Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

My fiance and I are recovering like most people form Christmas, financially speaking. Rent was just do and I am really broke at the moment. His birthday is tomorrow and I was going to get him a 50 dollar gift card for I tunes, becuase I bought him an IPOD for Christmas. Will he like that, do you think? Im also going to make him breakfast and his favorite dinner. I wish I could do more but I just can't right now.

2007-01-03 10:34:33 · 16 answers · asked by lizzy*lou 2 in Singles & Dating

One of new girl at work,, was talking to me about party at boss office this weekend, i told her that she should plan to stay late, so after the party (which will end at 10 pm) we will go the nearby famious club, she said "we will see"
what that mean,, not intertested.. so what should be my approach, ask her again in the party,.,, or dont ask her again unless she bring up the topic going to club...
she know i have crush on her...

2007-01-03 10:34:28 · 7 answers · asked by mopugh s 1 in Singles & Dating

go ahead and kill myself or just let the bus do it?

2007-01-03 10:34:21 · 10 answers · asked by Martin M 2 in Family

...my partner to talk about how he feels about stuff? hes always been made to feel he's boring and/or his opinion doesnt count to the point where he now finds it really hard to express himself..how can i help him?

2007-01-03 10:33:57 · 16 answers · asked by serephina 5 in Singles & Dating

There is alots of advantages of being married to a virgin but it seems like no one have even thought about it.

2007-01-03 10:33:56 · 18 answers · asked by CHICK 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked her out and she was rather rude and insulting.

Ouch !!

2007-01-03 10:33:02 · 7 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Singles & Dating

whats it mean when a guy stares at you and looks into your eyes!! and always bumps into you!! and always tells you your to skinny and always makes sure you eat!! and hes just always flirting with you and stuff like that?

2007-01-03 10:32:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

..my partner to talk about how he feels about stuff? hes always been made to feel he's boring and/or his opinion doesnt count to the point where he now finds it really hard to express himself..how can i help him?

2007-01-03 10:32:27 · 11 answers · asked by serephina 5 in Singles & Dating

ok so my bf im with now dont like my ex. cuz my ex kissed me while i was goin out w\ my bf rite now and a whole bunch of stuff... but ya he doesnt like my ex and he doesnt trust him ,, but i really wanna go to my exes dance w\ him at his school. i wuld still go w\ my bf at my school. wut should i dooo..

2007-01-03 10:32:26 · 4 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 10:32:19 · 24 answers · asked by sassy1 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 10:32:03 · 2 answers · asked by Sexy Lady 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently started dating this guy and everything was hott at first, but now it seems like I'm more interested in him than he is in me. I'm the one doing the calling and texting now. I feel like I'm the one doing everything. Am I just wasting my time? No we haven't had sex as yet, we made out but that was it, I wasn't ready to take it to the next level. Now I feel as if he's just backed off.. am I just wasting my time? Could he have lost interest because I wasn't ready to put out?

2007-01-03 10:31:44 · 5 answers · asked by ƒ®îgg Üþ ©hî¢ ®™ 1 in Singles & Dating

I am dating this man who has a three-year old. She is almost four. Her mother and my boyfriend have been divorced for three years. He has been taking care of his daughter by himself for two years now since she was one. The mother and my boyfriend have joint custody with one week to her and one week to him. Seems he has her every weekend though. She cries when she goes back to her mother but runs to her father. Anyways, he doesn't spank her because the mother will take him to court. The little girl eats 10 popscicles and two ice cream cones a day. This is not how I would raise my child. She is adorable but bites and kicks other kids to the point they don't want to play with her. She will stay up all night and watch television and not let her father sleep. She bites the dog and kitten till they whimper. I really am falling for this guy but I am worried this little girl has something wrong with her and will hurt my children if I marry this man. What should I do?

2007-01-03 10:31:24 · 3 answers · asked by Hmmpphhhh 2 in Family

ok, like i was at this party and theres this girl and she got close to me and like laughs at like whatever i say..so what does this mean

2007-01-03 10:31:23 · 4 answers · asked by jeremy h 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm seeing someone long distant, he called me but I was busy, bout 40mins later, I sent him a text saying "Hey, Call me. x" And I sent that text bout 8 hours ago and he hasn't called me. What's worse, I saw that he was online on MSN messenger and he didn't even send me a message. I know he got that text message, I'm supposed to be going down to see him on 19th Jan, thinking bout cancelling the whole thing to gain more respect maybe. What's he playing at? Does he want to be in control?! If he wasn't interested, he wouldn't have called me earlier on!.

2007-01-03 10:30:56 · 1 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Singles & Dating

y is it th@ i keep gettin my friends tellin me not to ask this girtl out fr a date. Just cos she has another guy who likes her, its doesn't mean she isn't into me! she tells me she really likes me.
i think i should act now and not listen to my friends

dont you think?
hope i made sence

2007-01-03 10:30:35 · 15 answers · asked by Rambo 1 in Singles & Dating

I am newly single and not into the bar scene. What are the best places to meet single, successful, genuine guys? Thanks!

2007-01-03 10:30:35 · 10 answers · asked by Kelly 2 in Singles & Dating

Phisically fit of course not fat not skinny

2007-01-03 10:30:20 · 4 answers · asked by Diego Rivera 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for about 9 months. For christmas well part of the gift was also a card and he made it himself..saying that he wants to grow old with me and all he wants is to love me forever and that I'm his everything...I feel the same way too...but ever since the new year hes been acting different...he calls but he doesnt really talk anymore and everytime I say I love you he just says back at ya...I dont know what happened...maybe its something I said to him...cuz on new yrs I was mad because his best friend came over and started touching his shoulder and laughin w/ him and I sent him a text sayin "You kno i cant stand her,idk how much more i can take, i was ur gf be4 u even met her." and he text me back sayin "im not goin end my friendship w/ her." So I didnt talk to him til midnight and idk ever since then hes changed...? I know nothings goin on bewteen them becuase shes 4 yrs older then him and that would b illegal cuz shes 20...but idk nemore....

2007-01-03 10:29:22 · 5 answers · asked by Morgan Love 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in highschool - a hard worker, and I try my best w. full efforts. The only thing is that I get carried away w. the "guy" issue - as in having one... a committed, true & loving one! I'm like a hopeless romantic, but not desperate > i wont just go out w. anyone. I want to do well in school, but how can i combine my work w. my social life? & how can i get past this "guy" issue? Would having someone put me at ease?

2007-01-03 10:28:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been dateing for 3 months, and i love him so much. But we always fight, the other day i was at his house and i told him how me and my friend had a party the other nite when my parents weren't home at my house. he got really mad telling me if i wanted to get grounded then i could go do that. He told me that i would be the one regretting it not him. He would keep going out and haveing fun with his friends, he even made it seem like he wouldn't care if he couldn't see me if i was grounded. He mad me feel horrible, stuff like this always happens. We get in a fight and i go home and just cry. I love him so much though, i would never be able to break up with him. But unlike the begining of our realtionship were we actually comunicated all the time, now we only cuddle, watch tv, go to parties, have sex, barely talk about important or personal things anymore, and of course fight. I just can't take it anymore, but breaking up with him isn't an option i just love him to much

2007-01-03 10:28:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a dumb guy when it comes to talking to girls & i couldn`t make dat impression on my fiancee i tried a lot,
it used to happen that she used to tell me how i should talk to girls and when i used to do so she felt bad as she wanted me to say someting original and i used to do it as from my side but....
she has this thing in her mind that she should be comfortable with me before our marriage but i dont know what is happening when we talk about any topic its ends up in a heaty conversation making each other feed bad about ourselves.
please help me guide me and tell me what can i do to improve this relationship as i love her a lot and i dont want to loose her at all which i know that she wont leave me as well but instead of living with each other where everything is suffocating we want to have a healthy & happy realtionship.
i even never spoke to her about sex as i thought that it should be only spoken about after marriage but now i feel that was also wrong

2007-01-03 10:28:19 · 18 answers · asked by jammy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom died in a car accident when i was 8. My dad started dating again when i was 10. He found this lady and got married to her. She abuses me and my sis, but loves and cares about my 2 step bros and step sis. My dad is in the army and goes away to Iraq all the time, so he didnt know that we got abused. One day we got this letter that said my dad had been shot and killed. I lost both of my parents and im living with my evil step mother. She had just recently kicked out me and my sis, saying we were nothing and didnt belong and other stuff. My younger sis is 6 years younger than me (10) and i have to take care of her. We live with my friend and her family. I want to drop out of school and take care of my sister. i want whats best for her. i dont know what to do. I feel like were run away orphans with nowhere to go. can someone please help on what to do

2007-01-03 10:27:09 · 21 answers · asked by Lauren R. 1 in Family

2007-01-03 10:26:59 · 10 answers · asked by me 2 in Friends

I asked this girl for her number and talked to her on the phone a few times I asked her out twice and she had legitamate reasons for being busy ie concerts and things she had tickets for. but the third time i asked her out she said she just wanted to be phone friends we contuinued to talk she seemed to not like the idea of not talking at all should i continue to be phone friends or just wash my hands of the situation

2007-01-03 10:26:47 · 1 answers · asked by chefj 2 in Singles & Dating

it's sort of weird....
any suggestions or anything?

2007-01-03 10:26:42 · 13 answers · asked by identityquiet 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 10:26:10 · 2 answers · asked by frost13 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and i are saving money for a wedding, and a house. He recently lost his job. Now, i know that he is really wanting to get a job quick, but today he lied to me about where he was going and got a job thru a job hiring agent that he had before. Well, they take a HUGE chunk out of his paycheck, and he works late hours. I work days so i will never be able to see him. I am upset that he didn't talk to me about any of this first. I know WHY, but i can't get over the fact that he didn't tell me he was looking for a job thru them. He basically woke up one morning, told me he was going out to smoke a cigg. then came back a few hours later and said, i just came to say bye. I just got a job, and i start right now. I won't get home until 4 in the morning..bye. Never even asking me what i thought about it, or even telling me what he was doing or how much he was getting paid. Nothing. So.... do i have the right to be mad? how should i handle it?

2007-01-03 10:25:47 · 11 answers · asked by Andii 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im 16 and im a short indian girl who really confused about everything.lol. you can say i was born confused. but anyways theres this guy who i've liked for the longest time and slowly i started to get over him and now im like 92% over him and just a small part of me likes him and recently we had an argument and i kinda said something i shouldnt have..i said "i just cant tell you, not now atleast!" i didnt want him to know i liked him because im not as good looking as he is. i mean im kinda sorta a little bit pretty and all but hes super hot and everyone loves him. so i think its best not to. but now i got myself in this big mess and have to decide whether or not i should tell him or not?? since im practically almost over him..should i tell him??? or would that set me up for another heartbreak and more crying?
thanks everyone for your responses! have a SPECTACULAR day!

2007-01-03 10:25:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I recently got in contact with an old friend, me and him have always been very close, we have great chemistry. I found out that he had broken up with his ex of 5 years. When we started talking again it had been about 5 months since then. We hit it off and talked every single day for hours and hours..this went on for about 3 months..we hung out even though he lives in another state and it was great..no we never slept together, he said he wanted to take things slow.

He actually started looking for jobs to move where I am because he confessed that he liked me a lot..then he tells me that his ex texted him and he wished he could change his number, he told me he was over it and i had nothing to worry about..i didn't sweat it but told him i dont want to get hurt and freaked out!

He then told me he was going away with his parents and 2 days prior to that he stopped calling me!!! I havent heard from him even though I've called, emailed. He gets back from his trip Sunday...what happened?

2007-01-03 10:25:16 · 12 answers · asked by Sweet Surrender 2 in Singles & Dating