A girl was with me for 2 1/2 years and got really involved in my life..after that she started ignoring me because she joined a co-education college..I cried so much because i loved her and she rejected my love saying that i never understand her..I feel vey upset everyday and am living a very tough life..she has hurted my feelings to great extents..but i still miss the old times and hurt myself more..she doesnt care about how i am now..the worse thing is she keeps roaming with her friends (mostly guys) right in front of my eyes and I don know wat to do abt it..I have lost my confidence totally..I want to be strong now..I study in the same college as she does and I am very scared whenever I see her car or something cus she is always with a guy..I feel very depressed..Life just does not seem to be worth living but I want to live for my parents.. I am 20 now..Its been 6 months since Im sufferin alone..how long will i suffer more..?? God just doesn seem to care about me..Please help me..
2007-01-06 18:13:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I felt a similar kind of pain a little over a year ago when my significant other who was my first everything left me for another person. Everyday was a battle. I hurt emotionaly AND physically. My arms and chest hurt and I cried every day. I didnt think it would ever get better. It's been almost two years now and things have gotten better. I'll admit it took a while to feel better but I moved on, dated more people (and yes it was different) but it helped me to move on and regain my confidence. Keep working towards your goals, meet new people and in time It WILL get better. IF you feel you need extra help, consider anti-depressants and or therapy and in the meantime spend time around loved ones and keep as good focus in school. You're young:) and healthy and have a lot of new experiences awaiting. Best wishes and warm hugs from someone who understands:)
2007-01-06 18:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by Waiting to Scream* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thank god you did not get her pregnant while you had her or you would have a more severe reason to live would you not?
I understand depression. It happens to the best of us. Just do something to shake your life up a bit now. Go do something wild. Suprise yourself, challenge yourself and expand your boundaries. Make yourself strong and successful in this world and you can have your pick of the cheap wanna-be trashy gold digger women that are literally everywhere. Or you can persue someone real you aspire after and respect. You will find this person involved in what you enjoy and truly fascinates you.
But if you are done with love for what it has done to you I cannot blame you. For you know too well the risk of mental condition you face with a disappointment. I would not blame you if you chose a path of promiscuity, but know that doing so should be a temporary thing to bide your time while finding your way still.
Thus is the case with your ex gf. It would be bad if you got her pregnant...you are still schooling and probably have nothing. Be glad I say and move on man.
2007-01-07 02:20:50 · answer #2 · answered by jorluke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you look a bit more close to your life, you are the lucky one. She was money minded. And those kinda girls are just bitches. They put their body for a rich life. Better thank god for not getting hooked up with a hooker.
May be its time to rethink on your life. Forget girls. There is much more to do.
Stand up. Head straight. Just screw everything which comes your way.
Cheers.
2007-01-07 02:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by alexander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to see you suffer. Is this your first love?
Why give so much attention to someone who has no compassion for anyone? She just wants to hurt you. Don't let anyone control your emotion.
Ask someone else out - even just for a cup of coffee. You're still young and you will eventually find love. Don't waste your emotion on someone who doesn't deserve it.
2007-01-07 02:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man cheer up! you know ur still very young and their are lots and tons of chicks around the corner.. i know it really hurts but try to move, your ex seems enjoying her new found life dont think that God is not there when you needed Him.. there maybe some reason... life is good dont feel sad about it stand up and try to focus your interest in life... good luck
2007-01-07 02:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by muttley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want a honest answer to to your question ? here it is::#1stop whining
#2 look around you wherever you go..there are plenty of girls
#3 find somebody else
#4 forget about her
#5enjoy your life..life it's too short!! dude
2007-01-07 02:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by READY OR NOT HERE I COME ! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww i amsooo sorry :[
i feel bad for u
well, just dont blame God, he doesnt hate you, he loves you so much and believe it or not, he has someone BETTER instore for u :]
thats what i always think after i have broken up with someone
2007-01-07 02:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by candy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to come out from this complex.....maybe she is taking a test of you. so be a bold guy & confident i think this will bring a cute, pretty girl towards you...best of luck !!
2007-01-07 02:23:50 · answer #8 · answered by Cindarella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a P(_)ssy!!!
Man, You gotta Play them Hoes, Not fall in Love with Them!
Move On, its Not like She has the Last Vagina on Earth.
2007-01-07 02:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by RR 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
God cares for you. Accept whatever befalls you and whatever happens be a good person.
2007-01-07 02:19:35 · answer #10 · answered by Jeniv the Brit 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋