Just wondering how someone can just move on so casually from someone they "claimed" to care about so much.... Did they never really care about that person or do are they not capable of being a decent person?
2007-01-03 09:20:44 · 14 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either they are a jerk and they didn't mean it in the first place, or if they are really hurt, they want to forget so they can move on (it's a preservation mechanism).
So either they didn't care enough or too much. The first option, unfortunately, is more likely though.
2007-01-03 09:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by yishor 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Females are more emotionally human beings than Males.. he probably did cared for a while, but feelings change like seasons with men. With Females feelings, for a ex even though he's your ex, you might still care about him and still find yourself in love with him. Men get over women easily but women don't tend to do that easily.. I suggest you to go out, hang out with the girls, meet new guys, and mainly just keeping yourself occupied so u wouldnt think about him. You should care enough about yourself to realize that he doesnt care about you anymore, so u should move on.. cause u are setting yourself up to get ya feelings hurt when someone u care about dont care about you back. So u should try not to care soo much.. treat him like he treats you..
2007-01-03 17:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mrz`J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone does that when they don't care about anyone but himself. when they don't know the meaning of the word "caring" that is when people do that. he probably doesn't care about anyone so dont dwell on it. move on and laugh at how pathetic and useless he is - and how he needs to find a good time on here - besides it sound like you have a healthy marriage with someone who deserves your affection - and other people who think you are pretty special so look hard at him and realize who he is and get over it. you and i both know that he will never amount to anything as he continues to lie and hurt everyone around him. bet yoru a-ss he isn't married or involved with anyone as who would want him right?
2007-01-03 18:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan M 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some people are just that way. The claim on thing, but do another.
2007-01-03 17:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jason 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well gurl u really cant just get over someone you just need to try to keep your mind off of them and put on something else.maybe a hobby u like or school maybe another guy who knows.
glad to help! (: :)
2007-01-03 17:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by :) tina (: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kno i have the same question! its like one minute they rele like u then the next they just stop talking to u! Mayb he's scared
2007-01-03 17:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by ck26062 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theyre probably immature to understand relationships. ive got a friend whos got this problem, and he does all this to support his need for feeling wanted. its called infatuation.
2007-01-03 17:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by Sharon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you never know if someone really means what they say. Most of it is all lies.
2007-01-03 17:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by Peter N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got plenty to learn about men, darlin'!!
Mr Happy
:o)
2007-01-03 17:22:58 · answer #9 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awww well men tend to do things that hurt women....ugh... I dont know either why they do the things they do!
2007-01-03 17:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋