Family & Relationships - 2 January 2007

me and my husband fight over the most stupid things and he can get really mean. For example he had 2 ice creams before dinner leaving one left. I thought the last one would be nice for desert so I went to greab it and as soon as he saw what i grabbed he decided he wanted it. He snatched it off me and ate it in front of me saying 'mmm this is such a good ice cream, dont you love how creamy these are?' I was pretty upset, not coz i didnt have it, but because he didnt even want it it was just out of spite. I said to him that it was not very nice and he looked me in the eye and told me that he hates me. I dont understand what I did. I know its such a petty thing, but it kind of hurts. Any suggestions? every time he drinks he gets like this, but I cant stop him drinking

2007-01-02 21:10:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-02 21:06:44 · 23 answers · asked by mama leila 3 in Friends

How do you make a guy stop in his tracks and notice you and have an intrest in you

2007-01-02 21:05:27 · 8 answers · asked by asdfjkl; 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-02 21:05:24 · 17 answers · asked by Lex P. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well i have been married for about 2 monthes now...my husband was so loving
before marrage ...we only knew each other for about 1 month chatting...then met
for 1 week then chatting for another 2 monthes then we got married...before
marrage we had no full intercourse only kisses and hugs...and he really had a
great desire in me...yet after marrage he changed a lot...he is no more
romantic...he never asks for sex..i am the one who always asks for it...he is
always distracted ...and i am the one who always asks him to talk with me...any
quarrel between us..he hurts me with very bad words...and although he is wrong
he never asks for forgiveness ...but he makes me feel wrong about it...i found
he knew many girls before me...and i read hot emails he used to write to
them... he says that he loves me..but i feel that he was so romantic with his
previous girlfriends ...and he lost all his romance and desires and love when we
married...that what i feel...i am very depressed

2007-01-02 21:03:15 · 20 answers · asked by caramella 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why does my butt throw off so much heat? it's like a heater.

2007-01-02 21:02:35 · 7 answers · asked by ♥♥♫ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-02 21:02:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is 30 and i am 25, he is american and i am india. i am aries.

2007-01-02 21:00:57 · 5 answers · asked by sanny 1 in Weddings

Men if a women ask you for sex on the first day/date how would you feel ?Would you have respect for her?Would you agree to have sex with her?Would you think she desperated? would continue to date her or just use her for sex?
This discussion was on the radio and many of women being more aggressive than earlier years and not being shy to ask for sex the first night. Some men said they wouldnt want to have sex with the women. or some men said that they would have sex with her but would call her because she is desperate. just wanna know what you think

2007-01-02 20:59:24 · 12 answers · asked by race1983 1 in Singles & Dating

yes / no.......plz let me no as to why. If you're already married and wn each of you came to know about if you had lost it for other person before your marriage, how did it fell your sopouse and how did you fell, if your spouse had already lost it.

2007-01-02 20:58:34 · 21 answers · asked by smash wit love 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-02 20:57:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am indian, and he is American. he is 30 and i am 25. i am aries

2007-01-02 20:55:11 · 6 answers · asked by sanny 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I told ther to shut up. She wouldn't and kept talking during t.v. I warned the biatch many times. Eventually, I had to get up and slap her around. I say she was asking for it. She was told to stop talking. Maybe women like this type sheeet.

Should I keep doing it?

2007-01-02 20:55:09 · 36 answers · asked by Rico the Rican 1 in Singles & Dating

women always say thay dont care what a man looks like to some extent, but do women care what there children look like, from what i hear, read, from them aparantly not, for example im not braging but im a pretty fit built guy, buy nature not buy working out, my ex dumped me and married, lets say a guy thats not so flash although he has a good personality, and i hate to say it but here kids are, lets say, look i have to say it, there ugly and dum, my kids on the other hand, are cute and smart, remember im only using me as an example, im not putting people down, So are women to dumb to realise what there kids will be, or do thay just not care,,,,,.

2007-01-02 20:52:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-02 20:52:21 · 8 answers · asked by sweethopez 1 in Singles & Dating

Dont really wanna try it!! wondering if it has the same effect on women..

2007-01-02 20:51:47 · 17 answers · asked by Kelly N 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I've been with my man for 14 yrs,things have been up and down yet the only thing that has kept us together is loyalty to one another. Now I'm having my doubts that he's being completly faithful. Here are some examples; sits on the computer on forums till 2-3pm tham comes to bed for some action but no real passion if you know what I mean. When I deny him he says there's something wrong with me,yet its hard to get turned on when your asleep. I also know a womens calling him ,tonight his moblie rang just after tea i went to get it for him and saw the name Lynda on it he came and got it and took the call outside. Not long after he rang a customer of his to go and do a job and said to him I'll be there after I drop something of to some one. I listened to some of the conversation didnt sound deceiptful or anything yet I'm getting paraniod .Last night I asked him if he was having a emotional affair with anyone he said no{of couse} I really dont know where to go from here. Any advice.

2007-01-02 20:51:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think of a father taking a bath with his daughter or a mother taking a bath with son. Should it be an equal right. alot of individuals think fathers who take baths with daughters are not right, but mothers taking bath with sons are okay. Whats your opinion and why?
A women on A SITCOM on the TLC network says she see nothing wrong with her husband taking baths with their young daughter but other people disagreed with that situation.

2007-01-02 20:50:54 · 26 answers · asked by race1983 1 in Family

I've talked to girls, at work and online....and some say that, "i know i have a boyfriend, but you're cute" is dat a hint tellin me to try harder and i'll leave him for you? or should i respect the fact that they have a bf and back off?

2007-01-02 20:50:21 · 12 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

I am happy in the sense that I am planning on going to law school (I just turned 24 by the way) and I am FINALLY disciplined enough to get a good body (I have been losing weight through 1 hour walk everyday and 1400 calorie daily intake.)

The only thing I am sick of is everyone saying "SO WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO GET MARRIED"

I know that most people that say that to me mean well. But I am finishing my BA, losing weight, and gaining much of the confidence that is needed for dating. I really haven't dated much and would like to do that for sometime before settling, but people keep nagging me.

I was just curious as to other's input on this whole marriage thing. I have been 24 for a month now.

2007-01-02 20:49:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was wondering if there were any way possible to get ex directory phone numbers? Just trying to get hold of an old friend of mine,
thanks

2007-01-02 20:49:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been friends with this really "ghetto" black guy for over three years, more than twice as long as I've been with my boyfriend. He is a good friend and has always playfully joked about "riding them hips" and showing me "thug passion", and I wouldn't mention that he's black except that I know a lot of black guys are just very laid back about joking like that and it's not always a big deal to them because, at least a lot of them just have a more open attitude about talking about sex. I hope this doesn't sound like I'm stereotyping, I guess I just have been okay with him talking like this while I have a boyfriend because I know it's just a cultural way of talking. He used to just call once in a while and I would hang out with him with other mutual friends, but now he calls every day, and all he talks about now is sex. My boyfriend wants to beat him up and I feel conflicted because he is an old friend but he won't listen when I tell him to stop. What should I do?

2007-01-02 20:46:54 · 30 answers · asked by xNancyxSpungenxJr 1 in Singles & Dating

In past our parents haev lived happily in the arranged marriage setups and we have been brought up as nice kids. Why do we all then deplore the thought of marrying unknown guy? has the world gone so bad for the arranged marriage setup ?

2007-01-02 20:46:39 · 6 answers · asked by Varun 1 in Singles & Dating

He knows my sons father but they were never friends and my sons father ex girlfriend from high school used to date him and that caused problems between them now im dating him but hes afraid to let his feelings go because of the pior problemz but i know that he likes me but how can i tell him to let his feelings go ?

2007-01-02 20:46:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MAKE TGIS SITUATION SHORTER.SO THAT TRU LOVE DOESNT GO WASTE.AS LIFE IS VERY SHORT ONLY WHERE TRU LOV EXISTS.

2007-01-02 20:45:52 · 5 answers · asked by golaicecream 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-02 20:45:10 · 4 answers · asked by Bol H 1 in Singles & Dating

After 18 years of marriage, last year I found out my husband was cheating. Five months ago he left home to live by himself but comes back to our house every weekend. 2 weeks ago he told me that he wanted to reassure me that he is not attached to anyone else. Our marriage had problems especially because of his dominant ways. For the past year I have been in turmoil not having the strength to stop him coming over or to stick to any ultimatums. He now says he wants to wait till the summer before coming home. In the meantime, out of the blue I have met a man who is 51 nearer to my age as my husband is only 41, who wants to date me. I have kept him at arms length, but I must admit I am enjoying the attention. If I wasn't married he would be ideal for me. I feel that I would be unfaithful to my husband if I was to accept this man's invitations. I don't know what to do for the best. My husband's future plans are not clear, then there is our age difference. What would you do in my place?

2007-01-02 20:44:41 · 28 answers · asked by lucy_21.jones 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he broke up with me cause hed rather be friends then anything cause he doesnt want to lose me....what do i do to make him see diffrent

2007-01-02 20:43:49 · 3 answers · asked by nrcl1987 1 in Singles & Dating

some one has proposed me......i dnt know wht to reply ...i know tht boy since 3 yrs....i regarded him as frnd....i dnt feel anything...i dnt understand wht to do....plz help

2007-01-02 20:43:15 · 9 answers · asked by priya 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean his ex-wife. Is it true that "love is sweeter the second time around"?

2007-01-02 20:42:13 · 16 answers · asked by amie 1 in Singles & Dating