I've talked to girls, at work and online....and some say that, "i know i have a boyfriend, but you're cute" is dat a hint tellin me to try harder and i'll leave him for you? or should i respect the fact that they have a bf and back off?
2007-01-02 20:50:21 · 12 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What they are actually trying to say is "I have a boyfriend, but I would love to sleep with you."
2007-01-02 21:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by ProudToBeWhite 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HUGS from a former service member! You are my hero for doing what you do! Anyway, to answer your question, you don't want someone that would leave their BF for you or would be flirting with you when they have a man already, do you? They don't have much integrity or respect for their significant other if they do that. Just wait till you get home and find a good girl. Nothing wrong with chatting, though! Good luck and GOD BLESS YOU! You are all in my nightly prayers!
2007-01-03 04:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by sailorgidget 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really don`t want a girl who bounces from boyfriend to boyfriend. They don`t stick around long + a higher risk of STDs. How would you like it, if you were that other guy. Cause you will be soon. First you feel guilty then angry. Hope you get some in there somewhere.
2007-01-03 05:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be the skanky guy the girl cheats on. If you really want her and she says that simply say "But you have a boyfriend" and if she says that she'll leave him- wait to start anything. If you don't she might back out mid-relationship with you and leave you heart broken. (you don't want a girl that would cheat on her boyfriend-it only means that she'll eventually cheat on you).
2007-01-03 04:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by Actually it's Ashley! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
good grief people maybe these girls are just payin the man a compliment and he needs to stop lettin it go to his head, thank em for the compliment and just chat.... chattin isnt cheating and i didnt see anywhere where she said anything to the effect of lets hook up she just said your cute! I have a boyfriend i think a lot of my male friends are cute and ive told lots of them that but that doesnt mean i wanna hook up with them
2007-01-03 06:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by jingles 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think she is just looking for someone to flirt with if u want a serious relationship with any lady it has to be with you and only you i.e she has to be single or willing to leave her boyfriend.
2007-01-03 04:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by tricy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say, "That's OK, I won't tell." You'd be surprised at the amount of puss-ee you are going to get! Try it out!
2007-01-03 04:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by morahastits 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means you're good looking and yes id like to be with you, but im with someone and you will one day find the perfect girl for yourself who is also single.
2007-01-03 04:57:44 · answer #8 · answered by julia e 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's a girl who knows she's acting inappropriately and wants you to give her an excuse for it.
If she's doing it to him, she'll do it to you.
2007-01-03 04:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by Bliss 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i guess it means that they may have been taken already but your friendship is special and that she doesn't want to lose you
2007-01-03 04:54:58 · answer #10 · answered by lostinhislostlove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋