how so you get over your ex,cuz i can't?

Question

we broke up..but i can't get him off my mind...i also have to see him everyday in school..i dont know how to get over him

Answer 1

Well you must think of the break up as a good thing. Room for someone else to come in and truly treat you like the smart, beautiful, loving, brave, outgoing, confident, honest, enjoyable, dependable, and sexy woman you are.

In all situations we must find the good and build off that. Look at the break up as a blessing. You are free to work on you and build your self esteem.

Remember he is the one who lost something good not you. Later.

Answer 2

You have to ask yourself first, "why did we breakup"? That's usually reason enough to forget him, or visa-versa. Depending on how long you were together, and how serious it was, it can be as short as a week or as long as a year. I've know some people who's still hung up on their ex after 2 years. But they were the exception (meaning they were just not all there).

Give it time. Because it is time the heals all wounds. This experience also teaches you patience, and strengthens you for future situation. It will help you to deal with the next relationship that comes around. In essence it makes you a better person, if you allow it to.

In the meantime, you were doing other things before you hooked up with this guy, go back to it. Hang out with your friends, school, family, keep your options open for new guys. The world isn't over. He won't be the last guy.

Good luck.

Answer 3

find somebody else...