What did I do wrong?Seriously?

Question

I asked a close female friend that we need to lose contact for awhile(no time limit set)-so that I can get over my feelings for her.
She said that she don't deserve my feelings.

She also said “If thats how you feel sweetheart,ok and that maybe you do need time out”.She only wants to be friends.The conversation ended with an argument, with her calling me 2 faced and selfish.(asked her if she ever felt anything for me and for her to be truthful).Why would she call me this? We're close friends-we were never a couple.

We've not spoken for a month....tried to get in touch---she's not responded at all.

I just want to know WHAT I HAVE DONE?

Surely by me getting back in touch, she should recognise that I've delt with my feelings.

She said that we're only friends---could she have possibly fancied me?If so why didn't she tell me?

Wanted to be a true friend---thats why I asked for no contact for AWHILE---not for good....

Answer 1

i think she had feelings for you but was to shy to tell you and now shes hurt to think you are just 'Friends' and because you have had no contact for a while she feels rejected just keep being a friend and hope she will see it in the end good luck

Answer 2

Been there! she liked the attention, you did nothing wrong she wants to pull the strings in the friendship and have you pawn over her like a puppy. trust me she knew how you felt about her a long time before you said anything. Deep down she knows your'e a good person and although she doesn't want you, she doesn't want you to actually get over her. She was never your friend. Point blank shes taking advantage of your feelings and she doesnt deserve to have you as a friend.

Answer 3

youve added questions about the same girl many many times, maybe you think too much, look into things too much.....thats a womans job usually :)
I think you have driven yourself mad over this girl through thinking.
It all sounds like a crazy mess.....poor you!

From a female point of view.......women are attracted to men who know what they want and make tracks to get it fast, not those that sit around beating themselves up with too much thinking and playing games, those that do that become victims of life and not winners.
Next time be more forceful with what you want, you'll get more back that way. It could be too late with this girl......but worth a try?

I think you should say this and if this dont get what you want then give up trying ......" for fcuks sake woman Im absolutely crazy about you, cant you see that"
Good luck

Answer 4

I think you are going to have to leave the reconnect up to her, if you have already advised her you want to renew your friendship and there is no answer, or perhaps she is trying to teach you a lesson, which is totally wrong, Adults need to be informed, not taught lessons. So give it a rest and you will get your answer one way or the other

Answer 5

they are insecure and self- experience of right and incorrect and that they don't understand to any extent further helpful than that and that they think of that everbody on right it is kind and that they don't understand that interior the actual international human beings will only devour them up in the event that they act like that. so i recommend they get their act jointly and understand that they are too youthful to be posting those products on the information superhighway and that all human beings can inspect this.

Answer 6

whyy do you keep asking the same question. this is the 4th time i have seen it in a day and a half

Answer 7

Why do you keep posting the same question???

Deal with it

Move on

Answer 8

She probably liked you and got her feelings hurt

Answer 9

She is the only one who can answer your questions.

Answer 10

what a boring question, take her nan out