I put my heart out there, all pride aside to try an open him up a little regarding the feelings we have for one another. Mine was based on an emotional and possilby irrational feelings. I think he has feelings for me but not the deepth I have for him. I feel very foolish now for being so forth coming with them. But it was something I had to do. I had to know just exactly what his feelings were. I think I took a chance that I should of not, but I told myself what did I have to lose. Should I continue with this or just let it go- wait for his answer even though something tells me it's not the one I am looking for. Is it worth it to continue with my emotions on my sleeve or let it pass
2007-01-02 00:35:54 · 5 answers · asked by slow blonde 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just back off for a time and let it be. The worst things people do in these situations is put pressure on an already stressed relationship. Let him come to you--he knows how you feel.
2007-01-02 00:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy. Unfortunately, for us guys, we have a silly culture of bravado and stupidity. It is entirely possible (but not neccessarily certain) that your boyfriend likes you a great deal, but cannot express it well. Many guys act cool and aloof, and cannot participate in any 'touchy feely' stuff... Or it may be what you suspect, his feelings for you are not as deep as yours for him. But that is true for almost any relationship, yet many such people are happy together. The more important question is that are his feelings for you deep at all... i.e. Does he care about you?
Regardless, you should not feel foolish for expressing your love. I think, no matter the 'logical' arguments, that it will be a very sad day indeed when we need to think whether we should say "I love you" to a loved one.
No one can really switch off or lessen their emotions at will (except maybe monks...). No matter how much we think we feel nothing, we are deceiving ourselves. Its always there at the back of the mind. Its only a matter of finding the time to deal with it. Is the present a good time? Or the future? At any rate, I strongly suggest you talk it over with a good friend whom you can count on. Her listening ear will be a better balm than any advice we can offer (though you may well benefit from them).
2007-01-02 08:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by norman steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it pass, if he has the same feelings for you, he will return them in time.
Good Luck
2007-01-02 08:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let ur heart guide u on this one...
2007-01-02 08:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go...see what happens...good luck
2007-01-02 08:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋