Family & Relationships - 2 January 2007

ok, i'm planning this whole romantic homecooked dinner for my loved one for v-day. but the thing is it won't be romantic if i plan it at my crib cuz-my parents will be home, or at his crib cuz his parents will be home. we both r 19. so, i don't know what i should do. go to a hotel or a motel for a night, or ask a friend to let me borrow their crib for a night (doubt they'll let me)? but, n-e-body have n-e suggestions for me?

*i want 2 do this cuz he's always been so romantic w/ me & i wanna return the favor*
**& yes it might be a bit early for v-day plans, but if i put this off & don't start saving up-i will just feel so awful**

thanx in advance

2007-01-02 20:40:31 · 14 answers · asked by Janelle Marie 3 in Singles & Dating

Having great difficulty in finding the one...... have found lots of almosts but never anyone that is perfect....
I am comprimising alot now...... but should i comprmise and lower my standards..... ?

2007-01-02 20:39:06 · 38 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-02 20:38:36 · 5 answers · asked by lara a 1 in Singles & Dating

I believe everything happens for a reason. I would Never ever hurt someone intentionally, I've Never been like that nor would I . I don't believe two wrongs make a right. I believe getting revenge on another person is a work of satan and wrong. I will play along for fun but would never leave someone on the outside looking in. I have to big of a heart to even think about letting that happen to someone let alone writing the words, in which is hard to do. But I have to get my point out there. I think thats where the word Christian, Christ like comes into into meaning. I'm not trying to preach or put you on defense mode but hurting someone intentionally is wrong, don't u think? and if ur just playin isn't it time to say its been fun and part ways? May I die right at this second if Im lying I have nothing to hide, I am who I am, pull up anything u like on me I dont care Im not ashamed of myself, I think Im beautiful, in great shape, talented love my kids and really I love my life. tobecont

2007-01-02 20:38:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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There is dating, playing the field, keeping options open and then there is courting a woman.

Guys do you know what it is to court a woman ? If so, what would / do you do to honorably, respectfuly and valuingly, court a woman ?
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2007-01-02 20:38:01 · 4 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Singles & Dating

my mother in law and father in law moved in with us.We sold our home to buy a bigger one with a in law suite below us.Dad died a yr ago and she is driving me nuts.She started with dementia and is bored and wont do anything but eat,watch tv,complain,and sit in the bathroom.I do everything for her but with her condition she doesnt have much good to say.They have to much time to think.I tried activities,and senior center she will not go.I wish she would die sometimes.Please forgive me for that but I feel stuck and this care giver role is mentally hard on me,,Any other like this>please advise...thanks

2007-01-02 20:37:48 · 2 answers · asked by karen e 2 in Family

am dating a girl who she is 16 yrs old on th e net, she knows that am 25, she loves me and same here should i meet her,,,and do u think guys that this relation will work

2007-01-02 20:36:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-02 20:33:49 · 28 answers · asked by amie 1 in Singles & Dating

whenever he says my name..he says it all fatherly. and he gives me an allowance. but i like that part. but i feel like i have a second dad. would you stay in a relationship like this or would you..ride it out cause you're getting spoiled?

2007-01-02 20:32:20 · 16 answers · asked by ♥ just a girl ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in Qld country area, want to find blog friends, while other countries are great, they are a learning experience, I would love to find people from my area and maybe make friends with people I could meet for coffee etc. Does anyone have any tips on how to do this, jon

2007-01-02 20:31:47 · 4 answers · asked by jonjorj 1 in Singles & Dating

Gents, I'm one of those guys that love to cuddle and caress my lady after we make love. Yup, the afterglow. Hell I even get her a warm wash cloth and towel.

How many of you admit to enjoying this? Ladies you can throw a few comments in there as well. I'm sure you have lots to say about this.

2007-01-02 20:30:23 · 36 answers · asked by Belize69 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-02 20:29:40 · 10 answers · asked by hima b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know a guy and he is a good friend of mine, we had flings and stuff, but i want to move to the next step. but i dont want him to scatter off and never want to see me again. i am going nuts and cant stop thinking what am i about to do. we are both 19. guys and girls pls help. i really like him, but dont know if he likes me back?

2007-01-02 20:28:09 · 13 answers · asked by sweet & sour 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-02 20:27:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Lady is British pakastani. She is married with child but wants to divorce her husband. Legally she can do this but she fears her husband and family wouldn't accept her wishes and she'd either be taken to Pakistan or even killed. Her or child have not been physically harmed by husband and he obviously should have custody rights to see his child so if the lady just left and took their child this would be illegal. But if she doesn't it seems she either has to continue with a life she hates or risk the other consequences. What can she do. (She has tried for years to make her marriage work and can't)

2007-01-02 20:27:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 29 years old and I just can't see myself with a wife and kids. I don't like being alone but it's like at the same time I don't want all the responsibilities that come with having a family. Is it normal to think this way? I've been on websites about people who are "childfree by choice" and they seem very happy like that.

2007-01-02 20:26:59 · 9 answers · asked by AL IS ON VACATION AND HAS NO PIC 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

what do you do if you are going out with this guy but you start to like one of his best friends??

2007-01-02 20:26:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a christian and whenever i pray and ask for something from God i usually get it in no time. At the age of 27 i still haven't got not even a steady bf. All the boyfriends i get leave as soon as i tell them that i only intend to lose my virginity after marriage. I've always been praying for this but up to now i still haven't got one yet. Is it that i was born never to get married or i'm going wrong somewhere.

2007-01-02 20:26:22 · 9 answers · asked by Sammy 2 in Singles & Dating

999/1000 people will say no...but I do. I say this because I take marriage vows seriously, and that them cheating is an extremity of 'or worse'- I think they are your spouse and you are obligated to work it out with them. I completely understand and agree with the view that...hey, its your life, you don't have to put up with that ****, and you deserve better...but this is my view. What do you think?

2007-01-02 20:25:59 · 24 answers · asked by fslcaptain737 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-02 20:24:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well im 28 and 8 months now and i think its time for a baby! My cousin Herbert came to see me,brother,mother,shadow and Llama last night, we cooked him a gorgeous kipper stew! Mother told me it was about time i had a child so she asked cousin Herbert if he would do the honuors and give me a baby! He said he would so she pushed me and him into cupboard and we did it! Brother has just done a pregnancy test on me, shadow licked it to check the result and told me i was pregnant! Mother,brother and Llama are dancing with joy and they keep smelling my stomach! They are so excited they have even named a kipper Herbert after my cousin! Anyway my question is when i told the local shopkeeper the good news he told me to get out he told me my baby would be a freak! Why did he say this i mean is it because i eat kippers will this harm the baby? Should i start eating Cod? sent

2007-01-02 20:23:28 · 37 answers · asked by fletch 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

cheating on me,even though she was not,ive compleatly alienated all my friends,im seeing a councillor to help me but i keep cancelling the appointment cause i dont feel comfotable in talking to them,what do i do to relieve this problem i got,(please no silly answers cause im looking for advice from peolpe who might have been through this before as this is a serious matter to me or if anyone has good advice

2007-01-02 20:23:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-02 20:20:48 · 11 answers · asked by ikhlaq_mu 1 in Singles & Dating

I am pregnant with my 4th child and trying to make a life for my children and I. I think I would have a great chance to do this in NY with my sister but there is this really amazing guy _would make the perfect hubby and father that wants me to stay in CA and marry him...I only have doubts about a few small things that bug me about him...I am just having a hard time making this desison..help!!

2007-01-02 20:20:32 · 10 answers · asked by Amy Oh81 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing this girl since the summer and we knew who eachother was a long time ago but never got to know eachother till now. I could really see myself with her. This isn't my first serious relationship I'm not just having delusions of grandeur but I want to be realistic. I was also her first too (which can be good and bad for the long term(bad cause she'd wanna try other guys maybe??? Last GF did)) How many people marrysomeone they dated since college?

2007-01-02 20:18:57 · 14 answers · asked by Matt J 1 in Singles & Dating

there be one? We have days for all sorts of things but not friends. Anyone else agree?

2007-01-02 20:17:44 · 11 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5 in Friends

she lyks me 2 shes a bisexual how cn i make her hot n kiss me ?????

2007-01-02 20:16:50 · 11 answers · asked by tanya 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy's voice gets soft and calm when he talks to me. He makes me feel safe. I wonder if he's interested.

2007-01-02 20:15:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have friends, but it just seems like veryone else has a group of friends that all hang out and do fun things together. How do I do this? I want maybe, 4 or 5 other people that share my interests.

2007-01-02 20:15:50 · 5 answers · asked by Rachel 1 in Singles & Dating

there is an opening for the position of ppw's bestest friend so maybe your friend has a shot!

2007-01-02 20:15:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends