i am 23 and my girlfriend is 20 I split up with my girlfriend nearly 2 months ago now. she ended it saying all of a sudden that she did not love me anymore it all started to fall apart for us i think when she started collage again and a new part time job she seemed to be drifiting away from me and spending less time with me wanting to talk to her new friends and to do collage work and with me not used to spending so much time with her and not getting as much attention off her i grew parranoid with caused me to make stupid little arguments with her which kept chipping away at our relationship in the end i don't think she could take it anymore and came to belive that i did not trust her we were togeather for 4 and a half years and we were so close now we have been broke up for 7 weeks, she is with someone else from her new job who she got with 2 weeks after we broke up and i'm all alone still hurting and just wanting the chance to get back what we had is there any hope for me???
2007-01-03 09:21:48 · 15 answers · asked by david r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please just move on i also split from my boyfriend 2months ago and i miss him and it does hurt very much and iv got to accept it. and i kno that iv got to get on with my life be happy on Ur own for a while u will find the right person soon enough x best of luck
2007-01-03 09:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by Don 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's trying to move on and forget about u , she might not be doing it in the best way but if she feels like thats how she'll move on then she'll do it for her own good. She probably still has feelings for u but to be honest if she let go maybe she likes her new life better and feels happier. Dont chase after her but make it clear that u want to fix things. If she loves u she'll be back if not then let her live her life and move on. Im sure u'll be able to find another girl who'll love u . U cant make someone love u , that comes from within. Plus if she left u after 5 years in 2 weeks after breaking up she probably lost feelings a while ago but was waiting for the opportunity to split. Move on.. its for ur own good...
goodluck.
2007-01-03 09:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by moooona1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her make you upset like that, there's plenty of fish in the sea, meaning there are alot of other girls out there ... If she has the nerve to break up with you, and get someone else, then she really isn't good for you, and doesn't love you as much as you love her ... I've been down that road, you'll feel bad now, but better later on, BE A MAN !
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2007-01-03 09:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-24 21:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time. Think about the reason why u guys break up at the 1st place. Try to keep in touch with her as friends and express how you feel later on. If she still have the same feelings as u, she will come back to u.
2007-01-03 10:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by Crazy in love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll only find out if there's hope by completely ignoring her and then randomly meet up in a few years to try again.
2007-01-03 09:25:42 · answer #6 · answered by Peter N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that you move on because she obviously has. i know its hard but there is no point you hanging around because she will just end up hating you even more for coming in between her new relationship. good luck mate
2007-01-03 09:25:43 · answer #7 · answered by missree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i"m sorry to say it but the truth is no. go forwards not backwards, you are young and one day will fall in love all over again and be loved back. good luck!
2007-01-03 09:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only read ur headline, you cant get people to love you, this ??? is always posted,so many lost souls out there. Why waste ur time?
2007-01-03 09:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by laura k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on...its obvious she broke up with you to get with this guy ...knowing that now...why would you wana get back with her...move along
2007-01-03 09:30:45 · answer #10 · answered by Sunny-T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋