Family & Relationships - 2 January 2007

i have had such a tough 2006 and was glad it was over and thought its goin to be a new yr for me and im going to be happy and put things behind me. however yesterday i got told that my grandma has breast cancer. i dont know my mum and my gran has been my mum. we r so close i dont no how to handle it. she has the op on thurs and then we go from there to what treatment she needs and if she is going to be ok. i know i have to be positive but i dont know what id do without her. im just so upset for her as she only got over boule cancer 3 yrs ago, and now this. its just not fair. she is the best person i know and i cant help but be distrought as i feel so so so bad for her. my bf doesnt understand y im so upset and says i gota think positive and its not gna change anythin me cryin. but i cant help it.

2007-01-02 00:43:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know why but i like guys that are unavailable and hard to get y can't i just settle with normal single guys, pluse all the good ones are taken.

2007-01-02 00:42:44 · 4 answers · asked by zoey z 2 in Singles & Dating

o.k. i have a big crush on a boy.so at school I sent him a note telling him i like him.my heart was beating real fast when i sent it i watched him read it and then he sent me the note back saying."i like you too i'm glad we are FRINEDS"but i want to be more then friends what do i do now ,how do i tell him i like him in a different way

2007-01-02 00:41:49 · 2 answers · asked by corbin bleu's girlfriend 1 in Friends

he's a few years older than me but people continuously forget how young i am (19). people my age get angry because people always treat me like im older. i've really liked this guy for a really long time. we get along well, we have very similar likes, dislikes and thought process. when we talk, we have constant unbroken eye contact for the entire conversation (even when we aren't talking) and we talk for hours, the time goes by so quickly. when it comes to things like SMSs for example, he never replies...it makes me think that hes on purposely keeping himself at a distance. because when we are together, it feels like we're really close.
on new years (he invited me to come to his party) we were joking around and i said something a bit rude, he turns around and says be careful what you say shes only a baby refering to another girl there my age. i can't figure out how he feels about me. i thought it was an age thing, but from his comment i'm not sure.

2007-01-02 00:41:45 · 3 answers · asked by TeeKay 2 in Singles & Dating

hey guyz, i work in a gym and was working on new yrs eve coz their was a big party that nite so i was very bussy. i saw this girl she was really pretty, she come to me and ask what time the food is gonna come out and i didnt have a clue then i was like "hhhmmm, maybe in 10 minutes". she said she was really hungry.
after that she ask my name and i told her, then she went and sit with some few dudes and chicks.
everytime she come close she called my name and ask if i was doing great and i was like yeah. but my f****n maneger was watching me everytime.
then later when the party was about to end i saw her passing by then i jus went straight and ask her name and she smiled and mention it, then she said she will remember my name. she turn around and left. im not sure if i will meet her again or if she is registerd with the gym as a member. but if i met her by chance, what should i do guyz? please help guyz, i like this chick,
any ideas please share.

2007-01-02 00:40:58 · 13 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with him for 3 years, he is not as bad as he used to be but still finds an excuse to drink. has anyone been in the same situation? Wnd when he drinks he gets so pissed he can't stand up most of the time. We argue about it the next day but there isn't really anything to argue about. I have kept a diary of when he drinks etc as he never goes without drinking for more than 4 days in a row. This is better than everyday as it used to be but I am scared of wasting my life - I am 36 and want to settle down and have kids etc -how long do i wait. WHen will I know that things have really changed?And if things get better, how will i know that the problem is not lying dormant and waiting to come back out and ruin my life. Apart from his drinking he is perfect. I always thought an alcoholic is only reformed if he never drinks again- he wont do this because he loves his drink too much, so instead, he says is controlling it instead of abstaining. Is this really possible?

2007-01-02 00:40:42 · 18 answers · asked by tryingnottogomad 1 in Singles & Dating

I work for a small company, and I share the front lobby with the office manager, who is a very nice woman, and we get along well. She seems to always be doing things for others and for me. It seems that she wants to be friends with me and she will do something very nice for me, but then the next day she shuts me out or acts unfriendly.. almost as if she is trying to keep her distance from me, or keep me at bay. I feel like its her way of saying, "I like you, but you can only know this much about me, and I will only be nice to you when I feel like it."
I understand it isn't a good idea to be too personal at work, but she is always doing friendly, nice things for me. I need help understanding how I should feel about this. Its unfair for her to throw me off track all the time with her irratic friendliness. I want to tell her "Either be my friend or don't." but that would affect our working relationship. Any advice?

2007-01-02 00:39:54 · 7 answers · asked by Elkie 2 in Friends

I know to say what i feel and i always do..I say shes beautiful whenever i can and say shes closest to perfect always.That shes on my mind every second of the day and never leaves my thoughts.Whats something sweet to maybe fit into a text or two to send to the person you love?Something cute and sweet

2007-01-02 00:36:15 · 10 answers · asked by Judge Fudge 2 in Singles & Dating

I put my heart out there, all pride aside to try an open him up a little regarding the feelings we have for one another. Mine was based on an emotional and possilby irrational feelings. I think he has feelings for me but not the deepth I have for him. I feel very foolish now for being so forth coming with them. But it was something I had to do. I had to know just exactly what his feelings were. I think I took a chance that I should of not, but I told myself what did I have to lose. Should I continue with this or just let it go- wait for his answer even though something tells me it's not the one I am looking for. Is it worth it to continue with my emotions on my sleeve or let it pass

2007-01-02 00:35:54 · 5 answers · asked by slow blonde 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a foreigner and living in stuttgart germany. The problem going on with me is very strange. Whenever I am walking among germans (whites) or sitting in the trains , I always feel myself very angry for no reasons. And I doubt people around me can clearly notice the expression of anger on my face. For example when I see them laughing , or a girl sitting with boy busy in kissing , or ordinary people just sitting calmly etc, then I can feel my heart burning with full of anger. I do not know why? I strongly dislike this behaviour and want to get rid of this situation.

2007-01-02 00:35:47 · 4 answers · asked by Ahmad M 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm never going to see him again, this thing happened 3 1/2 years ago, and i am still so, so angry. i haven't been able to trust or really love a guy since. i think the only way to get the demon off my back is to forgive, but i need some tips i guess. (rape at a party)

2007-01-02 00:35:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been with my husband for 17 years, married for 5 years. i am only 31 and am really unhappy in my marriage, all i want is to be happy and that is not going to happen if i stay with him. we do not go out together or have the same friends, we have a 4 year old daughter, what am i entitled to if i want a separation, do i have to leave the marital home??? i would keep my daughter with me. i care for him but do not love him anymore.

2007-01-02 00:34:49 · 24 answers · asked by gimma 1 in Marriage & Divorce

k i talked to my councelor and she talked to that creep, and i think that he knows that i told cause he is giving me sortof mad looks what do i do?

2007-01-02 00:34:41 · 2 answers · asked by The bored and hyper one 3 in Singles & Dating

How do you know if a older guy likes you if he isnt a perv or anything nasty but really sweet and kind and shy? He is a manager in a department at my work so i know that a manager cant really show interest at work all tho he gave me a hug the other day.......

We are 10 years between our age........im 21 he is 31

2007-01-02 00:34:27 · 2 answers · asked by preppy_gurl101010 1 in Singles & Dating

My dad left my life when I was 5 never been a part of it since then. Well I got married a few years ago and he started calling every couple of months, and my grandma passed away early of 06 and since then he calls just about every day, I havent seen him since she passed away, and then as you can imagine wasnt normal circumstances... so anyhow, he is coming up ( from out of state) to see my husband and I for the weekend next month.. the weekend of his BDay... I am not sure what to do really... I have only seen this man a hand full of times since I was 5 and now all of a sudden he wants to " be there" I dont know what to do when he comes up..... Help me!! Any ideas! Sit around the house talking, or go out so there is less pressure to carry on conversations and enjoy the atmosphere... I dont have a clue!
And..... I am also a little scared that I will end up with a broken heart... as I have for many many years of lies from him....
Confused and 26 years old

2007-01-02 00:33:22 · 19 answers · asked by KTINA 3 in Family

OK heres the deal...I reackon she needs my love to help with her depression...only she thinks shes better off alone...I am depressed too and I need her to help me outta mine! i reakon if we just love each other and take things bit by bit, have trust and rely on one another we could come though this....what do you reackon?

2007-01-02 00:31:58 · 31 answers · asked by JackLove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-02 00:31:22 · 7 answers · asked by fastwateruk 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you know if a older guy likes you if he isnt a perv or anything nasty but really sweet and kind and shy?

We are 10 years between our age

2007-01-02 00:29:33 · 6 answers · asked by preppy_gurl101010 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a lady who I find to be most interesting. She is funny and candid, sometimes sarcastic, and then very serious when necessary.

I always look for her when I am on Answers, and every once in a while I see that she is here, my heart jumps.

I have looked at her 360, and made a comment or two, but she has not replied. I feel stupid, but I can't stop thinking about her.

And no, I'm not a child. We are both in our 30's. I know I'll get over it, but for now, she is definitely my favourite!

Any of you feel like that about someone here?

2007-01-02 00:29:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my dream is to be a prime minister. Is it possible?

2007-01-02 00:29:07 · 7 answers · asked by Mauro C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a friend of mine named "amanda" she's my friend, we talk on the internet "messenger msn" all the time, i told her that i love her more than a friend and she says that she loves me too but she didn't say if it as more than a friend or not. i can't get her out of my mind, she's always there, i'm always thinking of her, writing about her, looking at her pictures, and telling her that i love her all the time(when i get the chance), but she always get me sad, everytime we talk something unusual has to happen, like if i ask her to send me a picture she says NO!, if i ask her to go on webcam she says NO, she doesn't even want to give me the phone # of her house to call her (but i have the # of her cellphone) but everytime i want to call her by phone she doesn't have "minutes" i think that's an excuse. she be telling me that i'm two-faced i don't know what she means by that but i know i'm not what she says i am. what should i do? i really need help with this because it's killin me.

2007-01-02 00:28:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a bad memory came up in my head and its messing with my day. make me feel better...:(

2007-01-02 00:28:25 · 4 answers · asked by Chelsea 3 in Friends

i used to be together with my ex boyfriend for one and a half year. we already seperated for 1 year plus. i felt that he left me for another girl. i found out that his current girlfriend is my friend. yesterday is his birthday and i wished him happy birthday. he asked me for his present and i told him don't have. he say ok. i message him and tell him i give u a sms muack. he say he want a real one. so i did as wat he say. i want to know what is he thinking? since he have a girlfriend why do he still wan me to have tongue to tongue kiss?

2007-01-02 00:27:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wanna ask him out this weekend for coffee, what should I say to let him feel I am making an effort but not too easy to get?

2007-01-02 00:27:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i used to be together with my ex boyfriend for one and a half year. i felt that he left me for another girl. i found out that his current girlfriend is my friend. yesterday is his birthday and i wished him happy birthday. he asked me for his present and i told him don't have. he say ok den. i message him and tell him i give u a sms muack. he say he want a real one. so i did as wat he say. i want to know what is he thinking? since he have a girlfriend why do he still wan me to have tongue to tongue kiss?

2007-01-02 00:25:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is a good girl but she does smoke and is having trouble with school where she is living now which is with her mother. I am doing this for her because I want her to be the best she can be. We have a good relationship together

2007-01-02 00:24:56 · 5 answers · asked by Sonia G 2 in Family

2007-01-02 00:24:38 · 21 answers · asked by Alex G 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy does care about this girl because he waits online for her and her text messages. she told him she likes him better now then her XBF but he doesn't know she left her BF she didn't tell him so much but latelyshe hasn't talked about him much so shouldn't he know then? He knows her XBF hit and pushed her down the stairs and hurt her legs. If he really cared about her shouldn't he do something or should he not get involved with that mess. Now he just comes online but doesn't answer her he is in the military service in Asia they must serve at least two years she doesn't know if he really does care about her..should he tell her XBF something,,,I don't know or at least let her know he cares but maybe he is scared... she just disappeared after telling him she needed to go because she thinks he doesn't care her..

2007-01-02 00:24:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you guys think of lots of freckles?

2007-01-02 00:23:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-02 00:23:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating