He broke up with me w/ no reason. 2 weeks later he asked 2 c me again but not as boyfriend/girlfriend. Just casually. This went on until Oct 06 when I told him I wanted us 2 have relationship again. He said was still not ready 4 that and we stopped talking. R kids r friends & wanted 2 get 2gether 4 new years. He came up 2 my house and totally acted like nothing was wrong...flirted & mixed signals. I still love him soo much but m not sure how he feels. My guess is that he's just not that into me since he seems 2 b able 2 stay away. What do I do? Do I try 2 talk 2 him or just let it go? How do I let go? Please, someone help me!
2007-01-03 09:21:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
show attitude n wait!
if hez yours he will come without your request
n dont hesitate to look for other good options if u have in this period,sumtime jealousy works purposeful!
2007-01-03 09:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by viper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing games. I was in a similar situation around the same time frame that you were dealing with him. He's 37. Its a shame you think that the older they get the more mature they'll be. NOT!!! Its easy to tell someone to let go and move on but your emotions are tied up in this relationship. My suggestion to you is to think about are you really truly and happy to have him in your life. Seriously think about it. How is he benefiting your life? Do you feel like you'll be loosing anything once he's out of your life?
You know these answers anyway because if you didnt you wouldnt have posted this question. Everybody will tell you what you need to do and how to do it but ultimately its your decision. Take the emotions out of the situation and think rationally. Look at the situation without any emotions involved and you'll get the answer that you need.
2007-01-03 09:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it hard as hell... However you have got to keep your mind on other things. Sounds to me like he's playing games and your allowing him to ... Stop.....Your doing just what he wants you to do. He's in control, take back the control you gave him. Do not call, Do not answer his calls right away and for heavens sake do not visit with him. Once he feels he not able to control you.
You will be back in the drivers seat. The table has got to turn in your favor. Believe me its going to hurt... but if you see it through, it will be worth it.
2007-01-03 09:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by Honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 14:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by bornhoft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋