I was with this guy for 7 months. We broke up 3 days ago. I was ready to make more out of the relationship and I pushed him a little too far one night bringing it up. so the inevidable happened and we have broke up.He is 31 and is a muscian and never married no kids.I knew he had a fear of commitment, it was obvious.He led me on to believe we would live together and be together forever.I understand we broke up because I pushed him, but he has been heartless about the whole thing.It's killing me for the fact he has had no emotion just like I never exsited. I cried to him once to come back and I will sacrifice being married as long as we could be together. He told me it's over go home. I exchanged our belongings while he was at work and sent him a very short and sweet message telling him I have moved on. And I still go nothing. Does he even care?
2007-01-03 09:48:24 · 9 answers · asked by Lindsey Lou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This was a Small taste of who he will become in the future.... a jerk!! Be glad that you got out before he started to show his true colors!
2007-01-03 10:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by Autumn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he doesn't care. Why did you cry to him. He is a heartless bastard. Let him go. Have respect for yourself. Don't stoop down to this man level and give up your hope and dream of being married ...and having a family...Find someone who will love you and show appreciation for you. You didn't push him, he is using that as an excuse to get out of the relationship...he saw an opportunity and took it...Always remember when one door close another door wil open to you. You may just find someone better...cheer up...life is beautiful...thunk positive
2007-01-03 17:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by naomijoan0615 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You are better off without him. There are a lot of fish in the sea and you deserve better.
Keep your dignity intact and don't contact him anymore. If he contacts you, well then maybe he does have a heart, but let him find it on his own.
You sound too nice for this guy!
2007-01-03 17:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by cathoratio 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously not! Just move on and try to find someone that isn't afraid of commitment! Good Luck.
2007-01-03 17:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by xSilverStarx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he does he is just scared of his own feelings because guys are trying to be strong and i think that he thinks if he tells you how he feels he will break down
2007-01-03 17:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by Madtown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt respond dont mean he dont care. maybe hes afraid, just giv him space. if he decides he wants 2 be wit u like 2 wanna be wit him, he'll be back, keep an open mind.
2007-01-03 17:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He most likely does care, but its hard to have your feelings hurt. Let him lick his wounds in peace and maybe someday he will come out of the cave.
2007-01-03 17:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by StressedSweetie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he wasn't into your relationship as much as you were.
2007-01-03 17:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by Jason 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel used it is because that is what has happened here...
2007-01-03 17:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by mark2zephyr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋