Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

me and my hubby live with his brother,, we have 2 kids
we are very young, so his brother decided to help us out, while we get our **** straight..ne ways we both work for him he has a company,im his secretery and his brother is his foreman,, the house we live in was put on foreclosure, he hasnt paid the house in 4 months he ows about 28,00!!!! and we had no idea we were still paying the rent,and he is still asking us!?to pay..!his company is suffering right know? we are going to be left without a job! i have a 2 month old and a 2 year old? i dont know what to do?we cant get our own place even if we wanted to,, he has bad credit?im just so stressed out i do not want to be in the streets with my kids!!!!!!
i have no family to go to..??????

2007-01-05 07:40:24 · 3 answers · asked by junkinmytrunk 1 in Family

the preppy clothing stlye, like collared shirts etc

2007-01-05 07:40:17 · 30 answers · asked by jeremy h 1 in Singles & Dating

Ahh lately life has just sucked. I'm a very quiet guy who had an amazing girl friend for 18 months. When i left for college we had no idea how hard it would be. We broke up on good terms and she keeps telling me she still has hope but we both need to get used to our surroundings and regain identity. I loved being with her and I still can't stop thinking about her. I havn't talked to her over the phone or in person in over a month. I guess I can admitt I was totally too dependent on her. We spent everywaking moment together and both of us gave up our friends to be with each other. Very unhealthy. When I left for school we were both on our own and almost friendless. Being away from home on my own has really been hard for me. I'm very quiet and constantly over analize everything I say. I never used to be this unhappy. I loved living at home cuz it was a good place to come back to after a day at school. Now I'm on my own away from family and I feel lost and lonely. How can I improve

2007-01-05 07:40:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Would you have sex on the first date, if you really liked the guy, and he turned you on?

2007-01-05 07:39:42 · 4 answers · asked by jerkitforme 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this kid that asked me out i want to say yes but i dont want to keep it from my mom I have had boyfriends she never knew about and now i think its time to tell her about having one but i just dont know how...

2007-01-05 07:39:40 · 4 answers · asked by vickie 1 in Singles & Dating

to make a long story short, I'm always uncomfortable around this guy, even when he's not doing anything to me, and it's literally eating away at me. He only made sexual comments to me about 2 months ago, but I consider it sexual harassment. There is nothing left I can do. he sits near me in class sometimes and makes faces and noises at me. I already reported him - I can't report him again for just doing stuff like that. I've tried ignoring him, telling him to stop, everything! Please help!

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2007-01-05 07:39:15 · 12 answers · asked by 77684 3 in Friends

I am divorced and I met a really sweet divorced guy we started dating and I developed strong feelings for him.He tells me almost every day that he doesnt know what he would do without me and how much he loves me.We have never had sex but when we are together the sparks fly anyway just before Thanksgiving his ex wife annouced that she wants to work things out with him,so she moved back in with him.He still tells me how much he loves me and that she can never have with him the understanding that I have.I feel used and stupid because I wont let him get to me any more and I'm starting to date other guys,Any advise?

2007-01-05 07:39:09 · 32 answers · asked by fiveftcutie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If a guy can quote Shakespeare or Longfellow, do you find it romantic? Or just stupid?

2007-01-05 07:37:44 · 28 answers · asked by El Castigo 2 in Singles & Dating

i mean do you feel like you keep searching for the right one but he or she never seems to really show up.

2007-01-05 07:37:20 · 20 answers · asked by kristine_star2008 2 in Singles & Dating

What is your opinion

My friend says that its rule #5 of being popular NOT to ask a guy out but to play hard to get but i dont know how to play hard to get and i really want to know if this guy likes me and i REALLY want to go on a date with him

What do i do????

2007-01-05 07:36:29 · 11 answers · asked by Under_the_sunset 2 in Singles & Dating

Getting raedy to Start a Life........

2007-01-05 07:36:05 · 11 answers · asked by IQ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i need a good way to get this girls number
shy is shy and so am i
but mostly we talk on aim
so what should i say
and whats better
asking for hers or giving her mine

2007-01-05 07:35:24 · 8 answers · asked by ur_rich_jew 1 in Singles & Dating

we adopted my little cousion because her mom did not want her anymore and now she is asking all kinds of question what should we say??/

2007-01-05 07:35:11 · 10 answers · asked by i ♥ Javon!!! 1 in Family

Some girls just go for looks and money, but how much of HOW TALENTED HE IS AT SOMETHING play into his attractiveness? in your experience.

2007-01-05 07:34:20 · 14 answers · asked by melissa 2 in Singles & Dating

he calls me baby. but i cant think of anything 2 call him. help! :(

2007-01-05 07:34:17 · 17 answers · asked by Sky 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 07:33:54 · 7 answers · asked by Kripster 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have been disagreeing about what jewelry is associated with an engagement and a wedding. The way I understood it, there was the engagement ring, and a set of two wedding rings, called wedding bands, one for the bride and one for the groom. The engagement ring and the brides wedding ring can be bought as a set and made to fit together, although this is not necessary. My fiance insists that there is first the engagement ring, and then the wedding band, which is sold as a set with the 2 wedding rings, and that the wedding band and the wedding ring are made to fit together on the woman's hand, seperate from the engagement ring. Please explain to us what is correct, and, if possible, give a credible website with the information listed so that whoever is wrong can clearly see what is correct. Thanks.

2007-01-05 07:33:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-05 07:32:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My BF has a problem every time we go out some where and if I guy looks at me or goes up to me to say hi or wanting to buy me a drink! He pushes me away! He tells me to go with them and just to leave him alone.

He some times even just walks away from me and I have to after him..... What do I do? Why do you think he acts this way is it normal???

2007-01-05 07:32:35 · 9 answers · asked by Just ME 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend has liked and been friends with a girl for about 2 years, and she hangin out with him sometimes has made me know her much better, and i've found out she's a nice gal and i kinda like her too, and she's single. i surely would like to go out with her but i don't want to upset my best friend knowing he's liked her for some time. what would you do if you were in my place?

2007-01-05 07:32:34 · 9 answers · asked by jonsinher 4 in Singles & Dating

what is the weirest thing you, or some one that you know, has used for a vibrator or a dildo???

2007-01-05 07:31:41 · 10 answers · asked by **ME ME ME** 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I got together over the holidays. We've beed dating for a year and a half and talked about a possible future together, he has asked me about how would I want my wedding to be, he told be about his idea of wedding, etc. So we know where we are heading someday. I've met his parents and we have talked about living together.I didn't expect a ring during Chsritmas, but expected him to discuss about our future. We live 5 hours apart and don't get to see each other often due to his job (military). I became frustrated about him not talking about it and I exploted, telling him that I was not happy and that I was tired of driving and him not telling me anything about our situation. He told me that he loves me and that I'm appretiated and that he needs consistance in a relationship and that I'm always up and down emotionally. I told him that it was not fair to judge me for missing him &being frustated by this long distance arrangement. I'm lost, hurt, afraid. I love him.
Help. anyone

2007-01-05 07:31:12 · 24 answers · asked by Blunt 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance is a wonderful man and I am so excited to marry him but something I have been wondering about for a while now is how to do the unity candle. His mother died when he was three and his dad died a few years ago. He does not have a lot of family that he is close to that could kind of take the place of his parents so that option is out. He has told me several times that he loves my parents as they are his own and I know they feel the same. My mother suggested that her and my dad light both candles because it is symbolizing two separate people becoming one. I'm really not sure what to do. Is this a good idea? Does anyone have any suggestions?

2007-01-05 07:31:03 · 17 answers · asked by Crystals in love 1 in Weddings

I was dating this guy a doctor, so between his wife and work we had to squeeze in time. He told me I was his "true love." He would call me and say, "If I don't see you, I'll die." I fell for it, all of it. He told me he has to be with a woman who is "honest." I am a fiction writer, he knows I've tried to be open and tell him all that goes on in my life. Unfortunately, the fact that I'm attractive and friendly makes it worse. He won't speak to me. Not a word. Help!

2007-01-05 07:30:54 · 31 answers · asked by Dulce 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-05 07:30:51 · 11 answers · asked by krystiana101 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 07:30:13 · 1 answers · asked by wisdom 3 in Family

i'm just wondering the best way to go about this without putting myself out there TOO much?

2007-01-05 07:30:13 · 7 answers · asked by cameran s 1 in Singles & Dating

Recently broke up with my bf - and I have no interest in dating right now.
Why are guys flocking?
Before we broke up last year - no one paid any attention to me?
why?

2007-01-05 07:29:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I speak the truth on Dec 23,2006 my brother lost his only child to a drug overdose. After a period of time my neice Brittany Marxmeyer came off of anti depresents and to make a long story short. The mother of Brittany threw her to the street because she was starting a relationship with her father my brother. Brittany's mother and stepfather would not have this and did everything in there power to stop this from happeing. My ex sister in-law wants back child support and will go to great lenghts to get it. She has had my brother put in jail many times. My neice thought her father just walk out of her life and that is not the thruth. I ask someone to please explain to me and my family what kind of people are we dealing with. My neice is gone 14 days later the ex-wife is seeking back payment for what I ask myself and God. This will not bring my niece back and brother does not know yet that Karen plans on seeking back payment. Please someone help me and my family put this to an end. Marlene

2007-01-05 07:28:45 · 5 answers · asked by Marlene A 1 in Family

2007-01-05 07:28:45 · 12 answers · asked by wisdom 3 in Friends