Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

I just told this guy that I liked him and he basically used the "just wanna be friends" line. I feel stupid and terrible and I have to see him at school tomorrow. What should I do!?

2007-01-03 10:00:55 · 23 answers · asked by ock1818 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so my boyfriend (before we were dating) was goofing around and he said something that got me pretty mad at him. So I told him like shut up, just don't speak to me anymore if your gonna be like that. But he just kept talking to me and I yelled at him to shut up and that I hated him. (I was just really ticked off) and he goes hate? thats a pretty strong word. You don't hate me. I was like well how do you know and hes all well I love you. So then I got into this big thing of how you shouldn't say stuff like that if you don't mean it and the subject was pretty much dropped.

So New Years rolls around and we didn't spend it together so I called him at midnight to wish him a Happy New Years. We wished each other a happy new year and he said that he would call me later. So I'm thinking like in the afternoon. 3am rolls around and my phone rings its him. So we end up talking until 5am! He told me that he loved me, but he was drinking. So do you think he actually ment it?

2007-01-03 09:59:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went to spank my son on his bottom and he moved and i ended up hitting him on the lower back and it left a bruise is this abuse and can i lose my son over this, it has never happened before...

2007-01-03 09:59:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

At the begining I told her and she act like she didn't care, not that it's a excuse but after I told her, people starting telling me that she was saying me and him was having sex. Secondly I never called him, he called me. After awhile it just became frustrating b/c people keep coming up to me about it. How could you call me a ho, it was karma baby

2007-01-03 09:59:13 · 1 answers · asked by lanea e 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is happily married and has been for 2 1/2 years. And it's not just a fake marriage where they act like they're happy, I'm really close to both of them and they really are happy. They treat each other like royalty. But here's what's weird. She broke up with an ex boyfriend 4 or 5 years ago, which was a pretty serious relationship, and she still loves to think about how she left him and how he probably cries over her everyday still. I have told her several times that she dreaming, but she says it makes her feel good about herself. Should she still be doing this after so long, and also while she's married?

2007-01-03 09:59:05 · 12 answers · asked by #1 Buckeye Fan!!!! 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-03 09:59:03 · 14 answers · asked by you are my angel 2 in Singles & Dating

how to move on from the past and bad relationships? any advice? pls? x

2007-01-03 09:58:42 · 2 answers · asked by MaH 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 09:58:32 · 9 answers · asked by bunny_hop_gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

we broke up..but i can't get him off my mind...i also have to see him everyday in school..i dont know how to get over him

2007-01-03 09:58:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just explained how I like to fly off the handle at my husband, and I don't know why I do it it just happens, is it possible that him being out of work and me being 6 months pregnant and trying to do everything by myself, makes me go off on him? If it is what should I do to fix the problem? I feel so bad when I do yell at him, yet I don't know what else to do!

2007-01-03 09:58:12 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah E 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a dream about this guy and I never really thought about and now I dream about him every night. It's really weird!

2007-01-03 09:57:20 · 11 answers · asked by Megan 2 in Singles & Dating

One of new girl at work,, was talking to me about party at boss office this weekend, i told her that she should plan to stay late, so after the party (which will end at 10 pm) we will go the nearby famious club, she said "we will see"
what that mean,, not intertested.. so what should be my approach, ask her again in the party,.,, or dont ask her again unless she bring up the topic going to club...
she know i have crush on her...

2007-01-03 09:57:07 · 9 answers · asked by mopugh s 1 in Singles & Dating

Please Help. There is this one guy that i was off and on with. Everytime i break up with him i can't stop thinking about him. So now i broke up with him because he lied to me. Then i am going out with a different guy....but i still like him a lot. What the heck should i do?

2007-01-03 09:56:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm the mother of a 3yrld boy and a 1yrld girl
Happily married to a marine (Currently Stationed in Darfur Africa) Were having some financial
issues due to medical bills. and my husband fells like i should stay home till the kids are in school. But im felling guiltily over him working so hard to provide while im spending it left and right on living expenses.What do you think i should do?

2007-01-03 09:55:59 · 23 answers · asked by Lizzyg 2 in Marriage & Divorce

family question

2007-01-03 09:55:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he says he loves me after one month. I doubt that

2007-01-03 09:55:07 · 5 answers · asked by chinaleenda 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy came to me he said he was in love with me eversince cause we're childhood friend.He had a gf for 5 yrs and he was dumped by her.Then we had prob and broke up.I didn't know they get back w/ each other.He also tried to win me back w/o knowing they already has an affair again.so he cheated both of us and we found it out at the same time.Can't get over him fooling me.How can I get even? Me & his gf has a contact.updating events.she said the guy tries to win her back again.

2007-01-03 09:54:32 · 26 answers · asked by deepthinker 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 09:52:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How much suffering would be saved in our lives.

2007-01-03 09:51:38 · 14 answers · asked by bob 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-03 09:50:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 09:50:32 · 11 answers · asked by jimc 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 09:50:23 · 36 answers · asked by JJ T 1 in Singles & Dating

I do this almost everyday. I can't help it.I was with my ex for 10yrs. and we have one child together. We only been apart for 5months. My new boyfriend says that the reason I keep doing that is because in back of my mind I am thinking of him.And sometimes I do, but not in a way I want to get back with him,because I don't.My ex was a very evil man, and my boyfriend now is a wonderful person and I love him. I don' t know why I call him buy my ex's name. And my boyfriend gets really mad. This morning he told me I had one more time to call him out of his name.Somtimes I think I moved to fast with a other relationship.But a good guy is hard to come buy and I did'nt want to lose him. My ex is really a bad guy. I don't understand why I do that. Can you please tell me something. Thank you.

2007-01-03 09:49:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

was thinking of going to amsterdam but am taking my mother and aunties with me so its too risky as there is too much temptation to misbehave. ( not that sort.) would appreciate any tips on somewhere not too far from cork but with a good night life. thanks x x x

2007-01-03 09:49:43 · 16 answers · asked by mariska s 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm a virgin in my late 20's. I'm practicing celibacy until i'm married. I'm not necessarily looking for a virgin but i have noticed its a lot harder to find these days. Seems like women are losing their virginity younger and younger.

2007-01-03 09:49:14 · 4 answers · asked by Sleepyguy 4 in Singles & Dating

i'm adopted and was wondering what should i do i haven't seen my mom since i was 9 years old and i don't really know my dad what should i do

2007-01-03 09:49:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I asked a close female friend that we need to lose contact for awhile(no time limit set)-so that I can get over my feelings for her.
She said that she don't deserve my feelings.

She also said “If thats how you feel sweetheart,ok and that maybe you do need time out”.She only wants to be friends.The conversation ended with an argument, with her calling me 2 faced and selfish.(asked her if she ever felt anything for me and for her to be truthful).Why would she call me this? We're close friends-we were never a couple.

We've not spoken for a month....tried to get in touch---she's not responded at all.

I just want to know WHAT I HAVE DONE?

Surely by me getting back in touch, she should recognise that I've delt with my feelings.

She said that we're only friends---could she have possibly fancied me?If so why didn't she tell me?

Wanted to be a true friend---thats why I asked for no contact for AWHILE---not for good....

2007-01-03 09:49:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was with this guy for 7 months. We broke up 3 days ago. I was ready to make more out of the relationship and I pushed him a little too far one night bringing it up. so the inevidable happened and we have broke up.He is 31 and is a muscian and never married no kids.I knew he had a fear of commitment, it was obvious.He led me on to believe we would live together and be together forever.I understand we broke up because I pushed him, but he has been heartless about the whole thing.It's killing me for the fact he has had no emotion just like I never exsited. I cried to him once to come back and I will sacrifice being married as long as we could be together. He told me it's over go home. I exchanged our belongings while he was at work and sent him a very short and sweet message telling him I have moved on. And I still go nothing. Does he even care?

2007-01-03 09:48:24 · 9 answers · asked by Lindsey Lou 1 in Singles & Dating

and how many people are just old men and women looking to get laid????

2007-01-03 09:47:16 · 16 answers · asked by jessica 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 09:47:16 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating