I went to the movies last saturday and i saw my best friend's boyfriend making out in the back of the theater with an other guy. I mean i don't want to tell her because she will bes crushed. Plus he is really hot, he is like the perfect guy. What should i do?
2007-01-06 18:15:22 · 21 answers · asked by jessica omalian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes tell her because, if she is sexually active, she could get AIDS or some other disease.
2007-01-06 18:52:20 · answer #1 · answered by jom 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Looks have nothing to do with this situation. If you caught him cheating you need to tell her. Think about what would be worse in the long run. If you don't tell her and she finds out she will be crushed anyway. If she finds out and then finds out that you knew all along then she will be devastated that you did not come to her and tell her.
At first she might be angry and even try to deny it or call you a liar which is going to be expected. If you don't tell her you will sit with this on your mind and it will drive you nuts. Your best bet is to let her know what you saw, on what day, at what time. You could be saving her from a life of hurt and anger now as opposed to her staying with him and then finding out years down the road. So think about it and consider telling your friend because a guy like that is no good for her.
2007-01-06 18:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by Angel D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait...
You caught your best friend's (who's a girl) boyfriend making out with a GUY in a movie theatre?! And you still think he's the "perfect guy" because he's hot? Do you see where I'm going with this?
You must be joking, right? Should you tell your friend about this?
HELL YES!
Where's your common sense?
2007-01-06 18:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay sounds like a bit of a dilemma with you seeing what was probably a bit shocking since this guy was kissing another guy and not kissing your best friend.
Yeah, you should definitely tell your best friend. You'd want her to tell you if she saw something like that happening to your significant other right?
So take her someplace where you'll not be overheard...best to not do it on the phone. Tell her what you saw and that you were not mistaken in what you had seen. She'll be crushed but you can comfort her. She might try to deny it too. Hang on and wait it out if she gets angry and says you are jealous and says she'll never speak to you again.
Or maybe she knew her boyfriend has interest in the same sex. Either way you should inform her of what you saw.
2007-01-06 18:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by witchy91 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ouch!
I'd hate to be in your shoes, however I would search deep
down and say You have to tell her.
There are too many issues you can't avoid here. Her Feelings of course will be hurt however you could explain that you are also concerned about health issues and had to tell her. Was someone with you that could confirm what you saw?
Good Luck
2007-01-06 19:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
News flash. He's not the perfect guys. Of course you should tell her. If the roles were reversed wouldn't you want her to tell you?
2007-01-06 18:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell her but be careful because if she is in love with him she may turn on you but you really need to tell her because she could get something or get hurt and then you will fell bad because you had the power to inform her be a friend in good and bad times but first and for-most pray about before you do anything!
2007-01-06 18:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by cosmo26 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stay out of it, tell someone you know and let them tell her. you protect your friendship and she still gets the message. drop a letter in the mailbox with her name as return address and type the letter so she doesn't see your handwriting and tell her if ya gotta, be careful with your words, she knows your lingo. be very matter of fact about it without acting like her friend. mail the letter, don't do a drive by and shove it in the mail box, lest you get busted.
2007-01-06 18:24:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should tell her if you really care about her well-being i mean she might be hurt or she might think your lying but telling her rather than her finding out the hard way is better.
2007-01-06 18:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by Ky_bello 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should probably tell her. It may not be an easy thing to do, but how do you think she would feel if you waited until they were married and had three child and a mortgage? Do you expect this to only happen once?
2007-01-06 18:40:51 · answer #10 · answered by Sparky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are really her bestfriend you would tell her regardless of how hot he is. You would want her to do the same for you wouldn't you?
2007-01-06 18:20:10 · answer #11 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋