard to find n get
2007-01-10 03:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by ahsu254 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well before breakin the friendship u shud first try to make him understand tat watever he is doin is wrong and still if he doesn't listens to u then u shud jus stop ur friendship here only coz no use of a friend who doesn't listens his best friend
2007-01-07 15:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by Aasma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is really affecting your friendship
and you still want to be freinds then
just lay off him abit
if he were a good best friend, he would notice that
your bothered by that. so he would stop.
quiteing all that might be hard
but if things come to worse
then tell him to choose between you and his smokes
and if he ditches you
maby he will notice how bad it feels to loose a friend
so maby this will work
2007-01-06 18:15:27 · answer #9 · answered by Im This Guy... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U must advice him because u know that smoking and drinking is very bad.suppose u did not advice him,his life will be spoil.
2007-01-06 19:41:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dot break ur friendship but try stopping him whenever u see him doing it and tell the effects of it and danger to his life instead of thinking of only ur likings and dislikes as it is the matter of his life
2007-01-06 19:44:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋