should i find my birht parents?

Question

i'm adopted and was wondering what should i do i haven't seen my mom since i was 9 years old and i don't really know my dad what should i do

i'm 17 by the way i'm adopted to a wonderful family of 25 cunting my mom and dad(adoptive)

yes i've disscussed it with my adoptive family and they are behind me 100% but don't know if this is the right thing for me to do

Answer 1

I have a good friend which I talk to everyday she was also adopted and found her bio parents after she was 18.She wishes very day she hadn't found them,Time after time they continue to make her feel bad if she could do it over again she wouldn't found them.

Answer 2

I see no reason why you shouldn't look for your birth parents, though your adoptive parents might feel better about it, if you discussed it with them first, and made it clear that no slight towards them is intended.

You probably have some fantasy playing in your head, regarding the meeting that is likely to result. Try to be realistic, and consider all the possibilities. Other people do have a nasty tendency to not always act in accordance with our fantasies.

One more thing, if you are 17 years old, you don't have very long to wait, before you will be 18. It wouldn't hurt anything, to at least wait that long.

Good luck

Answer 3

First how old are you? If your under 18 you should wait. Then if you still feel the same talk to you adopted parents and they might help you. Good luck.

Answer 4

I wouldn't. They put you up for adoption for a reason, and you have a wonderful family, as you say. If I had put a child up for adoption, I wouldn't want to hear from them.

Just my opinion.

Answer 5

try to look for them! and try to get close!