Please Help. There is this one guy that i was off and on with. Everytime i break up with him i can't stop thinking about him. So now i broke up with him because he lied to me. Then i am going out with a different guy....but i still like him a lot. What the heck should i do?
2007-01-03 09:56:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him another chance.
2007-01-03 09:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in advance i'm sorry that you can't get him out of your head, i know that is one of the worst things in the world. But truthfully, if he has moved on, why shouldn't you? If he lied to you, then he is isn't worth your time. what you have to do is put all you efforts into either school or work. you will be so busy that one day you will forget to even think about him. Also if you have another boy friend, relize that he cares about you, more then this other guy did, your new boyfriend should be the person you always think about. Try talking to your boyfriend about how you feel, and tell him that you love him, but you just can't stop thinking about this other guy, and if he can't except that you don't move on as easy as you would hope, then maybe he isn't worth your time either, there are lots of people out there, you WILL find someone. Good luck!
2007-01-03 10:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by Eddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. If you are on and off I'm sure its for a reason. I have a problem of selective memory. I break up with a guy for a perfectly good reason then I just kinda forget all the bad stuff he did to make me leave and just remember the good parts. One thing I did to help myself was to make a list of the reason's that I broke up with someone, then whenever I started to feel like I wanted them back I would read the list, it would make me mad all over again and I would stay away from him. Good Luck :)
2007-01-03 09:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by Tracy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to choose, a lot of time if you're together with someone for a long time you feel an attachment that's not really there. Obviously there's something wrong if you keep breaking up. The first thing you should do is break up with your current boyfriend though b/c its not right to lead him on if you don't have feelings for him
2007-01-03 09:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by different 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there:
You are definitely not crazy nor is there anything wrong with you.
You seem to be quite young and you have a lot of life before you.
Having been married for 5 years, I can tell you that trust is the most important part of a relationship.
If you can't trust the one you're with, then there is no relationship.
2007-01-03 10:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by JFK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time you start to miss him think of the lie he told and all the other reasons you broke up in the past. If you have given him multiple chances and he still takes you gor granite then you don't need him. Move forward if he was that great of a guy he would respect your feelings and not lie to you.
2007-01-03 09:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he already lied to you, what makes you think he won't do it again? I say move on because everyone goes through what you are going through. You feel as if he/she is the perfect person for you, but there are so many people out there that can make you happy, you just have to be patient and that special person will come. Don't worry, be happy. :-)
2007-01-03 09:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by DXL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep thinking about the many reasons why you broke up with him or don't think about him at all!! enjoy your new boyfriend! go out with friends! go party your butt off! there's more to life than a boyfriend.
It's supposed to be hard to get over your exes but you can't stay with the wrong guy forever!
2007-01-03 09:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is how it is at first, but only at first. He was a large part of you life, alot of your most recent memories involve him. This does not mean that he is the one for you. Time will heal and you and you will develop new memories that do not involve him. Give it a month or two and you will notice that you have stoped thinking about him...
2007-01-03 10:06:39 · answer #9 · answered by Autumn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it that much, you'll be alright ... Be happy that you have someone, and don't try to keep 2 boyfriends at the same time, cuz bad luck will come to you. Take time off from everyone, and just watch porno If you have to !
2007-01-03 10:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your heart, perhaps you should consider the single life for a bit because it sounds like you are a bit dependent on having relationships
2007-01-03 09:59:11 · answer #11 · answered by StressedSweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋