Truth about Cheating Men?

Question

Okay, when we become married we can stop looking for sex, but if it falls right in our laps it's completely out of our control. Then, could you really blame us? Could you really blame a starved monkey that you shove into your house for eating your cake? It's an inevitability, so keep your man away from those women then.

For the record, I've never cheated, I'm still young anyways and haven't fully explored sex yet.

Answer 1

I understand where you are coming from . . . women won't because they consider themselves as the master of the relationships . . . (probably because they have so many and they can't hold on to one . . . without making it legally binding - then they can divorce you and take half of everything, plus alimony).

When it comes to guys . . . especially younger guys . . . primary attitude is sex . . . where, when, and how. Women's primary goal it relationship and married . . . how to get him to sign on the dotted line. Women often use a tactic called the Lost Leader . . . you know how Supermarkets have those killer savings like a dozen eggs for 50 cents or two gallons of milk for less than $2.00. This is to get you through the door, and then they nail you with everything else on the shelf. Same way with women, once you marry them or have them move in, the special little things she does goes bye bye. And if you bring them up . . . sex sex sex all you think about is sex, what about me . . . don't you care about me. When everything you do . . . is for them, especially when you are in a relationship. Not all women do this, but the majority do.

If women get pissed at me . . . you know I hit a nerve.

Why men cheat various reason . . . but the most common reason, instead of guys being horny all the time . . . (which is not true . . . most of the time, not all . . .lol) . . . is because we need to feel loved. They recently done a survey . . . just watched . . . you know what is the most important thing that a man want from a woman . . . is to be loved by her . . . and to show it. Sex once in a while . . . open the leg . . . here stick it in . . . done yet. I here complaints from many men in marriages and relationship, saying this is what my sex life is. Sex is important, but it is the communication of love, whether it is via verbal, attitude, expressions, communication, feeling, and even the action of love. Guy's are generally not the most expressive creatures, but we are the most sensitive, which is why most men shut down when faced with a hostile female. We can't just blow up . . . or people will get hurt, so we walk away . . . if not . . . the stress builds up and we die . . . studies have proven this too.

So to prevent a man from cheating love him . . . and show him that you love him. Don't just marry him and then ignore him. You know how they say guys have fragile egos . . . for some it is true. How would you feel if you marry someone you love and you thought they loved you . . . and they stopped doing the little things that they used to do for you (not necessarily sex). How would you feel . . . did I do something, is something wrong, what happen, do they still love me, is there something about me that is different that changed their attitude? Women feel the same way most of the time . . . but guys generally, don't do special little things at time . . . and when we do, we still do them from time to time, and sometimes men get yelled at for doing it . . . because of doing it at the wrong time.

Answer 2

Of course all men do not cheat. Most men don't cheat. Real men won't cheat. They know that there's too much at stake. Like loving their wife. Yes men are not perfect and I've known a couple of good guys that cheated. Their marriage needed major surgery. All I know is I don't cheat. I don't consider myself to be any better a guy than anybody else. If I don't cheat there are definately alot more guys out there that won't cheat. People cheat b/c their needs, whatever they are, are not being met. Affairs result from a lack communication, attention given to the other partner, now I think this would apply to the general couple not the low life scum bag that just wants to do girls and then throw them away. I don't know anybody like that but I know they exist. So if yer worried, don't be. Just use your head and know your man inside and out b/f making a commitment for life. Take Care.

Answer 3

Okay then just don't get married then. Honestly, unless your wife treats you like total crap and abuses you no matter what you do and you keep her around only because she has no one and nowhere else to go,or she's cheating herself,or she knows about it and has no problem then you shouldn't be cheating, but if she does do any of that stuff I said then I'd say go for it. I would do the same as a girl if that were my situation with my husband.
Now if she's a good girl and treats you like the cats pajamas, but maybe isn't always up to par when it comes to more sex then give her an ultimatum or go to therapy together for it.If that don't work leave her.
If she is a good girl and treats you good and gives you sex all the time then shame on you!

Answer 4

OMG. How old are you? What you said makes no sense what so ever, unless I'm to believe that all men are as stupid as monkeys and cannot control themselves when it comes to sex. Any man who agrees with that sentiment should just not get married. I mean what is the use? You're just going to go out and eat your cake anyway.

Answer 5

It's men like you that make all men look bad. I no it is a very small % of men who decides not to cheat on the woman they love.Are you saying men are that weak they can't keep it from getting hard.All men that cheat will get just what they deserve.This is to all the men out there who has cheated and thinking about cheating I put a CURSE ON YOU ALL.You will lose everything that is dear to you.

Answer 6

So you are okay with your present or future or second wife having sex with a hunky guy that just happens to fall face first into her lap and excite her beyond her own control? Of course you are, its okay for you.

And I have no doubt you would forgive her right away too.

Answer 7

Or how about men acting like adults and using their brains for once? How can you actually blame women for YOUR actions? She didn't force you to do anything. You did it out of your own will. I'm willing to bet you'd blame your victim if you raped a woman. Shame on you. It's not your woman's responsibility to keep you clean. It's your obligation to honor your vows and not do anything outside of marriage. If you are too immature to handle every hot woman you see, then you deserve castration.

Answer 8

Yes...unless YOUR A MONKEY!? or are you just being ignorant?

So what your really saying is men don't have the actual capacity or BRAINS, EMOTIONS, ETHICS! enough to care about anything but cake?

Wow men really ARE MONKEYS! So in divorce court it should be a snap for women to get full custody of the kids. Because we all know MONKEY'S lack the capacity to teach our children anything!

Thanks for that insight I'll remember that one....

Answer 9

Well, maybe it's because you stopped wanting sex from your wife that has made her decide to totally ignore you back, hence giving you the false pretence that just because SHE is starting to hate your guts, which is your fault in the first place, it doesn't give you the right to assume a "me man, me stupid, me need sex" attitude. Your wife should leave you before you give her AIDS

Answer 10

A starved monkey is just that, STARVED..just because you are married doesn't mean that you are sex starved!