Recently broke up with my bf - and I have no interest in dating right now.
Why are guys flocking?
Before we broke up last year - no one paid any attention to me?
why?
2007-01-05 07:29:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That always tends to happen to me also! The reason is because when you are looking we all look desperate most men do not like that.
Also when you are not looking for anyone you are just content and you got to admit every one feels better when they are just satisfied with there life
2007-01-05 07:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by Just ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just the way it works. Kinda silly really, there are people out there who want to date and have a BF/GF but can't seem to find the right person, then when they decide to take a break, suddenly all of these eligible folks pop into their lives.
It could also be that you're hot, and word got out that you're currently available.
2007-01-05 07:34:13 · answer #2 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many guys (and ladies) can sense when another person is vulnerable. It's like sharks coming in for the kill. After breaking up, it's a good idea to take a break from dating--enjoy your friends, do things that you enjoy. It will save you from bad decisions until you can find the good guys.
2007-01-05 07:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by Faith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda the same reason they flock when you're dating. They like the challenge of the chase.
2007-01-05 07:32:34 · answer #4 · answered by happily married ( : 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 16:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because right now you don't want to be wanted and guys can sense that so they will go above and beyond to get to you and that way they can say that they have obtained the unobtainable only to leave you brokenhearted while they try to obtain the next one.
2007-01-05 07:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by way2clase 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its because people always come around when your not looking the same thing happed to me when i was with my ex-girl all the girls in the world wanted me and now that im single and looking girls wont look at me twice murphys law hunny im sorry
2007-01-05 07:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't want desperate girls that scream when they're walking, "I WANT A BOYFRIEEEEEEEEEEEEND!! NOW!!!"
Guys like girls that aren't desperate for a guy and are independent. Guys like girls that pretty much have a life of her own and don't really care for a boyfriend. Thats some of the qualities a guy likes, so thats why they're stalking you =']
Hehe.
2007-01-05 07:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by ♥star baby! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, you were too busy to notice them before you broke up but if they know you broke up, they may want to be the next in line to be your boyfriend.
2007-01-05 07:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so wierd isn't it, but it is the opposite for guys,when we are single no one is interested, when we are attatcthed we are soooo popular.When I was married my brother asked me what it was like to be married and I told him " before you get married you spend your whole life trying to get laid, after you get married you spend the rest of your life trying not to". good luck, just have fun and be honest with all your gentlemen callers.
2007-01-05 08:01:14 · answer #10 · answered by frogenstien 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋