My BF has a problem every time we go out some where and if I guy looks at me or goes up to me to say hi or wanting to buy me a drink! He pushes me away! He tells me to go with them and just to leave him alone.
He some times even just walks away from me and I have to after him..... What do I do? Why do you think he acts this way is it normal???
2007-01-05 07:32:35 · 9 answers · asked by Just ME 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to him bout it let him know yea guys may buy you drinks but your his..... im a super jealous guy but instead of pushin my girl away i push guys around not exactly that much better..... jealousy is a hard thing to control for some people and it can either ruin a person or make them stronger depending on how they choose to use it
2007-01-05 07:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by that guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is jealousy but your boyfriend is non-confrontational. This is how he handles the way he feels about you talking with other guys.
It has everything to do with his self esteem. If he could not believe how lucky he was when he begin dating you then the very thought of you finding someone that is better petrifies him.
he is after all just your boyfriend. He does not have the right to tell you who you can talk to. And his jealousy will only get worse as time goes on.
If you are popular....and I am guessing you are.....he may feel he has little to no chance of being exclusive with you. What he doesn't know is his very actions will guarantee it.
When not where people are trying to talk with you set him down and talk this out. Ask him why does it bother him so much when other guys talk to you. Make sure he gives you a reason before your done. He may not be able to tell you. If not then you are left to assume what the problem is and that may be wrong.
If you can't work this out and he continues to treat you this way then you need to separate. If he does this now it will get much worse if you marry. Work it out or let him go.
2007-01-05 15:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he feels like he can lose you, thats why the mention of a guy around you is making him so upset. this guy really cares about you, and you have to reassure him that you are not going anywhere and that the feelings that you have for him are way to strong for you to just throw it away with any random bar guy. and you have to show him that you are true to your word. be more touchy with him when you go out, a guy wont approach a girl he seeing already flirting with some1. and when you see a guy eyeing you turn to your boyfriend and give him the i want you right now look. haha works every time. good luck
2007-01-05 15:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me your bf is jealous and doesn't like you being around other male friends.
2007-01-05 15:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has insecurity issues... Remind him that you're there with him, and there's no one else you'd rather be with... and don't entertain the guys that come up to you when you're out... tell them you're there with someone else, and they should leave you alone... Your boyfriend wants you attention and affection.
2007-01-05 15:36:07 · answer #5 · answered by just nate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a bf who was very jealous. everytime we were out and some guy looked at me, he accuses me of wanting that guy. he has the problem , not you . it is his insecurities.
2007-01-05 15:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jelousy, or he thinks you're having something to do with guys flocking to you.
2007-01-05 15:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by ThexSilentxOnex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is immature and possessive, and these are HIS issues for him to deal with. It might be less trouble to get a new boyfriend.
2007-01-05 15:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not normal he should be jealous , anyway seems like he doesnt want you any more
2007-01-05 15:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋