Someone I know cheated on his girlfriend at least two times (with two different people). She seems to think he is the world's perfect guy and deserves to know that he has serious issues. One of the times he cheated it was with a guy, by the way....
On the other hand, it really isn't my responsability to get involved... should I tell her or not?
2007-01-03 09:13:44 · 10 answers · asked by Matt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you have a motive? Or is this strictly because you don't want to see her hurt? Evaluate why you might consider telling her then decide.
2007-01-03 09:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No effense but it doesnt seem like its any of your bussiness. I mean if shes a really good friend, then maybe. Also consider that if you guys aren't very good friends and her boyfriend cheatting on her and told you in confidence it could start problems. It depends on alot of stuff.
2007-01-03 17:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by Je vous aime. ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should tell her. i hope those times he cheated on her he was protected. Poor girl. She will be destroyed. It makes one feel they are not good enough when cheated on with another girl girl, but also a man? I feel really sorry for her. you shouldn't keep that from her. good luck
2007-01-03 17:18:09 · answer #3 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your relationship with this girl but if you are close enough than i would tell her. I mean what if her bf contracts some sort of STD and then gives it to her. that wouldn't be fair if she had to pay her whole life because he was a whore.
2007-01-03 17:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by jrtootsiepop 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She most likely wont believe you and will end up accusing you of being with her man, so it probably isn't a good idea.
2007-01-03 17:18:36 · answer #5 · answered by xquis81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humm tough spot.... In one hand it is not your place to tell him. But on the other hand.... her safely is an issue... especially if they are not using protection.
2007-01-03 17:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by ppv918 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really care about that person then of course you should tell.
2007-01-03 17:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by SexyRed16 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are that friend of this girl, you shouldn't get into their relationship because if she doesn't believe you then you are just going to get yourself in trouble.
2007-01-03 17:19:18 · answer #8 · answered by blah blah blah! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea u should tell they will thank u for it
2007-01-03 17:17:13 · answer #9 · answered by coreen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell the girl. will save her from a crappy worser heartbreak later on.
2007-01-03 17:19:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋