Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

We can't move, and we don't want to hurt his feelings. He's not a bad guy, just a know it all and always drinking our beer. I know he's just lonely. But it's just sooo much to endure! When we didn't answer our doorbell last night, he actually came in on his own and set himself down until we came back downstairs. I could shoot myself for not locking the door. If we make any plans with our "good" neighbors, we have to be very careful not to let him know or he'll invite himself everytime.
I know all the funny answers already like, scream & act like a fool, move poisen him, fling poo..... Appreciate any help....

2007-01-03 09:23:42 · 6 answers · asked by flandurka1 1 in Friends

i love to sing, and a lot of places know who i am, take my pic, all that good stuff. my best freind thinks im hiding something from her, which i am, how do i tell w ith out up setting her. if theres a way.

2007-01-03 09:23:39 · 34 answers · asked by lalaland 1 in Friends

2007-01-03 09:23:30 · 15 answers · asked by bob 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-03 09:22:01 · 23 answers · asked by JOHN 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 23 and my girlfriend is 20 I split up with my girlfriend nearly 2 months ago now. she ended it saying all of a sudden that she did not love me anymore it all started to fall apart for us i think when she started collage again and a new part time job she seemed to be drifiting away from me and spending less time with me wanting to talk to her new friends and to do collage work and with me not used to spending so much time with her and not getting as much attention off her i grew parranoid with caused me to make stupid little arguments with her which kept chipping away at our relationship in the end i don't think she could take it anymore and came to belive that i did not trust her we were togeather for 4 and a half years and we were so close now we have been broke up for 7 weeks, she is with someone else from her new job who she got with 2 weeks after we broke up and i'm all alone still hurting and just wanting the chance to get back what we had is there any hope for me???

2007-01-03 09:21:48 · 15 answers · asked by david r 1 in Singles & Dating

He broke up with me w/ no reason. 2 weeks later he asked 2 c me again but not as boyfriend/girlfriend. Just casually. This went on until Oct 06 when I told him I wanted us 2 have relationship again. He said was still not ready 4 that and we stopped talking. R kids r friends & wanted 2 get 2gether 4 new years. He came up 2 my house and totally acted like nothing was wrong...flirted & mixed signals. I still love him soo much but m not sure how he feels. My guess is that he's just not that into me since he seems 2 b able 2 stay away. What do I do? Do I try 2 talk 2 him or just let it go? How do I let go? Please, someone help me!

2007-01-03 09:21:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this bot i met his name and like his name starts with a p if your does tell it to me

2007-01-03 09:21:39 · 2 answers · asked by TIMER 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so there is this girl, I really like her, and I'm almost 99.9999% positive that she still likes me. When we first realized we like each other, we hung out and hooked up for like a week untill i asked her out, we did that for like another week or two, and then she tells me that "dating me wasnt what she thought it would be like and she wanted to be friends with benefits" since then however i haven't really seen any of these benefits, and i would love to know if there is a way that i could convince her to date again, or at least if i could figure out what her issue is...any help is welcome

2007-01-03 09:21:26 · 20 answers · asked by blckgold91 2 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering how someone can just move on so casually from someone they "claimed" to care about so much.... Did they never really care about that person or do are they not capable of being a decent person?

2007-01-03 09:20:44 · 14 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

Only women answer this question please.

2007-01-03 09:20:28 · 13 answers · asked by Kalidas 2 in Singles & Dating

Do I confront her with this revalation that I found on a printed paper on her desk? I was over at the house to pick up mail etc and it was right there so I didn't go digging even though it is "our" house. I am worried I may be too naive and she is getting advice from her family that has been married & divorced many times. We were together 22 years. any thoughts on verifying if ANy MORE like this exist? She has told me to my face last week when we sat down to meet about bills that she has not opened any accounts. Perhaps I misunderstood or this is a line of credit not an account so she is not really lying but hey, it is deceitful. HELP comments please. I do not want and violent or mean women bashing comments please.

2007-01-03 09:20:26 · 13 answers · asked by bSquirrel 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ladies i am 19 years old college student i have a lil gut but i am working it out i go to the gym 4 times a week and lift weights i also am currently doing street jogging I enjoy watching movies and cuddeling and listening to oldschool rnb like james brown, i like to read poetry and love to shake my funky pants, i am very spiritual i love to learn about many diffrent religions and ways of life and i like to enjoy a glass of wine while i am with my company of friends. i love to eat healthy and at least try to stay in shape

2007-01-03 09:20:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a junior in high school...and I'm lonely. I have good friends, and I'm smart. I'm not gorgeous, but definetely not ugly either. It seems like all guys are either taken, idiots, or just not interested in romance or something. How do I find a guy?

2007-01-03 09:19:33 · 1 answers · asked by Susie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 09:19:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother is like 19.. or 20. He still lives with me. I'm 13 and I'm a girl, I'm just on my lil bros account. Anyways, just a few moments ago my brother spit on me after I got out of the shower, he always calls me names and stuff and my self-esteem is really low, and he's always emotionally abusing me.. and then when he does stuff to me, my mom doesn't even do anything, and then when I barley do anything I get screamed at and sometimes my mom pulls my hair.. then my old brother kicks me and my little brother scratches me.. is this even right???

2007-01-03 09:19:09 · 7 answers · asked by Brett H 1 in Family

He claims that the baby is not born to him. But it is not true. His mom had another affair and left his father for him. She also sow a seed of doubt in my husbands mind. So my husband does not trust me too. Now he has filed a divorce and not seen his son till date. I am currently working but away from my child for money without which it would be a problem. I am in a dilema if i have to quite my job and stay with my child

2007-01-03 09:19:07 · 11 answers · asked by hello 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 09:17:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When my boyfriend came to live with me and my kids he brought the movie Brokeback Mountain and my 13 yr old daughter who has ADHD wants to see it do I let her?

2007-01-03 09:16:55 · 28 answers · asked by Maddigahn 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have these guys that like me but they wont stop calling me and following me around campus ive tried: go away, stop following me, slapping them a few times,and even bringing my boyfriend with me around campus but they dont get it how do i get rid of them????={

2007-01-03 09:16:27 · 11 answers · asked by christi 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey, I'm 14 and there's this girl in my school who I've always liked (really really liked). She's like the only nice girl who's really hot, and I think she likes me.

Last year she and a few friends were talking in a room and I was outside of the room, and I didn't hear what they said but after they asked if I was listening, and said "Thank god you weren't." Twice her friends told me that she "really liked me" but I really didn't know what that meant. She's really popular and I know that most of the guys in my grade think she's hot, so I don't know why she'd like me... =P

Are her friends telling the truth, and does she really like me? How can I get to know if she really likes me?

Thanks for the help...

2007-01-03 09:15:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Someone I know cheated on his girlfriend at least two times (with two different people). She seems to think he is the world's perfect guy and deserves to know that he has serious issues. One of the times he cheated it was with a guy, by the way....

On the other hand, it really isn't my responsability to get involved... should I tell her or not?

2007-01-03 09:13:44 · 10 answers · asked by Matt 3 in Singles & Dating

I think of cute boys what about you? huh? I think I will get good answers with this subject!!! : ') : >}

2007-01-03 09:11:57 · 42 answers · asked by {*Naomi*} 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy Beau, has a girl but they r on da verge of breaking up. I dont think he will say yes because his Dad doent like me because we kissed before when we were kids (4) now his Dad thinks I'ma hoe. What do I do?

2007-01-03 09:11:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance has so many friends whose weddings he was the best man in and wanted to include as many as he could in our wedding party. The priest allows 8 attendants on each side, we talked him into 9! However, I have two brothers and wanted them to play an important part in our wedding. I planned on having my brothers walk me out, we'll meet my dad, he'll walk me down the isle while my brothers walk behind us. This way I feel that the 3 important men in my life are giving me away to the man I am marrying. Does this sound doinky (dumb) or does it sound sweet? What do you think?

2007-01-03 09:10:57 · 41 answers · asked by aquari-kat 2 in Weddings

how do i tell the guy i like that i accually love him? well without saying i love you. like what types of hints. and like how i feel???

2007-01-03 09:10:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife has decided to seperate after 6 years of marriage and 10 years together, we have been together since we were 17 and have had a fun and happy marriage, then with no notice she decides she wants to leave and requires space and not sure if she wants to continue on with the marriage. i kind of understand that she wants to find herself and experiance new things but cant stop feeling cheated or hurt and angry. she has been very honest with me but i feel that she is being selfish in not putting our relationship 1st, she cant promise me that she will not sleep with any one else, what do i do if she does? , will the pain ever go away?
we are both 28 years old and have always done everything together, is this the fault?

2007-01-03 09:10:32 · 17 answers · asked by curious 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What body part drives men wild.?
what turns them off.?

2007-01-03 09:09:52 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 09:09:38 · 2 answers · asked by non active 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 09:09:27 · 5 answers · asked by nachtrieb2 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a business man with a family.I met a woman through a friend at work .She pushed her way into my life until i realized she was cool.Time and time again I rejected her advancement.Soon we became friends. She moved out of state and I find myself thinking about her more and more.Do you think we had something special?I would like to see her again but I am not sure how she feels.What do you think?Sometimes I sense her thinking of me and it brings back good memories.What should I do?

2007-01-03 09:08:56 · 15 answers · asked by don t 1 in Friends